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it is too late now
SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 737 reads
posted
1 / 27

But in your case Robbin, I would come up with a different theme for your post..

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 759 reads
posted
2 / 27

But that being said, giving you benefit of doubt, if something like that really happened I would see a good legal counsel. Posting on TER is probably the worst thing to do...

Fridays117 27 Reviews 581 reads
posted
3 / 27

I agree with Curly.  Seek legal counsel and stop posting on TER about it.  This site doesn't need that kind of heat.

Before you drag the sordid past up, think about what you want to get from the attention it will bring.  Justice? Punishment for him? Fame for you? Money?  If he's that big a name you will probably get the last 2 things but not the first 2.  Here's the rub though.  If he's that "big" he probably has deeper pockets for legal counsel than you, so any monetary gain might be minimal.

Panthera12 648 reads
posted
4 / 27

I doubt the media would even touch such a "story" from you and you know that. The statute of limitations may have ran out on your imaginary incident, but slander and defamation of character will not improve your poor image.  

Is the character in your story deceased? I have noticed that you have injected yourself into the lives of the post-mortem in the past.

MrRate 526 reads
posted
5 / 27

So of about thirty women in the Crosby case NOT ONE woman filed charges? Not one? I find that unbelievable. Can you say UVA/Rolling Stone? Maybe?

MrRate 576 reads
posted
6 / 27

Pretty easy to do defame someone deceased. Pretty pathetic attempt at a threAD no?

cocktail-party 575 reads
posted
7 / 27

And now, with your history in the adult industry, no one will take your accusation seriously. At the very least you'll be branded a gold digger.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 602 reads
posted
8 / 27

...but going to the media is a lot different than discussing your experience with a support group, therapist, or trusted friend/relative. Personally, I think that rapists should be publicly humiliated, but going to the media with something like that without irrefutable evidence would serve more to paint you as money/fame-hungry than it would to shame the perpetrator. Sadly, coming forward long after the incident will do more harm than good.  

Posted By: RobbinYoung
While civie dating, you were drugged and sexually assaulted, by a famous person, would you come forward and tell the facts to the media (if the statute of limitations had run out) or...would you STFU and take the info to your grave?

funseeker579 619 reads
posted
9 / 27

Robin,
     As prior posters have said, there are at least two aspects to your question, the legal and the practical.  I'm afraid that Tobi has it right as to the practical, but you should be aware that if you seek legal advice, which you should, just to put your mind at ease, each state has it's own statute of limitations for crimes and/or injuries of this type.  So, be sure to talk with someone in the state where your unfortunate attack occurred.  Hopefully that lawyer will be familiar with both criminal actions that could be brought as well as any civil action available to you.  Again, as Tobi has pointed out, you may have sufficient legal grounds, but the practical problems of proving what and how it happened will likely be too difficult to overcome.

89Springer 486 reads
posted
10 / 27

Just a couple of names to consider.  

Juanita Broderick was, if you don't remember, a volunteer for Bill Clinton's campaigns. Very credible person. She alleged rape by him and was torn apart by the media. She got nowhere, except to have her reputation ruined.

Roman Polanski drugged and raped a 14 year-old girl, fled the US, and is still a media and Hollywood celebrity. The US has been unable to get extradition from the various European countries who harbor him.

Unless you have a smoking gun, I'd say you're pretty much screwed.

