I have become smitten with a provider, she is amazing. I am wanting to see her once or twice a week!  Should she give me a break on the price if I am a weekly regular?

-- Modified on 3/10/2008 2:58:45 PM

Good luck in asking her, and your smitteness may take a ding if she says no.

-- Modified on 3/10/2008 4:00:32 PM

That sounds like a surefire way to NOT become a regular visitor. Personally, I'd keep that question to myself and enjoy her at her posted rates.

I see no reason you shouldn't mention how much you enjoy spending time with her though!

Just because you became smitten with her does not mean she is smitten with you. I really like a particular restaurant and eat there 3-4 times a week for lunch, should they give me a discount?

She is running a business thus you either pay her rates or not.

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Well I have a few reg Gents who I do go over the time with, and that really is a discount. So I don't think if I were you I would ask that of her. If she is a low volume provider, and time is limited as it is with me, I have a certain amount I need each week.  Prebooked appts can allow me to let things get carried away and not worry about the time so much. But that also doesn't mean every time he sees me we are off the clock. Some tend to think once you have done that, it's going to be that way every time.
Just like any other business, it needs to be clear. I hate to talk about finances with my Gentlemen, but when I get put in that possition, I have to.  I guess you could ask, but I don't think it's wise.  You could tell her although you want to see her more often, you can't afford to. If she chooses to give you a discount, she'll let you know.

I agree with everybody here.  I have someone I stopped seeing because he kept mistaking my rate and kept asking to lower it.  Nobody like to be lowballed.

If you expect the same service everytime, you should pay the same rate, or more- if you're really trying to show her that you appreciate her time, you're more likely to get more "bang for your buck" if you give a little extra, rather than a little less.