Ok I know I think of the most random things sometimes, and usually post about them, but I'm obsessed with how we all work, especially how we relate to one another.  Although I've never seen an escort, I see elements of my job obviously whenever someone is providing a service for me. Whether it is the: the hair stylist, nail tech, nanny, carpet cleaner, mechanic, the list goes on and on. So there has been a few times where, I was compelled to tip or tip a lot more than 20% (well something like carpet cleaning isn't necessarily a place where you tip).: :::::

I had no idea about this world but I knew a very experienced monger. He would call and let ne know he had a lady coming and she could bring a friend. So I  showed up and I  gave her a tip. He said never do that again because it will always be expected.  So I  dont.

...providers would have that same expectation.

Since you give the provider the donation before the actual service, tipping is kind of tricky- especially on the first date.  

and if it stopped, I'd wonder why.

First and foremost are waitstaff. In most places, their employers are exempted from paying waitstaff minimum wage. They absolutely depend on tips to make a decent income. It's also how a lot of people evade the law and paying taxes: they do restaurant work on a strictly cash basis and only have to declare a fraction of their real income.  

...but I am usually booking extended appointments and have done some research or asked the woman about her preferences in such things as wine, food or maybe reading materials.

was "To Insure Proper Service."  Accordingly, I was taught that you always tip for a service of a personal nature.  As you point out, things like haircuts, manicures, shoe shines, baggage handlers, masseurs/masseuses, etc., were considered places where you should tip.  The idea was that for regular men and women that did not travel with a valet or a ladies maid, you would show your tangible appreciation for these services provided by professionals in each of their respective disciplines.  

I was actually thinking about this today. I think I'd move an appointment for a regular that either tips well or books longer appointments. If I'm being treated well by them, why not return the favor

I'm always generous with my time and always accept the 3 pop challenge  

I only book one hour when seeing a new girl, but virtually all of my repeats are for two hours or more, so I'm sure that plays a part as well.  Two-hour sessions, plus I always tip, makes me a pretty popular customer.   The other perk that I really treasure is occasional OTC time, usually piggybacking a dinner or massage outside after a two-hour incall session.  

..and no, thats not just a line lol  Honestly, I of the guys who do tip, they dont tip every time.  I definitely dont ever want a guy to feel like he has to do it or obligated.  I really do view it as a gift.

Not often, but there have been times that I have "tipped" them.  Sometimes it's money, other times it may be a item that I think they would enjoy based on our conversations.  I don't do it all the time, just here and there.    

Many of you will probably think this is dumb, but I have never seen a provider without tipping.  I think the nature of the services provided, as well as the risk you ladies take every time you agree to see one of us, warrants a little extra consideration.  We're not talking about a huge amount (I'm far from rich!), just an extra $20 or so stuffed into the envelope.  If the lady earns that tip during the session, then I'm happy to pay a bit more.  If not, then I simply do not repeat.

When I used to toftt every once in awhile I'd see someone who was priced so below her market value, that I'd leave a little extra.

For my ATF, I always tip something and bring her goodies.  For a new woman, it partially depends on my budget. If I'm pushing my limits financially, I'm not going to tip. Likewise, if she seems to be under-priced, based on reviews, etc I may tip in advance. For weird amounts, like $275, I just round up. Since many woman may be in their incalls  for a long period of time, I'll look on their P411 or other info to see if there's something they might like. Not really a tip, but water, fruit, cookies, etc. as an alternate sign of appreciation.

countries nobody tips the waitress. However, I make it a point to tip her before the bill comes. I simply ask her for some little thing before the meal starts and when she brings it I slip her a $20. That usually gets her attention and super service.  I normally do this at the hotel I'm staying at. Funny how she now becomes my waitress every day even though I do not tip her every day. I'll do the same with an escort if when I open the door I see something special.  Its easy to slip another $50 into the envelope.  Money well spent.

People are truly so fascinating. Almost every answer in some ways, contradicts with the next. Such a widespread list of preferences.

Never bet on slow horses or fast women.

...I'm paying several hundred dollars an hour for a service to begin with. When I pay one in a profession (doctor, attorney, etc) that much, I expect quality service for that amount; and of course no tip is involved with them. Same with an ASP, who is well-compensated for her efforts, and should provide excellent service. For those I repeat with, I believe my being a regular is more meaningful to them than a tip, in terms of economics, esteem, and comfort level. Just one gent's opinion.

When someone gives me a gift card or a tip. It shows they appreciate me above and beyond. I have some clients who tip me every time they see me.  A few will tip 100.00, others 50.00 and others 25-40.00. All greatly appreciated.  

Women who are known to run slowly.

don't ever expect them. I wouldn't want a guy to assume that if he tips once he always has to because it can be counterproductive when you're trying to get steady regulars. So I always try make it clear when a guy tips that I appreciate it and that I'm not expecting it all the time.

I'm totally with you in regards to your comment about tipping in this industry being tricky. The first time I ever saw a provider (and long before I became one) my then boyfriend and I gave her a tip in the beginning of the date... unfortunately she wasn't exactly very into what she was doing and we came to regret it. From the clients perspective tipping before the date can be somewhat of a risk. I do suspect that some clients do give tips in advance based on the quality of a providers previous reviews which is probably why you've had that happen to you!

Agreeing to pay the full asking price makes a john look "weak and stupid" not generous and actually gets you worse service rather than better service as the women believe you aren't enough of a man to deserve their best.

points on p411, amazon gifts from my list, gift cards, online gift cards, and cash.  

but in this case the tip is expected and we're supposed to pretend it's not

If I am seeing a new girl, I will not tip until after the session. If her service is so-so and I probably will not repeat, I will not tip. For any repeat, the tip is part of the pot up front!  If she is good enough to repeat with, she should always be tipped!

To me it's not the same as cab drivers, food service workers, etc. who are operating with a whole different framework regarding how much/ often they are paid.