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reasonable bj time
questionman222 1156 reads
posted
1 / 25

I have had both sides of the spectrum.  There are some providers who seem to be genuinely into it.  For these girls, they're into, and its more like making love to my cock than the perfunctory appetizer.  But I've also had other providers, who, after a short while, look at me with those eyes, basically saying "can you just fuck me now?"    They seem to tire quickly, and when they do, their performance wanes.

So, what is a reasonable amount of time to expect a good bj?

While we're on the subject, question for the providers:  I read that a lot of guys like you to spit on their cock during the bj.  I do not like that at all.  I understand the, I guess, pornstar experience, fantasy.  But to me, I don't like being spit on, and would never spit on a girls pussy.  When is the best time to let the provider know this?

HooktardGold 944 reads
posted
2 / 25

Posted By: questionman222
I have had both sides of the spectrum.  There are some providers who seem to be genuinely into it.  For these girls, they're into, and its more like making love to my cock than the perfunctory appetizer.  But I've also had other providers, who, after a short while, look at me with those eyes, basically saying "can you just fuck me now?"    They seem to tire quickly, and when they do, their performance wanes.  
   
 So, what is a reasonable amount of time to expect a good bj?  
   
 While we're on the subject, question for the providers:  I read that a lot of guys like you to spit on their cock during the bj.  I do not like that at all.  I understand the, I guess, pornstar experience, fantasy.  But to me, I don't like being spit on, and would never spit on a girls pussy.  When is the best time to let the provider know this?

JoeBanzai 30 Reviews 864 reads
posted
3 / 25

it's best to mention it after you have given her donation and before you start going at it hot and heavy. The same for something you like.

If you are into long bj's but don't like to be spit on, tell her. She may need a "break" if you like a full hour bj, but she should not have a problem with avoiding spitting on you.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1001 reads
posted
4 / 25

They get jaw pain and TMJ, which may prevent them from the awesome ability to blow for an hour straight.  

Then again, you may want to see her as her awareness may cause her to grow her BJ skill set to the point where you have no choice but to stop... Or nut... After a few minutes.

russbbj 89 Reviews 895 reads
posted
6 / 25

If I could hold off for that long, not likely. If a lady treats it like an appetizer with me, it'll be a one time only appointment and obviously she won't mind me not repeating. As far as spitting, the more the better for me, I like it to start like she's making love to my cock but I love a raunchy, nasty finish. But that's my preference, tell her what you want before or early on and most ladies will be more than happy to accommodate.

Arovet 62 Reviews 814 reads
posted
8 / 25
HooktardGold 720 reads
posted
9 / 25

Damn pork skins! My post was based on the assumption that the date would be 2 plus hours... in an hour appt. my guess would be 20 min. if he actually wanted a GFE and not a total oral date. The latter is just fine with me, though lol.

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89Springer 727 reads
posted
10 / 25

If a bj starts feeling stale for me, she's not doing it the way I like. Just like Russbj, I could have a woman go on forever.

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 772 reads
posted
11 / 25

And start carving out time for each activity. Go with the flow and possibly, you will enjoy more. Reminds me knuckle heads coming back tired from vacation because they had list and everything but didn't have time to enjoy a single thing.

89Springer 718 reads
posted
12 / 25

Reminds me knuckle heads coming back tired from vacation because they had list and everything but didn't have time to enjoy a single thing.
Reminds me of one of my motorcycle trips. I was at the Grand Canyon, just sitting on a rock at a turnout, looking across the canyon. A car slid into the turnout on the loose gravel, and the driver got out. He went to the edge, took a photo, then quickly got back into the car. One of the kids said, "Can we get out and see, Daddy?" The father said, "you can look at the picture when we get home.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 694 reads
posted
13 / 25

You want to know if you should let her keep practicing until she figures it out?

I won't let a woman keep making me gin gimlets if they're not the way I like them.

inicky46 61 Reviews 900 reads
posted
14 / 25

you want your cock sucked.  Sorry, but it's true.

captain7 754 reads
posted
15 / 25

and it spoils it for the rest of us. I can see how a provider can become harden when exposed to "I paid for you so you are mine, bitch" mentality. I am grateful that a beautiful young lady (in my eyes) will get naked with me and pretend that I am an incredible stud. Once I decide to see a provider, I just let the experience unfold. I don't go in with any expectations except to have a good time. And if I don't, I don't go back. I don't have a "to do" list and I don't think for a moment that just because I rented a provider for a specified time, that I own her.

AnotherDonJohn 714 reads
posted
16 / 25

5 min and forever.

Or until you tell her to stop. Lol

Grow some balls and she can play with those too.

AnotherDonJohn 583 reads
posted
18 / 25

Sometimes you feel like a nut- even for 2 hrs.

At least once in a while, I schedule all oral sessions for 90-120 min.

AnotherDonJohn 701 reads
posted
19 / 25

could be evolutionary as well= selecting for strong BJ genes.  

I'm doing it for future Gens not just for myself. lol.

HooktardGold 881 reads
posted
20 / 25

If you act like you just got a bug in your mouth whilst riding a harely at 80 mph, that's one thing, but spit slowly dripping from your lips for added lubrication is necessary and erotic. Do you want her to eat some grits and then start sucking your d(ck? Well duh... if you don't want that sandpaper feeling, spit is needed. Goodness. I've never had a guy go down on me with pot mouth, and not complain about it hurting. Please... spit all you want, but don't act like you're trying to hit the building across the street with it.

89Springer 776 reads
posted
21 / 25

I'll make suggestions. If that doesn't work, then I wouldn't see her again.

inicky46 61 Reviews 720 reads
posted
22 / 25

Poor Captain didn't realize I was just going for a good punch line.  Also, the OP was ridiculous on its face because there's no "right" way to answer the question.

Jbone34 743 reads
posted
23 / 25

I tend to like the girl to do it until im fully hard but not to the point im gonna cum. I'm with you on the spitting thing to. I don't care for it nor would I spit on a ladies pussy.

HooktardGold 460 reads
posted
24 / 25

I don't have VIP yet damnit! Oh, and I spelled Harley wrong in my post... about to duck lol.

Littlestinker 828 reads
posted
25 / 25

How long does it take you before you get your reward and swallow

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