So I have heard from someone that a provider I was going to see is actually larger than advertised.  I figured maybe I'll ask her how much she currently weighs, right this week, because that gives me a good idea of whether or not she is as fit as her Aldo photos make her out to be.  

Not sure why some people think that I am posting under alias. Last time they thought I was that Jack guy.  No I am not NewEnglandGangsta.  Only thing I like about NE is fish, mr.fisher, and Brady.  I don't know no "gangsta" from NE.  

Tell her you will look for the girl in the pics.  If she is not the girl in the pics you leave her standing/waiting.  Be kind enough to text her within an hour that you left because you did not see the girl in the pic.

IMO asking a lady her weight is not polite.  However, since this is as you said a business transaction and the lady's weight is an important factor for you, I think you're justified in asking, if you have reasonable doubt that her published weight is inaccurate... which you have here.

Why go through all the trouble and waste all that time with meeting someone in the lobby to see if she looks like what you see in the pics and then walkaway or set and an appointment, meet her at her door and then leave.

Last time we met you told me you liked me WAY better than Tom Brady!

8o(

It's we guys (That is grammatically correct, by the waqy.) who believe the photos, much to some of our not so ever-lasting regret.

It amazes me how many girls will use old photos of the "fit" version and then show up looking nothing like that. I like "petite" ladies and remember booking a session with a girl who advertised herself as "petite". Her photos showed a very petite, slender body, but when the doorbell rang I was shocked when I opened the door because the girl standing outside looked more like a "muffin top" that I wouldn't have bought a drink for in a bar, much less, paid to see naked. I'm also at a loss when I see ladies use photos that don't represent themselves well. I really don't care if they get offended if I ask "how recent are your photos?"  

How many times have you arrived to meet a gorgeous woman who doesn't look at all like what attracted you in her photos?

tell you her you have a wardrobe request for which you'll provide the clothes, so you need her measurements or size.

And how recent are her pictures?  Both would seem relevant.  It's possible she's lost weight since the other guy saw her.  Or maybe she has new pictures.  Or both.

I do not know any woman who DOESN'T lie about her weight, even if she doesn't need to.

Even dodging the question implies something.  
That's where I'm getting at.

While you were having delusions that I was a member of the crips ?

You are blunt to be sure, but my hats (maybe my panties) off to you on this one!

Steph xoxo

That may work....but many clothing brands run in different sizes. For instance, in one clothing brand, I may be a size 0, in another I may be a size 2, and yet another, a size 4 or even 6, will fit just fine...so there is room for error there, that is completely dependent on the clothing brand/designer.  

My point is: You had reason to believe her pics were old. Thus, you have established that she could be less than truthful. It is not like you are a lawyer trying to trip her up on the witness stand. Either believe your intel or not.

Actually I am the top poster right now but he's not me...I'm not him.  

In her review,  I'd be able to say that I walked out because it's a bait and switch and she's fully aware of her fraud

Curly was drunk and now he is sober, you were stupid, and guess what? You are still stupid. See how this works?

Oh, God. That means that NewEnglandGangser is actually sharphedin. I don't know if I can handle that.

I'm genetically stupid... Drunks CHOSE to drink... Well sorta, but I'm not laughing.

If I were you I'd be mad!

10-20lbs  

So you are saying moist is good?

I guess a good question for us to ask guys is, "Have you ever taken a girl's schedule and time hat others may be asking for, allow her to skip those other clients, but then cancel the next day? Are you able to afford this appointment, or may something come up that will make you unable to pay the rate I charge?"

So, show up with a weight scale and get her to step on it. Or a tape measure and check her waist size. Fill up the tub and calculate her body mass. IDK? I mean really? Women always lie about what they weigh. Her weight is not an indicator of how healthy of a life she leads or her workout regime and physical strength. She may work out and have muscle, but you should be able to tell if its there or see flubbery fat from her photos. I don't photoshop, don't believe in it. So if someone thinks I am too big to visit, so be it. I don't mind meeting before an appointment to verify my size and I certainly make it my business to attend M&G's so that a guy can size up for himself if I am what he would like. But in my opinion, what's sexy to you is what's sexy to you, it's not always a particular dress size.  

Business is based on what a lady has that is appealing to the guy dropping the cash. It's one sided. We can't pick and choose if your next client has a beer gut or not or a wart on his nose, we go with it why, because you are bringing the $$$. Ladies should not mislead the buyer and be like so what sucker, but all in all it is a hustle. Some are better than others, but the sneaky ones don't last for too long and eventually get caught up in their shit. If you are true to what you say you are, it should not be an issue. If she is hiding an extra 30lbs, since her pics, you would know as soon as you see her. And that's just bad business on her part and should be called out on it. Avoiding the question does seem suspicious. IJS...

"photoshopped for color correction."

I'm probably the least critical guy ever, but you are way off in your assertion.

Are you not getting what I am saying? A 150 lb "baby fat" chick and a 150 lb "athletic" field hockey chick both weigh 150lb... But the presentation of that 150 lbs makes the difference. To say you don't want to fuck a 150 lb chick excludes the "athletic" field hockey chick even if she is way hotter than the flubbery chick. Same goes for calling an "ethnic" girl fat when she may have more muscle mass or carry her weight differently even if she wears a standard dress size of 6 or 8.  

If I'm blowing several hundred an hour on an escort, I want the girl to have a body shape that is at least  close enough to her photos. I don't want to drive all the way to her incall or have her come all the way to my hotel only to find out that she's 10 pounds heavier and no longer as sexy as I'm willing to pay top dollars for.  
If she posts photos that make her look like a magazine model that is what I expect to see not a girl who looks like she needs to work out a couple of months and lay off the dunken donuts.

Being under the influence is an explination, not an excuse.

Google white balance...also saturation/vibrance/hue while you're at it

And you are NOT buying specific sex services. That would be illegal, LOL

In the way you mean it or her exercise regimen. He is interested in what she looks like from a purely aesthetic POV and as a trick, it is his prerogative.  

If the pics are accurate you can easily tell the difference between the 150 baby fat and the 150 athlete. And if the baby fat chick has been photo-shopped that much to look like the athlete on the website, think of the shock the guys would get when they see her in the flesh?