lightly caressing her ears with the tip of my tongue and warm breath.  I then kiss the hollow of her throat on the way to the valley of her breasts.  I choose a nipple to worship with my mouth while my hand cups and fondles the other breast.

I bring the nipple into my mouth and gently massage it to hardness with my puckered lips as I gently pinch and rub her other nipple.  As the nipple hardens, I place it against my upper lip and teeth so that I can alternately thump it and swirl it with my tongue. If she responds, I gently increase the pressure and tongue thumping to her responses.  I make sure that I worship both breasts before moving on.

I have used my other hand to part her pussy lips and massage her clit so that the juices are flowing.  I kiss my way down to her belly button while slowly rubbing her clit.  I continue kissing my way down to her hot, moist mound and slowly lick around it. I kiss my way down her thighs to the back of her knees while positioning myself for the work at hand.

I make my way back up into her feminine wellspring and engage her whole pussy with my mouth as I slide her legs up onto my shoulders so that she does not have to strain to keep them open.  I then simply attack all senses.

I search for her clit with my tongue until I find the swelling happy place as I reach up with both hands to gently massage the nipples of both of her breasts.  Upon finding her clit, I begin small circles with my tongue that grow slowly and steadily in pressure and intensity, regulating to response, swelling, and juice flow.  Ultimately, I am swirling and thumping her clit with hard tongue pressure as I play, pinch, and massage her nipples with my fingers.  I will not stop until successful or requested.  I am never requested to stop.

As I play with her clit, using my tongue, lips, and (gently) my teeth, I am applying gentle pressure below with my chin.  After the first orgasm, I will very briefly break contact with my tongue for her to recover from the numbness before beginning again with even harder tongue pressure.  I will thump, I will lick, I will suck the clit until another orgasm is cumming.  As she is building up to the next orgasm, I will bring down my right hand and slowly insert my middle finger, cupping my chin with my palm to hold position.  I will then curl my middle finger up as if I was trying to reach my tongue through her clit and begin tapping the upper wall behind her clit while thumping her clit with my tongue - all the while massaging her nipple with my left hand.  I will not stop until successful or requested.  I am never requested to stop.

This is all a prelude to the sex that will follow, and I will wield my manhood in a continuing effort to please.


Ladies, does my DATY method work for you, and if not, can you suggest alternate methods?  I am always willing to learn how to please you, and I truly believe that practice makes perfect.

Guys, can you share other methods that have been successful for you in pleasing the ladies?

Sex is life. Life is great.

To add on to what Sophie advises; make sure your finger nails are clipped & your hands are clean prior to any digit insertion.

But if you're saying that you like it a little rough, it's gotta be a two way street.....

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I enjoy being with a lady who needs to be submissive.  But I rarely play this game with providers..... and not every lady appeals to me in this way. Perhaps the next time you feel like visiting the DC area? Oh! I impose a certain penalty for the use of a safeword.....

Women differ in what they like. I get nervous when the guy heads for the clit with his fingers. That means he's inserting his fingers into my Vajayjay and it usually means a yeast infection afterward. No thanks. I prefer the tongue. But, you were very descriptive and I liked what you wrote. If you can skip the finger part then the rest is great for me!


Hugs,
Ciara

to accompany the attention of my tongue....?

However, a bit of spirited resistance is always fun.

And remember, we owe each other a spanking!

if it were logistically possible to put this threesome together, I'd be up for it


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-- Modified on 11/18/2008 6:37:05 PM

Let's see.  All tongue, no dry fingers, clean shaven, let you do the nipples, and longer recovery after Orgasm.  Got it. I can only hope to be able to practice on you someday - you are terrifically beautiful.

Thank you again.  

Thank you for your response.  You have been on my fantasy list for quite some time and I look forward to chasing the Sun West across the country one day to find the true light of your beauty.  When I get there, I will most definitely ensure that it is but my lucky tongue that is graced by the convulsive outpouring of your feminine nectar and shall find other uses for my fingers.

Til' then my lovely.



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I'm looking forward to the rendezvous.

Hugs,
ciara

blindfolds it is - and I'll allow you to choose your own penalty for safeword use if you'd like.

Pink Leather!  I'm all a twitter..... '