Ok so maybe I'm an idiot (ok wisecrackers)...............    but I have next to zero experience with massage, and as I am interested in trying it, I have been doing my research.

From what I gather, a "rubntug" can be had for in the range of 50 plus tip (20-40).  

Now I was looking for the private providers of FBSM, and they all seem to charge in the 200 range.

What exactly am I missing?

I would prefer to be able to see a private and reviewed FBSM provider, but I don't get spending the same fee that I would on a FS provider.

Can someone school this massage noob?

60 half 80 hour not into the tug so full menu adds 80 to 120 but the sauna table shower and massage are normally very good.

The less expensive a car you purchase - the less luxury you are riding in. Does that comparison work?

I have been practicing massage for 16 years in both sensual and therapeutic modalities.
I no longer practice just massage. But when I did sensual massage, my having a CMT background justified for more in donation. Then there's my time in service - knowing how to do the job well and loving to do it counts again toward donation. Also think of the atmosphere you will be introduced to - will it be clean and well decorated with attention paid to small details - another thing that will ante up a donation.

Would you rather go to a place where it is sort of nice and you may get someone friendly who pretends to like their job, where you will get sub-par service from an uninterested partner?
Or .... Like a man who wants to buy a luxury car ...
Would you rather pay the extra donation because you know exactly what you are getting because it is what you told the search you wanted, had reviews to refer you and the service was above and beyond anything you'd tried before?

Same rule applies for FS in this Hobby, my friend.


It's your choice now my young grasshopper - may the force be with you!
Kissez that make you melt,
Sage

Funny thing, I have seen low end ladies and I have seen higher end ladies for my area and I often have a better time with the lower end ladies. Price does not equal quality.

Then again I don't like luxury cars as they tend to spend way to much time in the shop. I am a simple man who likes simple things.

that bmw don't get you anywhere my ford wont for half the price.

And in the end - it is to each his own ...
I  like my cars fast and fancy - but then again I ride a motorcycle more often than drive a car.
If you want to settle for less than the best - it usually does cost less  
Kissez that maker your heart race,
Sage

In my opinion the best cars are the most reliable, and they are not the the most expensive but the simplest.

In my opinion the best ladies are the most down to earth and again they are not the most expensive. I have seen one out of town high end lady it cost me $2500 for a two hour romp. She was really pretty, smart, skilled and freaky but she was fake. It was OK but that is it.

I have seen a few of the most expensive ladies in my area, but again they where hot, skilled, smart and willing but not the most enjoyable time I have had with a paid date.

I bedded a former national beauty pageant contestant. She had great reviews and everything. Not the best.

The some of best sessions I have booked were lower end ladies. One lady looked absolutely stunning and made me feel wanted and at ease. Not one of the $300 plus ladies managed to put me at ease or really made me feel wanted. Her price $160 an hour. I will see her again in a month as that is as soon as I am allowed to.

I paid much more than that I doubled her hourly rate as paying less would have been robbing her. And no she didn't know I left her extra until after as she called me to tell me I over paid and to arrange to return the excess.

Who's settling? Price does no equal quality. You don't always get what you paid for. Some times the best is the cheapest. Some time it is not. I plan on seeing some upper priced ladies in my area but I really have found the ladies I click the best with come off of Backpage.

But then again what do I know? Likely nothing.

Hi Sage,

Thanks for you reply.  I appreciate you sharing your perspective.

What I still don't get, is ANYTHING that justifies paying 150 to 200.  I'm not cheap, but at the same time, I'm not trying to throw my money away either.

Personally I think there is quite a niche available for ladies who don't want to do FS, or maybe don't want to do it all the time, to do FBSM - at a REASONABLE rate.

If a licensed massage therapist charges 50 or so for an hour, it seems to me that it's pretty fair to establish a rate of around 100 an hour, for a girl to wear something sexy, and add a hand job at the end.

I mean, let's be realistic, the difference between the massages is basically the hand job, and that's really not a big thing.  It certainly isn't much work, compared to the rest of the massage.  It requires the same amount of energy, and doesn't take any stress, or personal risk in sexual contact.

And actually, if I go for a licensed legit massage, I'm most likely going to get a MUCH better massage (on average).

So for the money, I'm settling for LESS of a massage, and what I'm getting is simply the girl dressed sexy (or naked), and a HJ.  

Yeah I hear you on the "atmosphere", and there's something to that, but 200 bucks for the atmosphere?!?!

Don't get me wrong, if there's plenty of rich suckers willing to shell that kinda dough out, then heck, I'd milk it too.


All I'm saying is that the average price of FBSM seems ridiculously high, and if there were some girls who were willing to charge something reasonable, I'd probably be a reg.

100 bucks for an hour in your bikini and an HJ?!

Come on now, that's a pretty good gig.