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it doesn't matter at all
lilli 226 reads
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my desire is for him to feel comfortable enough with me to express his true sexual self, without the inhibitions or censorship he is likely to have experienced in his "civie" sex life. i want him to get into a headspace where he is only focused on his own selfish needs and desires, and to feel no guilt about that whatsoever.

so if it's most natural and fulfilling for him to release just once and only after a couple of minutes, or to have me repeatedly within a short span of time, or to use me long and hard for the duration and not release until the very last moment...i don't care, as long as he's really happy.

Hello ladies -

I have a question...and it's about time, not length.  

For your average appointment, do you prefer a fella who's a one shot wonder who can keep his finger off the trigger for the entire appointment, while staying in the saddle?

Or, do you prefer a repeater who may be quicker on the trigger, but also quicker to reload with the abililty to keep firing, allowing time for conversation/relaxation between targets?

Also, if the former, how long is too long, before you start thinking, just shoot off already?

And if the latter, how long is not long enough, where you start thinking, "Wow? Done already? Hope I don't have to talk to him too long..."

Just curious...

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-- Modified on 6/21/2011 11:36:39 AM

I usually ask how many times will you be able to fire!!
Then I have an idea what I am in for. And I usually ask how they want to fire. When they say that they can fire twice, I get a devilish smile and then say I bet you like to fire once in my mouth!! And usually we make that the second firing. When you start a conversation like this, you will usually find out if there are any firing problems...and then there are no surprises. :)

lilli227 reads

my desire is for him to feel comfortable enough with me to express his true sexual self, without the inhibitions or censorship he is likely to have experienced in his "civie" sex life. i want him to get into a headspace where he is only focused on his own selfish needs and desires, and to feel no guilt about that whatsoever.

so if it's most natural and fulfilling for him to release just once and only after a couple of minutes, or to have me repeatedly within a short span of time, or to use me long and hard for the duration and not release until the very last moment...i don't care, as long as he's really happy.

having seen you  before mr lovinladies I think you got the good conversation and good sex thing down:)

CLPiper163 reads

I have to agree about the chemistry and it certainly makes the sex better.

I'm typically a one shot guy and i have been able to hold off until near the end of our session.

My ATF and I have seen enough of each other that it's a non-issue.


Thank you for the compliment, lovely Ms. Lilly!  Your review IS coming, I PROMISE!! Hope your trip cross country is going swimmingly!  Enjoy Nashville!

CLPiper140 reads

Good chemistry makes for great sex and conversation regardless of how many times you can pop during a session.

This has never been an issue for my ATF and I and I'm typically a one shot guy.

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