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It is something I love to do...
innyc77 29 Reviews 205 reads
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MasterZen 34 Reviews 323 reads
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outright sulk about it if denied.

FIDCUOF 257 reads
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FoxCar71 27 Reviews 156 reads
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If a woman (either a provider or a civvie) doesn't love being eaten out, and I know some women either don't like it, or are at best indifferent to it, then I won't waste my time with her

Senator.Blutarsky 216 reads
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While I might be disappointed, I'm not going to let it ruin the fun. I'm more than happy finding alternate ways to please my partner if she doesn't care to be stimulated by my tongue. While most enjoy a good tongue lashing, I have encountered a few that didn't and we still had a great time together.  

Solo mis dos centavos.

Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 255 reads
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I love a man who knows how to use his tongue!!! Ooooooohhhhh lala!!

ziggy440 84 Reviews 207 reads
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Apparently there has also been some social research on it, and men like it a lot more as they age (after 40, I think). As I look back on my development, I think that is because I was clueless and intimidated when younger; not any more.

Whatever the reason, I love labia, and all the rest. I lose myself happily in exploring, enjoying and experiencing the response of my partner.

Dan Savage, a great sex columnist for those who might not know him, once counseled a lady who did not like receiving oral sex that she should just pick younger sex partners. Since then I have queried providers and generally gotten confirmation - 60 year old guys want to eat you forever, 20 somethings aren't interested at all.

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chef1275 159 reads
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Many times I actually prefer an extended meeting of making out, touching,  an especially giving and recieving oral!

GaGambler 246 reads
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As for me, I only like it when the woman truly gets off on it. AND I have to be very attracted to the lady if I am going to be putting my face down there. I will accept a blow job from just about any woman, I have to be attracted a lady to actually fuck her and I have to be very attracted to her to go down on her.

As for being "conditioned" to think that's what women want, if you want to say that having had countless civvies who weren't getting paid to make me "feel good about myself" ask me for it as being "conditioned" to think they liked it, then guilty as charged.

Some women absolutely love it and they will reward their partner for doing it, other women are kind of meh about it, and other women just plain don't enjoy it all. I think you most likely fall into category number 2

bigguy30 138 reads
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It's nothing better, making a lady cum on a date and then she returns the favor.  

Posted By: chef1275
Many times I actually prefer an extended meeting of making out, touching,  an especially giving and recieving oral!

Grey8Buddy 22 Reviews 178 reads
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... and civilian or pro, that means always asking for feedback.  
    Especially if the lady in question is shy about telling you IF
 or HOW she enjoys receiving oral sex...  
 we can only learn what you like if you let us know!  ; b

On a side note, I think that if she prefers you not go there it could be  
because she's too sensitive,  has had too many poor experiences with
 guys who get it all wrong (and don't care to be educated) or would really
 rather just get on with the rest of the festivities... but would love to hear the
 other side, as always!

-- Modified on 5/3/2016 3:25:01 PM

termeup 6 Reviews 165 reads
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I enjoy it in and of itself.  The odor of a fresh pussy and the deep intimacy that the act implies is a total turn on for me.  And, of course, if the woman is enjoying it as well....

kayla9791 See my TER Reviews 189 reads
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I agree. I like it when it's done well. If a man knows exactly what's he's doing it's heavenly. If I think he needs some guidance I'll politely give some pointers.  

Posted By: CatherineBanging
It's not that I don't enjoy it....I just enjoy it done well😊    
   
Posted By: GaGambler
As for me, I only like it when the woman truly gets off on it. AND I have to be very attracted to the lady if I am going to be putting my face down there. I will accept a blow job from just about any woman, I have to be attracted a lady to actually fuck her and I have to be very attracted to her to go down on her.  
     
  As for being "conditioned" to think that's what women want, if you want to say that having had countless civvies who weren't getting paid to make me "feel good about myself" ask me for it as being "conditioned" to think they liked it, then guilty as charged.  
     
  Some women absolutely love it and they will reward their partner for doing it, other women are kind of meh about it, and other women just plain don't enjoy it all. I think you most likely fall into category number 2.  
 

FIDCUOF 176 reads
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How do you like it ?  Slow and gentle ?  Or otherwise ?  Please describe

MasterZen 34 Reviews 133 reads
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a favorite activity, nonetheless.

arrowman 41 Reviews 102 reads
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Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 168 reads
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You should come visit  & find out!!! 😁😁😁😁

Senator.Blutarsky 174 reads
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Oh the things that I would love to explore...

stickit55 29 Reviews 129 reads
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It is something that is an absolute turn on for me. Especially if the lady is enjoying it makes it more intense.

ThePeopleRule 178 reads
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The reviews of one 30-something provider noted that she needs a very light touch over an extended period of time in order to orgasm.  Every guy who posted a review gave up.  I was eager to take the challenge and booked 90 minutes so there would be enough time.

The lady guided me through how she need my tongue stimulating her.  Forty-five minutes is the longest time my Energizer Tongue has kept moving.

For me, light licking is more difficult to maintain than stronger and faster licking.

I enjoy experiencing the variety of female sexual response.  

