: TER General Board Discussion : Issue with getting references to provider?

Maxvan68 11 Reviews 1571 reads

posted 6 years ago

1 / 13

Issue with getting references to provider?

I saw on Tryst that four very attractive beautiful hot women are touring Nashville in November. All have excellent reviews on TER.

I went to their websites and filled out forms to schedule time with them. They all requested two references.

I have two very good references who are always quick to respond to the providers. I put their information down for all the providers.

Within two days three of the ladies got back with me and said I was verified and I was able to schedule time with them when they will be in Nashville.

I didn’t hear from the fourth provider. I waited a few more days and then emailed her asking if she received the form.

She responded that she hadn’t heard from my references yet.

I told her they immediately got back with three other providers and I didn’t see why they wouldn’t have gotten back with her.

A couple of days later she emailed me she still hadn’t heard from them.

I sent emails to my references asking if they had had a request for a reference for this provider.

They both replied to me that they had received the request and Immediately responded to her.

One of my references emailed me: She was given a reference days ago when she asked and I do not appreciate her lying and stating that she never received a response when she did.”

I replied by sending her an email. “Sorry about that. I appreciate your assistance in this matter.”

She answered: “ You have no need to apologize. This is the lady who is lying and I don't understand why because she was promptly responded to.”

I relayed to the provider that I had double-checked with my references and they had sent the information to the provider.

Two days have gone by and I haven’t heard anything more from her.

This begs the question: Why did she say she hadn’t heard from my references when they did respond immediately to her? Is she having email issues? Or does she find me unattractive and doesn’t want to schedule time with me? On her form she asked for a physical description. I’m 5-10, slim build, I weigh 145 pounds. Maybe she doesn’t like skinny guys. She asked for age. I’m 52, she seems to be in her 20’s. Maybe she doesn’t like older guys.

This provider is super hot and has several excellent reviews on TER.

GaGambler 143 reads

posted 6 years ago

2 / 13

There are thousands, maybe MILLIONS of reasons why she did what she did

At the end of the day does it really matter WHY she is being a lying bitch? I think her actions are more important than the reason for her actions. Look at it this way, you have three dates with three lovely women, why worry about the one "that got away" Why ask why? lol

I hope this doesn't need saying, but you owe your references a very sincere "thank you" along with hopefully a return date with each of them. Providing references to FOUR different providers for you is going above and beyond the call of duty. I know saying this is like saying "be sure to wash your ass before an appointment" it really shouldn't need saying, but some guys really do take their references for granted some times. I am sure that doesn't apply to you.

Angel4Life 87 reads

posted 6 years ago

3 / 13

References

A few providers are just dumber than dirt!

prevtaylorsteele See my TER Reviews 104 reads

posted 6 years ago

4 / 13

One guess

Your email was this long ⤵

Posted By: Maxvan68

I saw on Tryst that four very attractive beautiful hot women are touring Nashville in November. All have excellent reviews on TER.

I went to their websites and filled out forms to schedule time with them. They all requested two references.

I have two very good references who are always quick to respond to the providers. I put their information down for all the providers.

Within two days three of the ladies got back with me and said I was verified and I was able to schedule time with them when they will be in Nashville.

I didn’t hear from the fourth provider. I waited a few more days and then emailed her asking if she received the form.

She responded that she hadn’t heard from my references yet.

I told her they immediately got back with three other providers and I didn’t see why they wouldn’t have gotten back with her.

A couple of days later she emailed me she still hadn’t heard from them.

I sent emails to my references asking if they had had a request for a reference for this provider.

They both replied to me that they had received the request and Immediately responded to her.

One of my references emailed me: She was given a reference days ago when she asked and I do not appreciate her lying and stating that she never received a response when she did.”

I replied by sending her an email. “Sorry about that. I appreciate your assistance in this matter.”

She answered: “ You have no need to apologize. This is the lady who is lying and I don't understand why because she was promptly responded to.”

I relayed to the provider that I had double-checked with my references and they had sent the information to the provider.

Two days have gone by and I haven’t heard anything more from her.

