outright sulk about it if denied.

Love it

If a woman (either a provider or a civvie) doesn't love being eaten out, and I know some women either don't like it, or are at best indifferent to it, then I won't waste my time with her

While I might be disappointed, I'm not going to let it ruin the fun. I'm more than happy finding alternate ways to please my partner if she doesn't care to be stimulated by my tongue. While most enjoy a good tongue lashing, I have encountered a few that didn't and we still had a great time together.  

I love a man who knows how to use his tongue!!! Ooooooohhhhh lala!!

Apparently there has also been some social research on it, and men like it a lot more as they age (after 40, I think). As I look back on my development, I think that is because I was clueless and intimidated when younger; not any more.

Many times I actually prefer an extended meeting of making out, touching,  an especially giving and recieving oral!

As for me, I only like it when the woman truly gets off on it. AND I have to be very attracted to the lady if I am going to be putting my face down there. I will accept a blow job from just about any woman, I have to be attracted a lady to actually fuck her and I have to be very attracted to her to go down on her.

It's nothing better, making a lady cum on a date and then she returns the favor.  

... and civilian or pro, that means always asking for feedback.  
    Especially if the lady in question is shy about telling you IF
 or HOW she enjoys receiving oral sex...  
 we can only learn what you like if you let us know!  ; b

I enjoy it in and of itself.  The odor of a fresh pussy and the deep intimacy that the act implies is a total turn on for me.  And, of course, if the woman is enjoying it as well....

I agree. I like it when it's done well. If a man knows exactly what's he's doing it's heavenly. If I think he needs some guidance I'll politely give some pointers.  

How do you like it ?  Slow and gentle ?  Or otherwise ?  Please describe

a favorite activity, nonetheless.

You should come visit  & find out!!! 😁😁😁😁

Oh the things that I would love to explore...

It is something that is an absolute turn on for me. Especially if the lady is enjoying it makes it more intense.

The reviews of one 30-something provider noted that she needs a very light touch over an extended period of time in order to orgasm.  Every guy who posted a review gave up.  I was eager to take the challenge and booked 90 minutes so there would be enough time.

The look in a man's eyes after he gets me off is amazing. It's a really cool look. Kind of like the look I got by my niece when I took her tea cup, put up my finger, and took an actual sip. The girl I swear to god almost shit her pants she was so excited. I was like "wtf is she so excited for?" My sister is like 'No one ever actually drinks her tea." LOL.  

...no kidding...

I would rather it done like that and come bat shit crazy than   half ass  so you keep that shit up  ❤

when it's shaved smooth.  If I have to hack my way through the jungle, its not worth the trip.

For me to DATY. I rarely if ever do it on the first date. If I do, then it's was probably with someone who just blew me away. But I'm game for anything else but to me, DATY is just something that I have to get the feel of that person first.

I have always enjoyed exploring a woman's pussy with my tongue.

you're in a business meeting and have a little piece of spinach stuck in your teeth.  Pussy floss would be even worse!

Pussy floss and pussy breath make every occasion special, including meetings with the CFO!
Unshaven just means you're old school, like driving a stick.

Plus I've been told by lots of women that I really good at it, and most seem to love it...

...I don't go to those kinds of meetings...

better. Women are different in what pleases one might not please another.

Like differences in facial and body beauty, the appeal of DATY varies woman to woman.

I can't cum when I feel like someone is getting tired or frustrated or worried while going down on me.

It's another nice way of "feeling her up."  And also, if I get her to the point where she's almost there, then she's more likely to orgasm during intercourse...and that's always a good feeling.

Based on experience, most women do not want it. I love it, and if a woman lets me, I will spend all night doing it. Most men I know balk at the idea of doing it.

DATY-DATO-and sharing a climax with a woman.  The best is DATY leading to a big climax.  I can taste the lady climaxing.  I also enjoy a lady coming to climax while I DATO, usually while she uses a vibrator.  I also just love to share a woman's climax.  Of the last 3 providers I have visited: one climaxed using a vibratory while I kissed her and pressed her abdomen just where it would stimulate her g spot.  The second came in my mouth during DATY. The third climaxed while I stimulated her g spot with my fingers.  I loved all three

That is what I want. DATY is just one way many ladies take pleasure, but like all sex acts I realize it isn't for every lady. I enjoy pleasing my partners. That is what I enjoy about DATY, well that and the view.