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What is a reasonable expectation for the duration of time for a bj?
questionman222 1150 reads
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I have had both sides of the spectrum.  There are some providers who seem to be genuinely into it.  For these girls, they're into, and its more like making love to my cock than the perfunctory appetizer.  But I've also had other providers, who, after a short while, look at me with those eyes, basically saying "can you just fuck me now?"    They seem to tire quickly, and when they do, their performance wanes.

So, what is a reasonable amount of time to expect a good bj?

While we're on the subject, question for the providers:  I read that a lot of guys like you to spit on their cock during the bj.  I do not like that at all.  I understand the, I guess, pornstar experience, fantasy.  But to me, I don't like being spit on, and would never spit on a girls pussy.  When is the best time to let the provider know this?

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Posted By: questionman222
I have had both sides of the spectrum.  There are some providers who seem to be genuinely into it.  For these girls, they're into, and its more like making love to my cock than the perfunctory appetizer.  But I've also had other providers, who, after a short while, look at me with those eyes, basically saying "can you just fuck me now?"    They seem to tire quickly, and when they do, their performance wanes.  
   
 So, what is a reasonable amount of time to expect a good bj?  
   
 While we're on the subject, question for the providers:  I read that a lot of guys like you to spit on their cock during the bj.  I do not like that at all.  I understand the, I guess, pornstar experience, fantasy.  But to me, I don't like being spit on, and would never spit on a girls pussy.  When is the best time to let the provider know this?

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JoeBanzai861 reads

it's best to mention it after you have given her donation and before you start going at it hot and heavy. The same for something you like.

If you are into long bj's but don't like to be spit on, tell her. She may need a "break" if you like a full hour bj, but she should not have a problem with avoiding spitting on you.

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Jacque_Jenesais1001 reads

They get jaw pain and TMJ, which may prevent them from the awesome ability to blow for an hour straight.  

Then again, you may want to see her as her awareness may cause her to grow her BJ skill set to the point where you have no choice but to stop... Or nut... After a few minutes.

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HooktardGold718 reads

Damn pork skins! My post was based on the assumption that the date would be 2 plus hours... in an hour appt. my guess would be 20 min. if he actually wanted a GFE and not a total oral date. The latter is just fine with me, though lol.

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AnotherDonJohn699 reads

could be evolutionary as well= selecting for strong BJ genes.  

I'm doing it for future Gens not just for myself. lol.

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Arovet812 reads

Maybe they have fat tails! :-)

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russbbj895 reads

If I could hold off for that long, not likely. If a lady treats it like an appetizer with me, it'll be a one time only appointment and obviously she won't mind me not repeating. As far as spitting, the more the better for me, I like it to start like she's making love to my cock but I love a raunchy, nasty finish. But that's my preference, tell her what you want before or early on and most ladies will be more than happy to accommodate.

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AnotherDonJohn583 reads

Sometimes you feel like a nut- even for 2 hrs.

At least once in a while, I schedule all oral sessions for 90-120 min.

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89Springer726 reads

If a bj starts feeling stale for me, she's not doing it the way I like. Just like Russbj, I could have a woman go on forever.

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WickedBrut691 reads

You want to know if you should let her keep practicing until she figures it out?

I won't let a woman keep making me gin gimlets if they're not the way I like them.

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89Springer774 reads

I'll make suggestions. If that doesn't work, then I wouldn't see her again.

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anonymousfun770 reads

And start carving out time for each activity. Go with the flow and possibly, you will enjoy more. Reminds me knuckle heads coming back tired from vacation because they had list and everything but didn't have time to enjoy a single thing.

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89Springer716 reads

Reminds me knuckle heads coming back tired from vacation because they had list and everything but didn't have time to enjoy a single thing.
Reminds me of one of my motorcycle trips. I was at the Grand Canyon, just sitting on a rock at a turnout, looking across the canyon. A car slid into the turnout on the loose gravel, and the driver got out. He went to the edge, took a photo, then quickly got back into the car. One of the kids said, "Can we get out and see, Daddy?" The father said, "you can look at the picture when we get home.

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inicky46899 reads

you want your cock sucked.  Sorry, but it's true.

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captain7754 reads

and it spoils it for the rest of us. I can see how a provider can become harden when exposed to "I paid for you so you are mine, bitch" mentality. I am grateful that a beautiful young lady (in my eyes) will get naked with me and pretend that I am an incredible stud. Once I decide to see a provider, I just let the experience unfold. I don't go in with any expectations except to have a good time. And if I don't, I don't go back. I don't have a "to do" list and I don't think for a moment that just because I rented a provider for a specified time, that I own her.

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inicky46720 reads

Poor Captain didn't realize I was just going for a good punch line.  Also, the OP was ridiculous on its face because there's no "right" way to answer the question.

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AnotherDonJohn713 reads

5 min and forever.

Or until you tell her to stop. Lol

Grow some balls and she can play with those too.

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Littlestinker827 reads

How long does it take you before you get your reward and swallow

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Jbone34742 reads

I tend to like the girl to do it until im fully hard but not to the point im gonna cum. I'm with you on the spitting thing to. I don't care for it nor would I spit on a ladies pussy.

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