Signed,
No Woman Yet Has Worn Me Out

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 180 reads
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The look in a man's eyes after he gets me off is amazing. It's a really cool look. Kind of like the look I got by my niece when I took her tea cup, put up my finger, and took an actual sip. The girl I swear to god almost shit her pants she was so excited. I was like "wtf is she so excited for?" My sister is like 'No one ever actually drinks her tea." LOL.  

I think guys know when the orgasm is real, because many people fake. I'm sure some chemicals ooze out of the skin, and set something off. Maybe that's why I get a lot of returners.

I have noticed a couple of dudes getting sick of getting me off, so I'll have to time it and fake it if I don't orgasm in ten minutes - that or dump 'em and find more guys who love DATY. LOL.

-- Modified on 5/3/2016 5:16:45 PM

jelloman42 10 Reviews 109 reads
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...no kidding...

I derive a great deal of satisfaction in the physical and aural feedback I get that tells me I'm doing it well...

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 91 reads
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PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 109 reads
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I would rather it done like that and come bat shit crazy than   half ass  so you keep that shit up  ❤

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 126 reads
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when it's shaved smooth.  If I have to hack my way through the jungle, its not worth the trip.

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 97 reads
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For me to DATY. I rarely if ever do it on the first date. If I do, then it's was probably with someone who just blew me away. But I'm game for anything else but to me, DATY is just something that I have to get the feel of that person first.

Layonaisthe1 See my TER Reviews 131 reads
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jelloman42 10 Reviews 100 reads
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HerrZunge 74 Reviews 115 reads
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I have always enjoyed exploring a woman's pussy with my tongue.

I love when a woman opens up and lays back, allowing me to pleasure her with my tongue. On the one hand, she is ignoring me, just enjoying the stimulation I am providing. Many times, the woman will have her eyes closed, kind of off in another world, concentrating on the feeling that is building between her thighs.

At the moment of orgasm, I have often thought that a woman is at her most vulnerable state. She is completely abandoning herself to the orgasm that she experiences. The cool-down period after a woman reaches orgasm is nice, kissing her thighs and her belly, hearing her say "Thank you, I really needed that."

I enjoy the sensual side of sex. It seems like giving a woman an orgasm through oral sex tends to slow the evening down to a more sensual experience for both of us.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 92 reads
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you're in a business meeting and have a little piece of spinach stuck in your teeth.  Pussy floss would be even worse!

RSpork 23 Reviews 104 reads
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Pussy floss and pussy breath make every occasion special, including meetings with the CFO!
Unshaven just means you're old school, like driving a stick.

lopaw 29 Reviews 73 reads
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englishguy 79 reads
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Plus I've been told by lots of women that I really good at it, and most seem to love it...

However my current ATF is not really into it, go figure...

jelloman42 10 Reviews 104 reads
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...I don't go to those kinds of meetings...;-)

keystonekid 114 Reviews 82 reads
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better. Women are different in what pleases one might not please another.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 101 reads
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Like differences in facial and body beauty, the appeal of DATY varies woman to woman.

I'd say the vast majority of guys like the thought of getting their women off.  But also it becomes an acquired taste.  What sense does it make to kiss a neck or nibble on an ear?  So DATY is just a variation of oral exploration.

I think trying to get an escort off with DATY, while at the same time paying for it, just shows that we try to be mensches.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 111 reads
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I can't cum when I feel like someone is getting tired or frustrated or worried while going down on me.

I can't cum when that is happening unless I start thinking about some really dirty shit.

But I really really want an orgasm, so I don't masturbate for like 24 hours before my appointments. (heh)  

I have two choices. I can either start watching some crazy porn a few days beforehand to sear into my brain (Porn image rolodex we call it,) or I can just fake it.

I will choose option #1 - starting - right - now.

Night folks.

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 94 reads
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vantheman666 11 Reviews 89 reads
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It's another nice way of "feeling her up."  And also, if I get her to the point where she's almost there, then she's more likely to orgasm during intercourse...and that's always a good feeling.

mrblond68 4 Reviews 91 reads
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Based on experience, most women do not want it. I love it, and if a woman lets me, I will spend all night doing it. Most men I know balk at the idea of doing it.

Dr. joe 32 Reviews 107 reads
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DATY-DATO-and sharing a climax with a woman.  The best is DATY leading to a big climax.  I can taste the lady climaxing.  I also enjoy a lady coming to climax while I DATO, usually while she uses a vibrator.  I also just love to share a woman's climax.  Of the last 3 providers I have visited: one climaxed using a vibratory while I kissed her and pressed her abdomen just where it would stimulate her g spot.  The second came in my mouth during DATY. The third climaxed while I stimulated her g spot with my fingers.  I loved all three

scoed 8 Reviews 87 reads
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That is what I want. DATY is just one way many ladies take pleasure, but like all sex acts I realize it isn't for every lady. I enjoy pleasing my partners. That is what I enjoy about DATY, well that and the view.

liloverman 66 Reviews 73 reads
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Posted By: CatherineBanging
So, it this something men really love or have they just been conditioned to think it is what women want?
I can almost get off going down on a woman.  If she is clean and let's me finger her, I can almost always make her cum (and squirt!!!)

Some women don't like it (my wife included). I have met women who didn't like it but found out afterwards that their guy just didn't know how to read her.  
Everyone is different.

I love feeling a woman come while my tongue is playing with her clit while my fingers are massaging her g-spot.

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