It has only been one week since I threw in the towel ... and let me tell you ... THIS SUCKS!!!  I have never been so moody in my life!  Is there such thing as being "addicted to cumming?"  And if so, someone please tell me the withdrawals only last 1 week and 2 days, so by tomorrow I will stop rubbing myself on inanimate objects and function as a normal human being!

how about just see some guys?  if they don't pay then you are not working. and it helps you too.

Get back in it girl!!

The more sex you get, the more you want.

It was very difficult for me initially to have so much sex. But when business is slow and I don't have sex for one or two days now, I do find myself getting withdrawl symptons.

What do I do: I exercise.

I TOTALLY agree with LCB and Jadetan--retirement DOES suck and the only remedy is exercise.
I recommend squats, and I'd LOVE being your exercise ball again, mi amour--heh heh heh

and guess what, after 4 years out of the business, I came back in!

This is my life. I can't deny it!

and I made a promise to myself that i'd retire when she did. After a little endorphin/dopamine fix next week, that's exactly what I'll be doing. It'll be hard, though. Man, will I miss this hobby!!!

I went into the corporate world for 2 yrs. and it sucked big time!


I remember my Mother telling me, that a man wants a wife at home and a whore in the bedroom.

Since, I don't have a man at home......... I decided  that being a whore in the bedroom, suits me just fine  

Kelly

There's something about the life. The sex is better and full of variety. The money can be very good.  Good money and good sex are-- overwhelming rewards. Anyone would miss them. Why wouldn't it be difficult to leave it?

First of all I can't define a normal human being. I don't care what occupation you retire from it is tough at first and there is nothing wrong with cumming enjoy it because maybe some day you won't be able to cum.

It has to do with money. If I were stinking rich, do you think I'd miss the sex. NO! Because I'd be having sex with Italian and Russian (or whatever) Cabana boys. It's not the lack of sex. It's providers retiring early and not having enough money to have fun.  Let's be real!

Hugs,
Ciara

I'll give it one good month ... and if it's still this bad ... maybe part time is the answer ... (voice in my head saying "be strong Hannah, be strong!!!")

maybe I'll retire from TER and post an ad on CL or stand on a street corner somewhere (totally kidding)!

If I were ludicrously wealthy, I probably *would* have a human stable chock full of the hottest men available, one from each country, just for variety

But that's not what I'd miss... I'm revealing a rare sensitive side of myself, lol, but I would miss the feeling of being wanted, and desirable enough to make men part with their hard earned money. Sure, marriage is supposed to do the same thing, but this way there's less laundry for me to do.

I need a bit of ego stroking, my gents need a bit of, um, other stroking, so I call it a fair trade

Maxine

No, darling, I don't believe you'll ever miss the sex itself. No way. Generally many women could get sex from guys anytime they want. The main thing for them is selecting.

However, in some women at least, the pleasure of the money works in synergy with the pleasure of the sex. Together that combination could become a kink in its own right. I mean, orgasm makes people feel powerful, and when you combine that with the gamblers' thrill of "hitting the jackpot" that has to be unique. I know of one very prominent lady who said (on these boards) that after becoming a provider, ordinary sex was boring for her.

I also realize, though, that many will occasionally miss that kink, but never enough to ever want to ever come back. The memories of it become fantasies. So, I hope, they will always be blessed by their memories of being providers.    

How does one get into that line of work?

Is it a union thing or something like that?  8o)

Unless football is an addiction too.

Really, conditioned compulsion (or just compulsion) describes it better.

I do have a 9-5 in good old corporate America ... and I am not even remotely missing the money (yet) ... but it's not JUST the sex either ... needless to say, girls can get laid!

But men will screw anybody for free (sorry guys, not all of you) and I can say with absolute certainity that the # of times I have gone out looking to get laid and gone home alone can be counted on one hand. TER has "evened the playing field" and I have never felt so desired or sexy as I have the last 7 months.  So yes, it is about the money in a sense, but more about making it than actually having it. Wierd.

H

Ciara, you must have x-ray eyes.  I tried to check her out and the review profile says "report new website".

I did too, but forgot what she looks like, dammit!

Swim

The major difference between a good provider and the hobbiest, is that the good provider gets the envelope....   Seriously, the best providers that I have been with all enjoy the attention of men, they are actually quite intelligent, most are well educated, and have lives outside the hobby (actually some of them make my life look positively stupid!).  

But for the most part, they are in the hobby, they find serious men, men willing to put them on a pedestal and worship them... and yea, I don't mind admitting, I get down on my knees and thank these goddesses that they put  up with me!  but they do get enjoyment out of the experience...  

Which brings up the question of LE.  If this is how we truly feel.... then why is there a problem with the gift... For some of these ladies it is truly a gift... for the gift of companionship that they provide....  

So please ladies.... if you must retire... keep some of us as your "hobby!"  lol!  LCB - let us know where to sign up as boytoys... lol!

he may (or may not) read posts about you.  The desire builds and he contacts you, sets up a "date" (ok, redezvous is you will)..... the sexual tension builds, perhaps for days.... and the time comes... you open the door, and there he is, a bundle of burning desire - and it is ALL focused on you.... no matter how he looks, you know that he has fantasized about YOU.  You know that he desires to screw the breath from your body... and for an hour or two, you know he is yours... there is no "chance" only certainty that you are his object of desire...

Who would not miss that?  for a specified period of time, you are worshiped.... addicting?  Sheese, that adoration is why the rich run for office....  Ted Kennedy?  does he need the job?  or does he get high from the adoration?

What laundry, I'm married and still end up doing my own most of the time. And her mother was right about the whore in the bedroom, unfortunatley for me I've got a nun. Good for the hobby providers I guess.

Hannah you're wrong on one point....retirement DOESN'T suck and that's the problem!!
It's just boring.