Ok so we all know bad hygeine,dirty incall etc are instant gross-outs... let's talk about some of the more subtle things that providers do that turn you off. I have a regular client who wanted me to bring another provider to a recent appointment.I get that all arranged,everything goes off without a hitch. We are thick in the middle of playtime when she starts doing this "oh daddy!" thing.Me and the gent lock eyes and he loses his ability instantly. We talked about it later and he said it was because it makes him think of streetwalkers...and I have the same association!(daddy=pimp) So anyway,she won't be on the menu anymore...What subtle thing grosses YOU out?

Simone

You all have a great night!

Peace!!!

About 15 years ago I got fixed up with a woman that bore a striking resemblance to my mother in her youth from the pictures I'd seen.  One thing led to another and we found ourselves in bed, even though I was clearly not into it.

It quickly got worse when she started what I can only describe as a strange sort of motherly nurturing talk as we had sex.  Then she started patting me on the back!  Maybe it was unconscious on her part, but needless to say, that instantly and completely killed my erection- and for several days, if I remember correctly.  She had kids, so maybe that's just the way she talked, but it was a real deal-breaker for me.  

On the way home, I starting to understand the Greek myth of Oedipus and why he put out his own eyes.  Yikes.

I agree with Simone,. I hate the "Daddy, baby ,sweetie" type comments. It is really a turn-off for me.

Oh Daddy, makes me think of incest...  total turn off.  
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I would totally scream "daddy" if I knew that is what a gentleman wanted. It doesn't gross me out nor does it have an association to pimps for me.

There was one time a guy wanted me to keep screaming, "I'm a naughty girl, but mommy told me to keep my legs closed. I'm a bad daughter..." Some may have thought it was sick because I was planning the role of a little girl to an old man, but I had a blast!

Xoxo,
Giamarie

like 80% of the time and I know I call a couple clients that as well,It'a term of endearment for me really... but I am a southern girl so maybe that is why? Feels really natural to me. The Daddy/Mummy thing is okay for roleplay or in Domme sessions when it is important to the scene.. otherwise NO. Brings to mind HBO documentaries.


Simone.

Um ya what grosses me out is pedifiles.I had my first experiance with one yesterday.All I could think about is gutting him like a trout.I don't like that type of roleplay.I ended the date early.I wanted to call someone and alert them of this man for real.Asking me if I could find him a 12 year old.Makes me sick.Blah

as this clip from Seinfeld so deftly illustrates.

(Click link.)

i got turned off but she recovered the moment.

she did the "daddy, daddy what are you doing to me?!" thing.....

i started to lose it in a limp way and she followed through with recovery talk. "it feels too good" and more dirty talk.

after the fairly happy conclusion i asked WTF  and got "if it's vice, it's nice. but incest's best."

THAT sealed it as a last date. didn't want to make that a routine.

my limit is the sick fantasy of doing the daughter of a women i've been dating. plenty of drama but none of the incest, my cup of tea.

do you have a friend in local LE? anonymous tip line? that's a tough one.

than actually molesting a child?

Granted, he should have cleared this with you before starting in with you, but still.

I met a provider once with a very youngish body type and she told me that a good number of her clients do the "little girl" routine.  She was kind of proud of it because she figures it keeps these guys from actually going ahead with being a pedafile.

I'm pregnant and I didn't know about his fetish.I didn't want him to even touch me. He really wanted me to find him a little girl.It was something he wanted as a reality.Then he was asking about my children. He even hinted I get my 7 year old little girl.I believe he's dangerous. He wasn't with me because I look like a little girl. I guess it was the whole thing about me having a child inside of me.Bastard.He accually wanted to go through the motions of making it a reality.

the words mami and daddy are all about perception. They don't mean mommy and daddy as in your parent or even a "pimp".
I've had men who love being called daddy and it never related to a child in their mind or mine. Only once did it get creepy. I was with a man, when I said daddy, he got really agressive and started calling me "daddies babygirl", that freaked me out a little bit, so as soon as it was over, I couldn't get out fast enough. I've had conversations pre-booking, where the man hints towards that type of desire, I always refuse the appt.

Part of the problem is that people need to communicate before hand. If there is something that totally kills the moment for you, tell the provider before it goes down. We can't always tell what works and doesn't work for each guy.

This is DEFINITELY the time and place to do so.

No cop on this planet is going to give a shit that you are an escort when you tell him about this sick fuck.

I don't mean to lay a guilt trip on you, but if "someone" doesn't report him I guarantee you he is going to make his fantasy a reality. Do you really want that on your conscience? Report him, do it now. I wouldn't have blamed you for shooting him on the spot for even suggesting that your seven year old might be available.

I don't know how to put this in any stronger terms. Please report this monster before he ruins the life of some other mother's child.