I have been involved in the the hobby for a while and always used incall or outcall to a hotel room. Since some experiences have been less than expected, I really dont want to pay more for hotel rooms anymore on top of those lousy sessions.

I would just like to know how many guys here with a SO would dare entertain outcall to your home when your SO was out of town? Mine travels at least one week out of the month and I was thinking of having a provider over.

I have had escorts from AGENCIES over and have been ripped off (one even took some prescription medications) and just wondering if anyone has or would entertain in YOUR home.

Not a chance in hell. If you have an SO just consider the price of the room a cheap insurance policy. Sure, it may seem like a waste of money, but think what the consequences could be if something were to go wrong the other way and consider it money well spent.

I'm not just refering to the possibility of something coming up missing from your house. The senarios are endless in terms of things that can go wrong and i always like to have the odds as much in my favor as possible.

Snow

Before I advanced a grade in the school of hard knocks I used to gave providers a lot of personal information.  Then I had one start calling me at work to see if I wanted to get together, she once called me at home to borrow money because she was really desperate.  (Once upon a time I was in the phone book.)  I wouldn’t want to run the risk of a provider dropping by my house particularly if I was seeing providers who were taking things from my home when I was present.   I’d be a little worried about what she might do when I wasn’t home especially if she needed money or I something in my house she liked.  I don’t think letting somebody like that know where I live is a good idea, especially if she and her driver/boyfriend also know when nobody is home.

Someone got busted for outcall to their house....

You would be suprised what neighbors can do....

Spend the money and get a room. Nosy neighbors will be the LEAST of your worries.

I'd offer up to you that perhaps, seeings as how you say some sessions have been lousy and being ripped off by an agency (imagine that?!) ... might I suggest maybe doing some extra homework to find out more about the woman in the first place.

Finding a great provider isn't tough at all, especially with the font of knowledge here on TER. Find some that do incall, that would save you the hotel fee. No matter where you are in the country, they're around, you just gotta find them is all.

The price for a hotel to meet a lady, is a very small price to pay compared to firestorm you'd set off having them come to your house. Just begging for trouble there man. Way too many things out of your control to play with fire.

Good luck, and play safe,
Jimbo

unless you really want to get busted. Come on... a Motel 6 or Days Inn is $49/night. If you can afford to hobby, you can afford the room.

If I had an SO, there'd be no way in hell I'd have an SP over.  But since I don't it's not a problem.

Apart from the possibility of a provider being untrustworthy (eg stealing something) or just downright flaky and causing you problems there is also the chance of evidence of her visit being left behind accidentally:  long brown/blonde/black hairs in evidence when your SO has short hair of another colour; forgotten toys under the bed; a mislaid stocking; neighbours seeing her arrive/leave etc.   I've left toys and bits of lingerie behind lots of times - though thankfully only in hotels as I'm extremely careful if I'm in somebody's home.

There is also the consideration of would you actually feel totally relaxed and fully enjoy the experience when you are taking the chance of any of the above happening?  I'd agree with the other posters and say getting a hotel room is a much better idea.

Dude...if you have an SO...dont have ladies over your place....One nosey neighbours can tell your SO that you had company and we all know that aint good.
Im single as can be...(sniff sniff) lol and i now know not to have anyone over my place..Stick to the incall and hotel/motel.....in the long run you will win

Sham,

BTW... everyone reading this please have a great and safe week

Escort $300

Hotel room $50

NOT getting caught in the act in your wifes' bed with another  woman (or seen by a nosy neighbor)....priceless


Thats just the obvious for non-single guys. I think its risky for even single guys to hobby at home. Just check out some of the reviews on the ripoff link (LA area is evidently ripoff central) for some harrowing situations guys have found themselves in at home. No thanks. Just get the friggan room already.

There are just too many things that can go wrong.

Trust me, spend the extra money for a hotel room if you have to.

It is the best insurance policy you can buy.

I have no SO worries to concern myself over and I have come to know several providers that I would feel completely at ease with in my home. The problem is I'm too far out in suburbia for them to want to make the drive and my home reflects my bachelor status(they might want to come in their french maid outfit)lol.
  To entertain the thought of a provider in a home you share with a SO is crazy. WAY to many ways of your SO finding out.

Guess it just takes a bit of reminding from the other hobbyists to keep a guy thinking with the right head. Very good views, some I didnt think of. Thanks for the input and especially from the one provider that answered too. Now, if I could only get to London...

Also, I want to respect the wife's home, and their 'marriage bed'.
I have taken appts. in the gentleman's home, but realize it really isn't the wisest thing to do.

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Since you stated your other experiences with certain providers and agencies were less than you expected (lousy)
You cant REALLY have any of those ladies over. Would you necc want to invite a perfect stranger into your residence not knowing? This is why most ladies will not do First Time meets in their private "locations"
SO heres a thought. Seek out ladies that are offering INCALL appts to a discreet location/hotel that are 1- not traveling and local to you 2- offer incall on a reg basis so you have the option at least to see them twice before you decide 3- rates are within the standard (2-3) range even with them providing space

??? fair enough right

I did outcall for a long time,nothing makes me more nervous personally.I've been in my own set incall location for over a year.It would save your trouble to find a provider or providers.That are established,i.e. plenty of good reviews,and if they are working in a hotel,better one at that.Be picky,it is Your dime,and Your time.But outcall to your home with a so is asking for trouble.The rule of thumb I use here is I see the customer at least twice at My incall location,and once they are an established client,I would consider meeting them elsewhere.I do have several clients that transportation is difficult.One lost his liscence and another is disabled.A lot of quality girls are very leary of hotels for sting operations.So remeber to read and write reviews as You go.It helps everyone in long run.

Great minds think alike.
You can find incall - you can find someone you like - dont worry about bringing it home
I saw someone last night at a residence.
However he is single no neighbors to notice him kissing me on the porch and no one to come home and wonder why theres wrappers in the trash for something that hasnt been a concern (in the marriage) for 14 years.

Just kidding!

While I would not have just any provider to my residence, if I had seen her before and had developed a feeling of trust with her, I would quite enjoy it.  There are a number of things I could do at home which I could not do at a hotel.  

Now, part of this (for me) is that I do not have an SO.  If I did, I would not be seeing providers, so that would never be an issue for me.  

I guess my home just seems like a more controlled environment to me.  I would not, however, have any provider to my home I had not seen a few times.


Light

"Cowards can never be moral."
M.K. Gandhi


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