Are providers and their clients girls and boys or men and women?  The answer depends on the individual, of course. Some are still stuck in childhood, and some have grown up.

At what point do you become an adult?  Probably not at the point where adult responsibilities are forced onto you.  A lot of people say they "had to grow up fast", usually because their parent refused to grow up themselves, and wanted the kid to parent them (role reversal, anyone?), or just weren't around physically and/or emotionally for their kids.  But when that happens, the kid doesn't really grow up, they just learn some lessons about people that probably aren't accurate for most people, so they end up with an unealistic perspective on life.

So when is it that you really grow up?  I think it's at the time when you see your parents realistically, and stop the childish longing for them to give you what they didn't give you when you were a kid. You come to an understanding that they are never going to give you those things because they are not capable of it. It's just never going to happen. So then you decide to move on with your life as an adult.

I know a woman (happens to be a provider, but could be any woman) who has no contact with her mother except to callher once a year to wish her a happy birthday. She says her mother still doesn't know why she calls. But she herself knows - she wants her mother to give her what she didn't give her when she was a kid. It's never going to happen. Time to realize that and move on.

What do people think?  LOL, I just realized that some will howl "I refuse to grow up!"

But seriously, when you you think people stop being little children?

Where do you come up with this stuff?  Or asked differently, are you pathologically odd or just a wing-nut?

With a name like "fucktard_repellent" I guess the answer should be obvious. lol

To answer your question though, I vote for "just a wing nut" lmao

BTW; Gambler doesn't have a smarter brother. They say that stuff usually SKIPS a generation. LMAO

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very seriously, but I hope the little boy in me never goes away. That would be a shame. I love to play.

Each adult (grown-up) demonstrates varying degrees of maturity, given specific circumstances. Some more so over a greater range of circumstances, while others a lesser degree.

Really a bogus question from a very simplistic way of viewing human behavior.

Are you trying out for the Love Goddess's job? If so, go post over there.

I don't care if you are my mothers brother, which in Georgia might make you our father, which would make you from the clan Robertini as well. roflmfao

I used to always get a question at the end that implied I was crazy for being a serious climber

I always answered by saying that if you ever wanted to know if someone was a climber, there was a simple test you could do.  Just shine a flashlight in one ear, and if light comes out the other ear, you know he's a climber

She was into that Yogi Bear stuff too.  Maybe that's why I dislike you.  (Singing) Those were the days my friend, I thought they'd never end...but then, after 20 years for her murder, it's all good.

Sometimes we simplify because it's a way of being decisive.

Being decisiveCaen be a good thing.

but anyone who tells Matt to "grow a pair" can't be all bad, can she??? rofl

"Sometimes we simplify because it's a way of being decisive." Who's "we?" No, you're simple. Period. And, nothing you say threatens my manhood.

If you want to be the Dr. Phil for the GD board, go ahead, but at least use your head when doing so. I still say it was a stupid question from a simplistic mind.

That's Deep & Personal!
Now tell me  "Are you horny"?

Read her freakin reviews. That is one HOT girl.

I'm so befuddled, that I can't determine which way Arizona is from here. When I calm down a bit I think I can figure it out.

Other than the fact that we get to enjoy sex, that is.

I only ask half in jest.

Being connected to my inner child is a strength, and while I'll do what the world expects of me; when it comes down to my own time and fun, I'll let the inner child romp every time.

when you start to appreciate taking naps.

That all depends. Are you?

One look at her, how can you not be?  

Said it before and I'll say it again...

I might be getting older, but I refuse to grow up!

Growing old SUCKS!

I'd rather die young, leaving a DAMN good looking corpse, than die old all fucked up!

A nice lady(mom) used to change my diapers when I was a baby. Goddam if I'm going to let someone do that when I can't get my ass to the shitter soon enough...

I'll eat a fucking bullet if it comes to that!

pussy fucking friendly, where discussions of the aforementioned is the rule of the road.

I am too much of a kid at heart to listen to all this drivel. WTF

our dear Mr. Gambler is ??????????


Takes hat off, bows his head, lets go of a SLIGHT tearful display......



And then proceeds to light one up in his HONOR!!!!!!!!!!  LMAO



RIP Mr. Gambler