Friends,

As always, stick with a well reviewed provider who is hosting in a private residence or upscale hotel in a good part of town.

... an incall is a very PRIVATE AND VERY PERSONAL, because it's usually a providers' own place where they live... or am I wrong??? Me as a provider an incall will only happen to friends I have met several times before. I'm not sure why you are worried, because they open THEIR doors to you....

If they have any reviews at all, I'm up for an incall. I probably wouldn't for a BP girl with no other internet presence. I also wouldn't do an outcall with such a girl either.

Sure, some are.  But most are not. Most are hotel rooms and many others are apartments where she works but does not live.
I also disagree with your headline.  No one really needs to worry, but reasonable concerns are appropriate for both parties.

... and haven't had any problems.  Most of these incalls were spaces rented only for incalls, not the provider's personal residence nor a hotel.  

Mostly hotels, but a few girls work out of their apartment.  No problem in 14 years.  

but that said, be careful if the incall is at a cheap motel where the room door faces the parking lot.   Those are the places favored by LE.   If the gal does get such a place, come by a few hours before and park discreetly from a distance.  Observe if clients come and go without entering a paddy wagon.

No, it really won't.

Geez. Not I’m really scared!!

Used many in call in my hobby life, they were all in nice luxury apartments in all cases. One can always turn away from unsafe places. You may experience completely different environment, the city you are in, etc.

Not so.  

Have you heard about Atlanta, Yes we do need to be nervous about incall locations. I would hope you are not bring people to your home residence. If so you should be extra careful !!!

Check the provider if she/he has reviews. If she/he has none and you still want to see her/him then check the area that you're going to. If she/he is working out of a hotel type place, yelp or Google the place and read the reviews. Also again check the area if you're a local then ask yourself is this a place I can go to and be okay visiting at night and get back to my car safely. And if you're not a local ask a local about the location(concierge or something)

got ripped off on an incall with a BP girl.

I don't know about the rest of you guys, but no way in hell am I going to stake out a hooker's motel room and waste hours of my time trying to figure out if she is a cop or not. If I am feeling that uneasy I just book with another girl.  

but if you really have a thing for this gal, and want to be safe, the stalking thing has it's merits.

I mean I get that your within your comfort zone of only outcalls but in-calls are no different, I would hope the provider you're seeing is reviewed and just as nice as the outcalls you have had. I always try to make every client that is in contact with me feel 100% comfortable weather it is a in-call or a outcall. Your safety as well as mine should always be cared for. If you were hesitant then you can always email back and forth to get a feel for the person you're meeting or even a short phone conversation to put your mind at ease. Just some helpful suggestions.

1. Has reviews on multiple site's  
2. She researches you
3. Have a short conversation see if your comfortable
 Your gut is your best friend.
4. If she's utr she would still be around for awhile  
I've had clients feel comfortable with me because of that reason.
But come up with a list and if she meets that list requirements you should be good to go.

LMFAO 😂 😂 😂 😂

As has been said here, the key is well reviewed provider and keeping your eyes open.  As a married guy, leaving a paper trail of hotel/motel rentals increases my risk (and expense).  Better to go to a gal who already has a place.