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I_like_escorts 22 Reviews 1926 reads
posted
1 / 23

This is something I touched on in another thread, but this thread will focus on it.  I like mid-afternoon appointments, because they give me time to do something fun and social afterwards, like meet friends for dinner or board games.  I always get a big kick how people reacted to me at those gatherings.  It was like I become the alpha wolf of the group.  Last time I hobbied and met friends for dinner on a patio afterwards, these things happened:
* During my walk back the train station, homeless people ignored me instead of asking me for money, and one man looked down when I looked at him.  (It's an act of submissiveness, according to social science.)
* The commuter train conductor seemed to have a confused "deer in the headlights" look, when he came up to me to ask me for my ticket.
*At dinner with friends, men hung on to every word I said, the whole group went along with my suggestion to hit up a bar afterwards, and women hugged me good night at the end.  (Usually, the greetings are with words.)

One person in that other thread said "it's the pheromones", and I'm sure he was right.  Either they're something my body produces naturally after sex or something left on me from the skin-to-skin contact during the appointment.  Which one is it, by the way?

So what's everyone else's story?  Do people react "strangely" to you when you meet them after hobbying?  Are there differences in reactions from friends vs. stangers?

Black-Panther 81 reads
posted
2 / 23

I definitely get a different reaction from some people (not all). Part of it attributable to your own behavior. Anxiety is down, more approachable. People like happy people and I'm happy as fuck coming off a good session. Women also like a challenge, and after fucking a hot chick, you are now a challenge. You're not horny wanting to get laid, because you just got laid by hopefully a model quality provider. So the really hot chick who is used to getting attention, you're not paying attention to her, they hate that. I think its mostly you're not tense, in a good mood, and have that "I have a secret" air about you that intrigues people. Again, people like happy people. Look at gay guys, they get laid and BJs all the time, I'd be happy as fuck, too.

barebear3 38 Reviews 75 reads
posted
3 / 23

I have had the experience you described when hobbying in Holland. Maybe it is because people on the street can see the door where you have been - and they know what goes on inside. Maybe it is the silly grin on my face. Maybe it is a renewed feeling of confidence.  Maybe it is the smell of sex on your face if you DATY. And it may be  pheromones.

I wouldn't worry about it unless you are going to meet a girlfriend or wife. Women can smell another woman on you.

Black-Panther 82 reads
posted
4 / 23

Men forget that womens' sense of smell is 10x higher than their own. With my ex, I would use the gas trick. Fill-up at a gas station and accidentally 'spill' a bit on my hands. I didn't get a divorce because of my philandering, but hers.

 
Also, try this. Keep the shirt you've worn after seeing a provider. Sniff it the next day and before washing. You'll see how it smells to high heaven of the 'other woman'.  

 
Speaking of my ex, when she was pregnant the sense of smell is off the charts, superhuman level. We were driving through the countryside and she said she smelled something burning. I was like WTF, I can't smell or see anything and I have a good sense of smell. After driving about 5 more minutes (West Coast so 5 minutes is 5 mles) I start to smell something burning. Another few miles and they were burning down some wheat stubble in some fields. That was crazy. So women's sense of smell, perception, and picking up details is far greater than yours. I'm guessing its millenia of evolution where they are gatherers and men are hunters. Women through evolution pick up on details (gathering berries and the right ones so as not get poisoned) with the added need of being aware so as not to get picked off by predators in the wild.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 89 reads
posted
5 / 23

It's likely your own view changes and that your behavior changes in subtle ways that people notice.

inicky46 61 Reviews 79 reads
posted
6 / 23

Whenever I'd walk back into the house after a session his nose would be glued to my leg, sniffing.

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 106 reads
posted
7 / 23

There's that aura, like a halo over your head. You got that, "Fuck yeah, they don't make bullets fast enough" air about yourself.
I usually hit a strip club after my date, just to relax, have a drink and admire the eye candy. My flirtatious nature really is in overdrive. But I'm just looking, not into any crazy VIP shit. But I remember one young lady and I were talking, and in my mid-sentence, she said, "You just had sex, didn't you?"....lol
So after you had a wild ride, you'll be more relaxed with not a care in the world.

gentleguy1020 38 Reviews 87 reads
posted
8 / 23

more confident, relaxed, ravenous, happier ... woman love that shit! Oh yes, they can smell ‘sex’ on you - doesn’t matter how much you showered after ...  
Try this: make a longer plan with your date. Go to dinner or a lounge in high end hotels - you will notice a difference in how you’re received by males and females.

herbtcat 6 Reviews 87 reads
posted
9 / 23

I'm not married and never have been, fortunately.  

 
But when I meet a group of friends after a session their reaction to me is usually based on whether I or not I start off the conversation with "I just fucked a hottie" or I just say "Hi."  

 
You can probably guess how reactions change either way...  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

EveAlexander See my TER Reviews 83 reads
posted
10 / 23

I noticed the same thing years ago, and started experimenting. I think the effects are correlated due to other factors. So, not pheromones (at least for me). Details like "am I leaving hotels at 2AM, dressed to the nines" seem to be bigger factors. ;-)

More seriously, though, experimenting with my behavior post engagement suggests that I might act a certain way after a session. When being more "noticed" could cause problems or annoyances, I just change how I act, and no one's the wiser!

