Life happens. An emergency comes up and you can’t make an appointment, and you aren’t even able to call the guy to cancel. What do you do to make up for your NCNS? Does your answer change if this happened to one of your regulars? Has it ever happened because you overbooked?

I dont buy it. How long does it take to send a quick text? 15 seconds? IMO it's just flakiness and not caring about someone elses time. Plain and simple. I'm sure anyone can come up with a "plausible " excuse but I would be very hesitant to see a lady who ncns me.

Two hours later, she texted me to say that she lost her phone and finally found it. She left it on a store counter. Could be true, though most millennials seem unlikely to lose their phone without losing a hand in the process.

"...it's just flakiness and not caring about someone elses time. Plain and simple. "

As I said they will find an excuse. Any offer to make good?

She is truly sorry...her grandma died for only the 17th time this year.

Good question. She offered to reschedule, but no other consideration has been offered to make this right. Our first two meetings were enjoyable, but I probably won't see her again without getting more than an apology and an excuse. One more good time and I was ready to call her my true ATF.

Lighten up Francis.
If my almost true ATF stood me up ONCE, I'd let it go. Good chance if you're cool about it and she likes you she will reward you with a great session.

...who in high school had a dog that was always eating her homework?

Points taken. Thank you.

How have you gotten this far in life?

like many other said before, it only takes 15 sec to text someone and say "im terribly sorry that something came up and it's an emergency, can we re-schedule"  (assuming its just once in a blue moon, not every other time of course).

I sent her an email earlier today, explaining the additional hassles created by her NCNS, and politely asked if there was anything that she could do to make up for it. When she sent me another brief text asking about re-scheduling, I said that I was interested, but needed her to read my email first.

And I've never cancelled on a client, let alone a no Call, no show.  
The circumstance would have to be severe, car accident, a passing of a close relative, nonetheless, the client did his part to be available, so I'd absolutely give him a free hour

Thats refreshing and rare.  

Posted By: Sugar-julia

And I've never cancelled on a client, let alone a no Call, no show.  
 The circumstance would have to be severe, car accident, a passing of a close relative, nonetheless, the client did his part to be available, so I'd absolutely give him a free hour.  
 

that is, whether she actually liked you.

You won't get a second chance. You go on a private list and if you want an appt in the future, you are required to pay the full appointment fee in advance as a non-refundable deposit.

It's about as rare as a guy who no shows sending the Cancellation policy donation.

Posted By: sympathyforthedevil

Thats refreshing and rare.  
   

Posted By: Sugar-julia

And I've never cancelled on a client, let alone a no Call, no show.    
  The circumstance would have to be severe, car accident, a passing of a close relative, nonetheless, the client did his part to be available, so I'd absolutely give him a free hour.  
 

You misinterpreted my post. The provider was NCNS as far as I'm concerned, because she didn't give me the exact address before she lost her phone. I drove to the general area that she told me about, and waited. And waited. She found her phone a couple of hours later, after I had already gone back home. Or maybe she really over-booked and bumped me back. Either way, it was her fault, and if she was reasonable, she would have offered to make it up to me. Instead, she gave me attitude and offered me a re-booking at full price, which reinforces the theory that she over-booked.

Cunt and polite in the same sentence ?

Oh my apologies. I did misunderstand what I read.

Showed up for a one hour massage appt. Sent a text 10 minutes before I was there an told her let me know when you're ready. No rush. I get a call back, her apologizing she thought it was for the next day an would make it up to me. No problem. Suppose to be a simple body slide an HJ. She did a lil kissing an some BBBJ which I didn't expect. I thought she more than mAde up for it an will see her again.