This happened to me twice lately. I read reviews, did my homework, but in person my mileage didn't go nearly as far as other review writers. Or even what their website/ad states. When in doubt, I could not go into details over the phone since most providers hesitate talking menu items over the phone... and sometimes even in person.

I am trying a number of local providers because I am looking for a travel companion to Hawaii in January. These new attempts remind me my first days in hobby.

A very good advice. Thank you.  
I am ashamed I didn't think it before.

Look inward for the real problem, not outward.

Other people including women in my life always said I have very good hygiene. Plus, I always brush and shower before a date.

Your situation sounds quite unfortunate, and it seems like there may be a communication issue going on somewhere. I'm not sure how other girls communicate with their guests, but I actually prefer my friends to let me know upfront what type of experience they're hoping for, and I try to create an environment where they feel comfortable enough doing so. That doesn't mean that your initial email should state "can I get bbbj" for example, but after she has screened you and agreed to meet you, I can't imagine any feasible excuse for not communicating about your meeting. Additionally, although some women have done certain things in the past with other guests, it does not mean she's comfortable doing it with everyone. Again, that's where communication comes in. The best thing to do is be open with your friends after they have approved your meeting. If she still doesn't feel comfortable discussing what your time with her will be like, despite agreeing to meet with you, perhaps you're not as compatible as you initially thought. Good luck!

...but that sure sounds like fun to me...

I am not new, I guess... Doing this since 2010. After a few hits and misses I decided to be a regular for my favorite provider. If only she weren't busy in January.

and that is vetting your potential "vacation mate" before taking an extended trip with a provider.

and it seems to most often boil down to just a few most likely problems:

...look at it like a series of new adventures...

If I was perfectly clean (which is always the case), then I just move on. Sometimes your just not a match or the reviews are fakes. It happens.

I believe nagging will be minimal since we will stay at a five star resort, but who knows? One week is a long time. Worst case, I will come back with a bronze tan and a tired right hand.

Ironically I only was paying $300 a night for a thousand dollar suite, because I got upgraded for free, but according to her, "her friend" could have done better. That very first night, I knew I was in for a long ten days. I doubt that will happen to you as you will be her client, not her BF, and providers are less likely to give clients the "true GFE" lol

The old saying is: "Use your left hand -- it'll feel like someone else is doing it."
Good luck with your search.

and I have no good explanation for it except the provider was having a bad day. I really don't think hygiene and attitude were the problem as other providers tell me I'm fine there. In fact, the "ymmv" thing usually tilts in my favor, i.e. I often get services not on providers' published menus.  

Some providers pull this in spite of the client being showered, groomed, and a gentleman. I'd ask if I misunderstood her reviews, but that's just going to get a BS response most times. I certainly don't let it slide. Put it into her review, but be ready for the White Knights and various Trrholes to give you shit. It happens.  

For the love of God, don't tell him about Hawaii.  

Invest in yourself and your peace of mind.  Buy an hour from one of the ladies and ask her to be transparent, honest and frank.  It will be money well spent.  I'm sure the lady will find your bravery refreshing, also.

Friend,

What did you eat before the session? If a guy ate garlic there is no way on hell I will kiss...yes it is on my website.

Even if he is screened? Because he might not get a date doing that. I will not leave a trace of anything in an email...EVER

I have spidey-sense for these sorts of things I really do! I'm just sitting here in the oh sooooo exciting Kansas City airport and all of sudden I felt a tingle :::MUST. CHECK. GD BOARD. NOW!!!:::
And now I know why.... HAWAII!!!!
Bwahahahahahaha!

You should go back and actually read my comment. At no point did I say anything about asking specifically for sexual acts in an email. But there should be some communication as to what type of experience he's hoping to gain from his encounter. Obviously if his hygiene is not up to par, no matter what's stated in an email or a review, certain services will be off limits. Secondly, in the event that he does state sexual acts in an email, it's not any more or any less traceable than witting a review, sending a text, or having an account here. Everything we do, especially on the Internet, is traceable back to its source.

No way in hell would I ever put any acronyms in a text, phone conversation or email, there is no mention on my website either...I have no reviews. Even if I have screened the guy. Call me paranoid, call me careful, call me whatever you feel like, I will not ever leave a trace of what goes on or might go on for anyone to see.  

If your mind is not creative enough to conjure up what that conversation looks like on your own, then my explaining it will be of no use to you. And if you think your website and email are not traceable back to you, you're highly misinformed.  

The thing about garlic, is that it is not the garlic in your mouth that is the issue, but the fact that the garlic odor gets into and stays in the blood for several days, and the odor is passed on to your breath in your lungs.

I was not discussing the possibility of email and website transparency. I was referencing the addition of sex acts via full text or acronym, in communication.

I'd add asparagus to the list to avoid for several days before a date. Your pee and I suppose your ejaculate reeks of it too.

I don't eat much garlic, and certainly not prior to an appointment, and I'm cut.

Won't eat it 3 days prior to a session though, almost makes me puke to pee it out can't imagine my cum afterwards.

I've run into a couple of providers who had garlic seeping out of their pores and I could tell they have it in their diet on a regular basis. AND I won't even start on smokers ...

You know what they say about guys with big noses ... they can fill up a tissue in one blow.

It wouldn't be GFE unless she complained about everything. I also dated one of those, but she had no idea she was doing it until we had the "come to Jesus" talk. That only fixed things for a brief time and I ended up giving her the pink slip. Funny thing was ... she was a retired escort.  

but that's only because the bar has been set so low most hookers can trip over it.

What I offer is what I state I offer. I enter the YMMV zone when I have especially good chemistry with a client. Expect to get what I say I offer in my ad. Find a provider with whom you have good chemistry.
Soft Kisses,
Lillian

I actually did post in ISO, but most replies were from vegas, atlanta, chicago. I live in the seattle area, so I could not possibly see them 3-5 times until January to figure out a weeklong compatibility

Look down-hearted and confused
Because lately you’ve been startin'to lose
Losin'out on everything you might try to do
Bad luck’s there, it’s got a hold on you…

I appreciate it that people have their own chemistry and everything can be ymmv, but when someone gets great access or service it can be frustrating. What I do personally is not see that person again. I can write a review, but then people will fault you with not discussing this issue with her in the session (something I never do) before complaining about it later.

Remember a while back a hooker mentioned an old guy who wore depends but only showered 3 times a week and changed said depends twice a day or close to it? He bitched at the lack of service hookers gave him when their reviews said otherwise.  

Thank you for implying I am a dirty asshole. I am sorry I did not go into detail as to what I was not offered and what the situation was like. The last time I did not receive a service as reviewed frequently on the provider I was in Paris enjoying a 2-day threesome with 2 women I flew in for the occasion. Both were reviewed to have offered CIM, but only one gave it to me while the other didn't. I did not ask her why and I have not seen her since. If this was something she offered only by request, I missed out on it because I did not explicitly ask for it. Maybe there was a smell only one of them detected? I wouldn't know, I know that I shower/shave multiple times a day when I book someone and probably go through a large bottle of mouthwash in 2 or 3 days. All I can do is clean myself and scrub thoroughly, without any specific feedback its impossible for me to know if I missed something.

normal hygiene.

too many other ladies who like their job.

that is what I would do

Asking them why their reviews stated these menu items that you were interested in, but clearly are not available. If you don't get what you thought you were going to get, I would write a review stating that. To many guys write favorable reviews when they didn't have the experience they actually the said they did.  It is a shame.