I_like_escorts 22 Reviews 102 reads
posted
11 / 23

You know, I have a funny hobby story involving a hotel bar.  I was sitting in a hotel bar with a provider (Veronica Chase, now retired).  Contrary to my usual 1-hour appointments, I booked a longer one that night, so we had time to sit in the bar for a while.  I was 25 at the time, and still lacked that aged, weathered look; she was early to mid 30's, and very sexy-looking.  I came straight from work that night, so I was still had that "computer geek" look, with my slacks and polo shirt.  I was blatantly acting like me and were together, like holding her hand and playing with her hair.

Across from us were a group of 50-something men in dark suits, probably bankers or C-level officers of some sort.  I saw them looking at my "date".  They had the most jealous look in their eyes I've ever seen!  I made eye contact with them, with a smug look on my face, and though to myself: "Put /that/ in your pipe and smoke it, suits!"  (I work in the tech field, and upper management (i.e. "suits") are a pain to deal with, so that was doubly vindicating.)

I_like_escorts 22 Reviews 75 reads
posted
12 / 23

It's interesting that you mentioned being happy.  When I first started hobbying at age 22, I remember being on cloud nine after my appointments.  Like, skipping while I walked, grinning like an idiot, doing the happy dance in the hotel elevator, etc.  Today, it's become more subtle.  I don't engage in blatant demonstrations of happiness, and like to think I maintain an even-keeled demeanor.  But I'm sure it still comes out in subtle ways, like maybe the way I walk, a look I have on my face, or a more dominant tone of voice I use without realizing it.  Plus, my steps feel heavier under my feet.

One appointment in 2016 had an interesting but understandable effect.  On my train ride home, I noticed one girl, who looked young enough to be in high school, checking me out.  I was already 32 at the time, so that was a little awkward.  I avoided eye contact with her as much as I could, although I did see her look down when I glanced in her direction.

Drumguy25 23 Reviews 129 reads
posted
13 / 23

but I like to go.out to a bar after an appointment.  At the very least, I'm empty, so I won't be picking up any coyotes! Lol

TheVoiceOfReason 75 reads
posted
14 / 23

Hmm.  Wowzas.   Great to see some ladies coming from nowhere.

team_rocket_qwerty 98 reads
posted
15 / 23

That most of the time people read into this too much. Certainly, a lot of times, especially if you don't shower after sex, people can smell pussy on you. But most of the time imo you're just noticing things that are not there. Or your behavior changes so much that it's a natural reaction of people to you. But I'd go with the former, as it's the more likely choice.  

 

It's like that psychological study where a person who has some kind of embarrassment thinks everyone is staring at him/her on a train. Whereas, it's not really the case.

impposter 49 Reviews 87 reads
posted
16 / 23

Posted By: team_rocket_qwerty
It's like that psychological study where a person who has some kind of embarrassment thinks everyone is staring at him/her on a train. Whereas, it's not really the case.
Or maybe it is?

Black-Panther 79 reads
posted
17 / 23
I_like_escorts 22 Reviews 76 reads
posted
18 / 23

Well, after my last appointment, I /didn't/ bother showering; I just walked back to the train after my appointment.  Since I'm single, washing off the hobby smell wasn't a priority.  So I rode the train back to the suburbs as I was, to meet friends for dinner.  So I must have still had the hobby smell on me.  Which caused men to hang to my every word, and women to hug me at parting.  Now, I ain't complaining!  Due to the elevated neurotransmitter levels in my body, those hugs felt nicer than usual, almost like a free post-session bonus.

EveAlexander See my TER Reviews 108 reads
posted
19 / 23

I sort of missed TER's shutdown phase, since I was on long hiatus... Twitter and IG are great and all, but I guess I'm still old school when it comes to also using the boards! :-)

IG: _Eve_Alexander_
Twitter: @vixen_for_hire

GaGambler 119 reads
posted
20 / 23

and by "bedhead" I don't mean a BBBJ, I mean the tussled look you have after sex.  

 
I was meeting some friends at a bar one afternoon several years ago and I stopped for a session on the way that made me run just a little bit late to meet them. The first thing one of my buddies said to me when I walked in the bar was "Dude, you have bedhead" you just got laid, didn't you???" The shit eating grin on my face was all the answer he needed.  

 
BTW, all my friends know I fuck hookers, so this wasn't exactly a huge surprise that I showed up late because a session with a hooker ran over a bit. lol

 
So yes that FF (Freshly Fucked) look is often rather easy to spot. I've seen it on women as well.

Valida 17 Reviews 84 reads
posted
21 / 23

Two of the ladies I see regularly remind me when I'm leaving not to grin too much.  They know the effect they have, and they're proud of it, and they want me not to get busted so I can come back again.

Valida 17 Reviews 85 reads
posted
22 / 23

One lady used to say "Wives are dogs!"  She meant, of course, that wives are like bloodhounds in their ability to detect different scents.

I_like_escorts 22 Reviews 86 reads
posted
23 / 23

When I saw Nora in July, I had a perfect facial cover-up: a mask!  The boring, hospital-type mask with ear loops, the one everybody and their brother wears nowadays.  Even though I'm sure I was grinning, the mask covered it all, until I was safely a block away. At that point, it was OK to remove it until I got to my train.  Downtown streets are filled with crazies, anyway; one extra grinning man won't make a lick of difference.

I'm sure some of us hobbyists will embrace wearing a mask while walking out of a provider's location, even long after Whats-Its-Face stops spreading.  Plus, masks obscure our identity to a large extent.

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