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 411 reads
posted
11 / 27

I would have made sure they got a DNA sample so I can prove that I had his sperm on me secondly I wouldn't have gone in as a woman in Hollywood let's just say I was one of those women I wouldn't have gone to an older black mans house thinking we're going to talk and have cocktails as friends wouldn't have put myself in that position in the first place.
   and even as an escort I would not go to an older mans house who I know might want to f*** me to just sit and shoot the s*** and talk. I know how men are granted I go hang out with plenty of old men all the time but I know what I'm there to do and they are paying me to be there he's younger beautiful aspiring actresses. I mean going to an older man's house you don't find attractive that you don't want to f*** what do you thinks going to happen I personally have seen the worst in people being an escort you sometimes see the darker side of what men are capable of. Would you ever catch me as an aspiring actress at Bill Cosby's house thinking anything but something sketchy was going to go down. Him knowing I was an aspiring actress let's just say. I am like 30 years younger than him then I show up at his door ready to drink with him by myself at night mind you. Granted I can see going there to f*** him to try to get a leg up in the industry and work your sex to your advantage. I just can't picture going there thinking it's a good idea to get chummy with an older no offence kind of creepy older black guy and just showing up to like have drinks with him. I first of all would not have been in that position anyway unless I knew I was going there to do something shady in exchange for some help getting into the biz better I would never go to the media I would have went straight to the police station and made sure they got a DNA sample off my skin so I could prove it and then I would have lawyer.when they are going on TV shows and they are nobodies we have not seen or heard from in 30 years and we know they are getting paid for these appearances on the TV shows its not making them look out to be sincerely a rape victim wanting to get their story out taking him to court and going to the police would have been better I look at them as they wanted money to make an appearance Janice Dickinson is obviously addicted to plastic surgery and she sure as hell is not getting asked to go on any talk shows I've never seen or heard of her except for that stupid model show that nobody cares about. But now she's getting paid to make appearances on all kinds of shows she's probably due for another nose job or whatever she definitely is addicted to plastic surgery I think they should take into consideration going to the police going straight to the courthouse but where there are all these appearances where the people are getting paid it's really getting blurred what their motives are exactly are they doing this because they want justice or are they doing it because they want 4000 dollars they get paid to go on somebody's TV show and where none of them seem to have anything else going for them and they all seem like kind of washed up old nobodies I think it seems like they're doing it for the money for the TV shows.I just think when it is somebody that is that famous and has that much money unless there is etched in stone evidence I'm sure plenty of people would love to go around throwing accusations so they can get their hands in his wallet I think accusations verbally are one thing but I think we're none of them have DNA samples and none of them filed police reports after the rape I don't think 30 years later it's really justified to be coming out and causing trouble for the guy and what it comes down to is it's their word against his I personally and honestly am on his side and I don't know what they thought was going to happen going to his house I know I sure as f*** wouldn't complain about it if I put myself in a bad situation with some old creepy guy and I go hang out at his house alone and drink with him I've had plenty of bad things happen to me when I drink I never went back and told the person they were with us the next day I just told myself I will not drink anymore and don't put myself in that situation I don't know what they thought was going to happen you can't go hanging out with older men and drinking with them and being friends with them women have to protect themselves if you're there to give sex to get a leg up in the industry that was his game that was what he played if they realize that's what he wanted they should have got the hell out of there and since when do people not watch the drinks being poured pretty much everyone knows to watch a man when he is near your drink isn't that common knowledge. The fact that they are making all these paid appearances all over TV in this day in age with the amount of pathological liars and people that don't have any money that will do anything to get money. He has so much money he could hire a beautiful Playboy bunny model escort to roleplay a date rape fantasy for f*** sake. The man is a highly intelligent successful actor I do not believe that he is just so obsessed with date raping that he couldn't control himself I believe if he had wanted to date rape he had enough money he could pay a damn escort to roleplay a damn date rape fantasy for f*** sake. The right thing to do would have been to go straight to the police station after file a police report get the DNA sample if they don't have any of this type of evidence all they have is their word that it happened 30 years ago well your word is not enough to prosecute someone in this day and age. You need proof beyond a reasonable doubt in our justice system. A bunch of washed up old women coming out of the blue making all these paid appearances that is not reason beyond a reasonable doubt to prove anything. If any of them have DNA samples and police reports from the next morning when they realized it happened then I would believe them so far I have not heard anything about anything close to that all I see is washed up old women getting paid a lot of money to make appearances and tell stories. And the fact that his tour got cancelled I think is absolutely asinine and I feel terrible for him I don't feel bad for them at all when you go directly to the media with a story and you're getting paid to tell the story you just look like a washed up old nobody that has no money and is looking to get free money why don't any of them have police reports why didn't any of them go to the police after this happened if it was as traumatising as they say it was. I think when famous people with a lot of money are involved they really really have to take a look at the facts because there are going to be people that are going to want that money and they are going to do tedious scandalous things to try to take that money from that person. I can't even imagine me ever going to Bill Cosby's to like sit down and say hi to him alone at night in his house alone with him and then agree to start drinking with him and then complain that a bunch of drama happened after what did they think was going to happen. You just can't go drink with horny old men and not have them try stuff on you and everyone and their mother knows not to let people be alone with their drinks so don't let me hear that they didn't know he was doing that I think they're washed up old nobody is looking for some free money

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 439 reads
posted
12 / 27

it is too late now. Going to the police immediately after something happens and getting scientific proof that will hold up in court like DNA sample of body fluids on you. Unfortunately in our justice system people have to be proved beyond a reasonable doubt and just a accusation verbally is not enough to get anyone convicted or to have anyone believe you either. I know for me if I have anyone threaten to commit a crime stock me if I ever seen anything I suspected was worth noting I would call the police and make sure I have a copy of the police report I don't care if I am an escort I don't care what I am doing if something sketchy happens I will make sure I have a police report of it. If you do not have a police report of something when something does go down you're screwed.if I were a judge and someone showed up just making verbal accusations I would not even bother I would say why didn't you go to the police station and file a police report I am sure there are hundreds of women that have had things happen and they didn't go to the police at the time of the crime and you cannot convicte a criminal just on your words if that were the case there would be a lot of innocent people in prison right now

JackDunphy 441 reads
posted
13 / 27

Arent convicted rapists publically humiliated in the media? Or did you mean something different.  
Not following you here.