This begs the question: Why did she say she hadn’t heard from my references when they did respond immediately to her? Is she having email issues? Or does she find me unattractive and doesn’t want to schedule time with me? On her form she asked for a physical description. I’m 5-10, slim build, I weigh 145 pounds. Maybe she doesn’t like skinny guys. She asked for age. I’m 52, she seems to be in her 20’s. Maybe she doesn’t like older guys.

This provider is super hot and has several excellent reviews on TER.

Maxvan68 11 Reviews 88 reads

posted 6 years ago

5 / 13

Never mind

The provider got back with me and said I was verified!

November will be a great month

J0e_Fella 35 Reviews 128 reads

posted 6 years ago

6 / 13

Re: There are thousands, maybe MILLIONS of reasons why she did what she did

In my early years, while my references were super responsive and kindly vouched for me, I felt I owed my lovely references a return favor (even though they never said of such) so I forked up for P411. It's backfired, however, now I can get a same-day session so easily and thus tend to overindulge myself.

If all my P411 Okays and TER Whitelists ain't good, we simply move on. Especially f'kin covid19 mood, I can't plan for days and weeks to get laid.

My admiration for those who plan days ahead!

IHeartLV 10 Reviews 97 reads

posted 6 years ago

7 / 13

P411

I just skimmed over your post so maybe I missed it, but P411 is definitely your friend. I won't even consider seeing a provider that doesn't have a profile on P411 - for many reasons, one of which is to avoid crap like you went through. The TER/P411 combo works very well. Hope your session goes well.

Black-Panther 91 reads

posted 6 years ago

8 / 13

I hope

I hope you see the two providers that provided references on a regular basis. Four references from the same two providers, IMHO, is excessive.

Also, If there is such a thing as a "bro" code among ho's, its that providing references is done very quickly. I've never had an issue, and always done promptly. So, if I had three approvals, I'd never question that they were sent out, period. I would have let ho number #4 take a hike.

mrhudson 137 Reviews 89 reads

posted 6 years ago

9 / 13

references

Move on!

cj2nels 8 Reviews 87 reads

posted 6 years ago

10 / 13

move on also

I gave up on the references after long time consuming experiences. I tried eva a former pornstar who came to my hotel and decided not to risk it. spent 4 hrs wasted time. called another provider over to me in 15m, great time texted eva back she at least said she was sorry. she is out of business for some time. another high end provider I spent most of a day trying to get an appointment, she kept asking more and more information. there are a zillon providers out there and usually the ones that are ready to go are the most fun. dont waste a lot of time.

GaGambler 141 reads

posted 6 years ago

11 / 13

I have to agree, picking a provider is no more difficult than picking a restaurant for dinner

P 411 has made ordering up a hooker every bit as easy as making dinner reservations. Like you I can't book more than a few hours in advance with any degree of certainty that I will actually be able to make the appointment so rather than becoming "that guy" who constantly books and cancels I stick to same day sessions and it's worked quite well for me. Not only does it solve the problem of me having to cancel, it also cuts down on the number of cancellations that I get in return.

To repeat one of my favorite sayings "I will beg for pussy, I will pay for pussy, but I will NOT beg to pay for pussy"

I don't jump through hoops either, I have dozens of Okays, I am not going to bother any of the ladies who I have seen before in order to get them to vouch for me to what really amounts to their "competition" It also spares me from the inevitable "when are you going to come see ME again?" I don't need that kind of crap in my life.

I only have one area where we seem to disagree. Just what is so fucking wrong about "overindulging" oneself???!!! lol

WICardinalfan 147 reads

posted 6 years ago

12 / 13

Re: I have to agree, picking a provider is no more difficult than picking a restaurant for dinner

If I had the resources and lived in a more populated area, I would be indulging myself a great deal more than I am.

Robertini 4 Reviews 86 reads

posted 6 years ago

13 / 13

exactly

and I guess they have no problem getting clients either.

Actual daters say it's easy and it's not. I don't know. But my saying or thinking is, it's easier picking up a provider than actually finding a normal date.