The "Money Talk" ruins the GFE for me

I'll give you a little credit.  Not all your posts are clueless.  But this one?   R you shitting me?  I guess that's what you happen when you roll with BP girls.
Your thoughts, oh never mind!

either their site is vague or they have a la carte pricing which I REALLY hate. Except for greek which I understand.

Re: You wish bro.(e) xoxo eom

I'm sexy n u no it ! xoxo

Like, "a couple of hours"...do you mean two, or eight? And if they don't mention time at all, I always get nervous that they'll string me along and then make an offer for a half hour (Eros guys...ick).  

I'm the *worst* about asking for/negotiating $$ so I'm usually pretty shy about peeling though the bills right in front of someone. Just kind of tacky. I'm usually one to not touch "the envelope please" until I'm on my way out the door. I think it kind of sends a message. With that said - I'm able to live by that protocol due to stringent screening. I have to have a certain level of trust beforehand to trust that someone will slip the correct fee in. If it's a first timer or someone that I've only screened through work information I usually try to find a discreet moment (alone) to glance in. If you're **really** good and have been providing for a while you know what a stack of 20's feels like in denominations of 3, 4 & 500. Sometimes someone is short a twenty but I feel like they're doing that to test me somehow. I don't like it but I'm not going to call a client over being 20.00 short either.  

Hey DD...look at the thread below this and realize YOU don't want that trail...trust me.

Never done and never will do that crap with any hooker.

Internet sucks . And he invented it , didn't he ? Hey CPA OTC will now be about 9 hours . Of no talking or anything .

I would never let you cut into my baseball watching time..

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a gentleman who has a clue. Pay what she asks. Period.

Skimming and then replying is just not good.  And his question was really a short one too  LOL

Even Jerry wouldn't be able to argue with some DA that you didn't really mean to do it.

Youre reading correctly...im not sure what youre saying CPA...no I dont typically talk money. Its on my site my rates and I expect that when I show up as any biz transaction. No pay no play...its that simple. And now I ask for a deposit w anyone new. Period. No likey no dice. Sorry this is business.

I hate it when the rumor mill starts.

Happens a ton with regulars. Sometimes, it's pretty innocent, I think. Other times it's more manipulative. Like, a youngish guy saying 'Come on over and let me show you my new place. I can order in if you're hungry' instead of booking a dinner date. You can see how he'd think that would just be fine and dandy. Not so fine: a regular hobbyist asking me to come over for 'a bottle of wine'...and when pressed, wants to book 1 hr. He knows EXACTLY what he's doing. Either way, I do have a 4-hr rate on my site and it's not to balance the layout...

The deal is however that I like the 10-12 slot followed by lunch with her...and I've been doing this for three years now.  As I have stated a number of times however...I don't pay for the out and about time.  She knows the deal as well...and will only schedule when she has nothing that afternoon.

Posted By: tg_baby

Happens a ton with regulars. Sometimes, it's pretty innocent, I think. Other times it's more manipulative. Like, a youngish guy saying 'Come on over and let me show you my new place. I can order in if you're hungry' instead of booking a dinner date. You can see how he'd think that would just be fine and dandy. Not so fine: a regular hobbyist asking me to come over for 'a bottle of wine'...and when pressed, wants to book 1 hr. He knows EXACTLY what he's doing. Either way, I do have a 4-hr rate on my site and it's not to balance the layout...  
   
 Summarized convo w/me and a guy I saw once (who BTW asked me on a free date).  
   
 Him: are you busy this week?  
 Me: I can make time for a date if that's what you mean. Just let me know when, and for how long you'd like my company  
 Him: A couple hours either Mon or Tues  
 Me: either day is fine...just let me know which day is better, and approximate time. whenever you know your schedule  
 him: mon 3-5pm  
   
 He knew the deal...just wanted to see how far that 'couple hours' sh** would get him.  
   
 It used to stress me out a lot...now I'm better at dealing with it.

Yep...my idol is Howard Hughes.  I don't leave my room...ever.  

Posted By: devindavette

I am Heading out to get some 'live' action, you wouldn't know what that is, it's when you mingle with civilians and get out of the house...  
 Have fun on TER...lol  
 Xxx  
 Dev  
   

Posted By: ChgoCPA

Hey DD...look at the thread below this and realize YOU don't want that trail...trust me.  
     
  Nick says you're smart...I'm really struggling with it though.  Using an online site that's not secure for screening...really?  Check your IP addy...it's really easy to do.  Let me know if you need help...I have lots of pals with Les Mis that know how to use IP addys.  Maybe HOBB knows others?  
     
  We can play monopoly and I'm the banker.  You'll be the teller that won't give me the money when I want to rob the bank.  I'll have to take you into the vault and teach you a lesson.  
     
  Look up RICO...you can google it.  Read the prior thread...or ask nick to send you the link(s).  Get up to speed on the 21st Century so you'll stay safe.  BIB still wants to see you and I don't want to read an article on you..yea, they'll have your real name too....probably pics as well  

so generally the ball's in my court. Or at least I say so!! But obviously that's a matter of opinion, and it's really not so easy to persuade the people who matter of that.

..created the internet, then he rested, then he invented global warming... hope all you n'yalkers are enjoyin' it... hookers without a/c are probably starvin' there..

The only thing I was commenting on was the 'couple of hours' thing. When he meant TWO hours. To me, it seemed like he was being deliberately vague, because he wanted me to stay longer. Other than that, it was OK.

Yeah , its a scortcher ! Over 100  
 Thank goodness for pools . And yeah global , NY is  fucked . B gd .

I have never, and never will, negotiate the donation. I have already researched (read her reviews, saw her pics and know her rates) and being that I've arranged a date I've agreed to the rate for the time. However, nothing and I mean nothing will make this a one time only date quicker than upselling. If the lady wants a certain rate for a certain amount of quality time and has posted that, then that's what I donate. I don't tip either, I'm not sure if that is against protocol. I have given Birthday gifts to two of my favorites, and that equates to a tip I guess, but it was a well thought out gift based upon what I know she likes. To just lay down an extra $, no I don't do that, but I also don't bother the lady with asking for more or trying to pay less.