CubaGoodingJRsMama 477 reads
posted
14 / 27

I'm sure the next celeb to kick the bucket she'll be using it to promote herself by saying ONCE AGAIN how she met them, blah blah blah!

She's only a legend in her own clouded, delusional mind.

Panthera12 444 reads
posted
15 / 27

I can't believe that people on this thread actually believe her story in the first place.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 550 reads
posted
16 / 27

Posted By: JackDunphy
Arent convicted rapists publically humiliated in the media? Or did you mean something different.  
 Not following you here.
I don't know if you thought I meant that strictly in terms of celebrities, but I was speaking in generalities (the media isn't going to do a story on every rape conviction in the country) and wasn't specifically referring to humiliation of the "headline" variety. If someone is a proven rapist, they deserve to have that follow them for the rest of their lives. That's one of the nice things about the sex offender registry.

CubaGoodingJRsMama 465 reads
posted
18 / 27

And she's an opportunist as well. She would get SLAYED in court. Not even Gloria Allred would touch her once she did a background check. Of course Robbin would be ecstatic to get her face on TV and would milk it for all it's worth.

She's already dreaming of her press conference no one who attend.

CubaGoodingJRsMama 464 reads
posted
19 / 27

Your background as an celebrity wannabe, opportunistic, fallen on hard times woman in the sex industry that DID try to sue a guy before. And then there were all of the orgies at the Playboy House you claim to have participated in. Not saying it's fair but yep you'd get slayed in court big time.

It would be best to think of another way to get paid without really 'working'.

MrRate 415 reads
posted
20 / 27

If you read all that much less understood it. Absurd.

JackDunphy 420 reads
posted
21 / 27

I thought you were saying we should go up and beyond what we do now as a society. I was just seeing what you meant and, part # 2 if you meant for "convicted" rapists as to "accused" rapists, but you cleared up point 2 with your response.

Every rape I know of makes all the news and is very public. True, not everyone of them reaches lengthy article status in Rolling Stone or the NY Times, I'll grant you that, nor do they reach Bill Cosby status.

This is just a sticky wicket for me. I know women who have been raped and I know guys who were falsely accused. Of course it shouldn't need to be said but the women get the short end of the stick with the "he said/she said" situation all too often, but I am not sure how else to handle it without witnesses or other compelling evidence of guilt.

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JackDunphy 523 reads
posted
22 / 27

Believe their hooker has 4-5 orgasms per session and routinely visit Thailand, go on Safari in Africa and scale Mt. Vesuvius, so why would Robbins story be too far fetched for these dumbasses

Panthera12 492 reads
posted
23 / 27

and no, I didn't go near the natives and only slept with my sidearm.  
Yes, gullibility sometimes flourishes here.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 386 reads
posted
24 / 27

And yes, I meant situations that meet a legal burden of proof, not every accusation. I was basically saying that when it comes to proven rapists, they deserve every bit of exposure and humiliation that they get. I don't think we necessarily need to bring back the stocks in our town squares or anything.  

Posted By: JackDunphy
I thought you were saying we should go up and beyond what we do now as a society. I was just seeing what you meant and, part # 2 if you meant for "convicted" rapists as to "accused" rapists, but you cleared up point 2 with your response.  
   
 Every rape I know of makes all the news and is very public. True, not everyone of them reaches lengthy article status in Rolling Stone or the NY Times, I'll grant you that, nor do they reach Bill Cosby status.  
   
 This is just a sticky wicket for me. I know women who have been raped and I know guys who were falsely accused. Of course it shouldn't need to be said but the women get the short end of the stick with the "he said/she said" situation all too often, but I am not sure how else to handle it without witnesses or other compelling evidence of guilt.

-- Modified on 12/10/2014 7:38:07 PM

GaGambler 421 reads
posted
25 / 27

At least where it comes to the "stocks in our town squares" If it were ever to come on the ballot, I can pretty much guarantee, you would vote for it. lol

Ok, I probably would vote for it as well.

skarphedin 424 reads
posted
26 / 27

Point at someone (especially a brother) and say the word "rape" and damn near everyone lines up to get their good guy merit badges and their licks in....  

God forbid it is a white woman who brings the charge. Then a defendant is mad to go to trial...  

Thank god for the Appellate Process, the Justice Project and DNA.

hbyist+truth=;( 361 reads
posted
27 / 27

I have a good arm and a good aim and would travel to lay a few on a rapist. Oh and if a lady falsely accuses a guy and it is proven without a shadow, she gets the stocks as well for being a douche bag.

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