......I like my tool sucked hard enough to stick it in a lady's pussy.

The first is how good the gal is at BBBJ, especially if she does CIMNQNS.

There's also how I'm feeling that particular day.  Some days I just want to lie back and let her decide, other days I can't wait to suit up and dive in.

Then there's what get her turned on.

Overall, I'm about 50/50 on which way I go.

No, you sick fucks, neither of us want to go down on the other. Here's the deal....

He likes to get his dick sucked more than fucking. I'm the opposite. I will get my dick sucked to get it hard enough to stick it in a lady's pussy. Or ass. Whichever hole she let's me.

So, what's the consensus on this? Am I in the minority, or is he?

BTW, we both agree it's a pleasure and an honor to go down on a lady, before you start up on that tangent!

If she is someone I "connect" with, I want the "full experience" and  unload in her vagina. If she is just a relief opportunity, I prefer to simply unload in her mouth.

I had a civie GF in Chicago that almost always asked "where do you want to finish?" I would have to say that more often than not I would pick the mouth. Now that being said I have already been fucking the shit out of her and yes sometimes it just better to finish without interruption. However there is just something about a woman who swallows that brings a little something extra to the moment.

In the old days I'd have said BBBJ was only to warm up and I'd always want to finish doggie, if I could make it.  Now, with my battered old dick, the problem is the cover really cuts off too much sensation.  So I may be evolving to Stage Three:  start with general body worship leading to DATY/BBBJ; move to multiple positions ending with dog; finish with BBBJCIMetc.  Now, don't hold me to this, I'm still workin' on it with the help of Trained Therapists.  Where this puts me in the Mikey/scoed debate I have no clue.

I have heard others like Scoed say that they do prefer bj. I have had ladies say the way guys are so crazy for bj that they thought all guys preferred it. Don't know if we'll get a consensus.

I like both very much. I have often said on a scale of 1 to 10 a good (emphasis on good) bbj is a 9. Then a bbbj cim is 9.5 (it really doesn't matter to me if she spits or not) but intercourse to completion whether vaginal or anal is 10. With very rare exception I want to finish and do finish with intercourse.

I will admit though that sometimes like a previous poster said with a bbbj it's just so good at the moment that I'm quite satisfied to cim. If cim isn't available then I will always go for intercourse.

In summary the ultimate to me is intercourse not bj.

from a ladys point of view i enjoy a guy going down on me  and can come quicker by oral sex   versus regular sex!ofcoarse it does tottally depend on your partners skills.I have seen guys that are not very good at getting me off orally but are tottally amazing at making me climax when we have sex!so i guess it just depends!!

From the reviews I've read, it would seem that most hobbyists use the BJ as a prelim to move through various positions, from which they eventually finish off.  I'm of the same mind.....particularly if the lady truly seems to be as much into the sex as I am.  There's nothing more exciting to see the lady getting off, sometimes pushing me right over the edge myself.  On the other hand, the Bj is great if I'm having trouble getting off or not maintaining rigidity well.  The other day, I was with a provider 24 hours after having gotten off with someone else.  I'm usually okay with this, but at my age, two days is better.  In any case, I flagged a bit.  The lady was  wonderful and went back down to save the day.  Similarly, as much as I prefer sex, the only hope I have for a second cup is either a BJ or masturbating over the lady.

For those that really prefer BJs, there are those providers that only provide "above the waist" service.  I've done some searches on these, and they are intriguing.  Some of these ladies have purportedly really, really perfected their art.  I haven't partaken yet, but I think I will some day.  The other thing is, they usually charge less than "full service".

Usually I like to finish with intercourse but sometime just can't get it off that way and then BJ is a good way to go as long she is good at it.

To me a good BJ is the best but I of course love vaginal intercourse as well.

On the matter of DATY, I'll third you and Scoed.   As to whether I prefer FS to BBBJTC...I'll take the later.  There is nothing better...CG, doggie, mish...  BBBJTC has it's place, and is preferable on certain days, but usually, FS wins out.  BBBJ as foreplay?  Always!

A thousand times this... only for me it is difficult even with a long-term civvie girlfriend (without the cover, and not seeing any providers on the side).  For me I confess that I must blame it on anxiety and intimacy issues as it takes several encounters to truly feel comfortable with a lady before I can unload in mish or cg, whereas a good only NQNS allows me to be totally relaxed.

So I tend to seek out providers that are noted for french skills and don't mind focusing on that event.  But like inicky there are some providers with great personalities and bodies to match that I can't resist even though it usually still must end with french.

And fortunately there are girls out there that specialize in giving mind-blowing presentations.

My review #5 which should be out shortly details just such an encounter.  As does #1, #3 and #4.

I like a BJ, but prefer to put it in the pussy too!

fuck something.  I love DATY, I love a good BBBJCIM but I also love penetration. I never want to waste a good erection.

I like to start and finish with bbbj.

Every encounter for me starts with bbbj, it gets me going and I like looking at a gal with my dick in her mouth. I only need about 5 minutes or so before my mind set changes to rockin it out through the usual positions, for whatever reason I usually start off mish then run through the gammit.

When I'm ready to pop, depending on how the appetizer was, I like to remove the cover and finish bbbj with cim and/or facial.

of the provider can swing the pendulum in either direction.

I want to say minority but barely because maybe i'm just pretty good @ it more like to get their dick sucked and kind of let me continue until their done because they "forget" what else they came for but um.... but yeah so given my experiences overall  I'd say more like it sucked either more than fucking OR at least much longer than just enough to get it hard to fuck.

BBBJ to get rock hard and stick it in the pussy.

Now if the lady can't make me that hard due to chemistry, mood, or other factors, she should suck it again with great skills to make it rock hard ..

And stick it back to the pussy.

In the end, pussy is the goal, blowjob is the journey.