but he was also very lucky you were as nice and understanding as you were.

Unless the provider cancels the date just as they are starting or something for her own reasons.  The guy books the woman's time, he bought it.  If he got a migrane, its on him.  If I had a nickle for each of  the number of times I was going for pop #2 or 3 and I was unable to finish I would probably be able to see 5 providers a week for life.  But thats on me, not her!  For a 1, 2 or 3 hour session, if I gotta cut it short, its my bad.  Now if she cuts it short, then yeah, money back.  As GG said, you are really nice!

one of my ATFs who i've been seeing for several years (so I know she wasn't BS'ing me) started feeling ill 1/2 way through our date. I had already popped once and she was as charming as ever up until that point. I gave her a hug and a light kiss and told her to go to bed. Left my usual envelope.  

GaG is right-  this would not be something I would expect.  You are a sweetheart.  

I find it to be a bit rude that he asked for some money back only because you scheduled a block of time for him and he was the one who cut it short.  You did a nice thing though...I probably would have done the same if it was a regular who saw me often or someone who I knew had to scrape up the change to come see me...Otherwise I'd say he's out of luck.

the only way to look at it.  I contracted for the time, and she reserved it for me.  If I don't complete the session for whatever reason, I still pay for the time I contracted for.  If SHE cuts if short, then as you say, its on her and I get a refund.  

Now that I think about it most people I've seen experiencing a migraine just want to be by themselves in a dark place and can't think of anything else but getting rid of the pain...Perhaps it was just your typical "sex headache".  I get those sometimes and they hurt pretty bad.

I would never think to ask for money back for something like this. Definitely if it was the other persons fault, but not it it were in me. However, assuming I had a good time,  if you offered without me asking you'd probably bump up a few points in my book! But if you didn't ask, I wouldn't think twice about it  
 

so other women would know and avoid such "nice client"
 
Poor girl sorry that you have to go through that ..
 Fact that you are asking here shows me - you wanted just some moral support.

Didn't promise to leave quite some time ago? I am not pushing for you to leave, but a promise is a promise. lol

Gambler. Are you really my shadow? Every time I post and you are here !!!! Truly said - from love to hate is one step  
Sorry, can not drinking with you.

that you are not a dangerous .. yet according to your harassing people online and bitter posts - that I think would make many to think about your character

Was on him not you he is an asshole for asking for money back.
And after two pops no less

If a gal gets sick and ends early, then she owes something back of course, though when this once happened to me, I requested only extra time on our next session.  That was a win/win for both of us

There have already been 15-20 or more replies, and I agree with most of them:  
You were very nice about it.
He should not have asked when it was HE who cut things short on you.
If you had cut it short, you do owe a refund of some sort.

Hello mr Gaga gambler, I loved your response. I felt the exact same way. She was nice by giving it back but  I would be upset if my client asked. I like the mutual respect and etiquette between gents and ladies so we can all have fun and I think keeping your word (on both ends) is the right thing to do. Just like going to a theme park, I pay for a ticket, if I get a headache a few hours into it, I can't go to customer service and ask for a partial refund. They would tell me to get to stepping! Escorting is a business too, and the young lady who posted this thread shouldn't have been asked that question in the first place, but everyone acts different of course . Just my thoughts hope everyone is having a kickass monday!

Cuts ME in in the 8-10K a week SHE makes.

I would wager no one knows what you meant to say.  I hope you speak our language better than you write it, or else you would starve.

He will play on your compassion again to get you to book again. If it worked the first time, the second time he'll switch something up and you'll be tricked again, in a way where you agreed - again, and it'll be worse/more money out of your pocket.

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For the original poster's sake I hope she doesn't follow this bad advice. First off this sounds like a good regular customer of her to start with. Secondly she acknowledged that the amount was very little, 30 min. worth out of 2.5 hrs. and it didn't bother her one bit. Thirdly apparently this is only the first (and maybe the only) time it happens.

I'm bilingual and I can understand her post lol  

Agreed!

Good post...I would have been too embarrassed to ask for money back....If it's that tight, prolly need to find a better hobby.

And I would like to wear your ass as a hat.

Hey I too would love to tell my business competition to dump their customers so my business can have them instead (LOL)

There is no best answer because this is all marketing and you target marketing differently based on different individuals.

He booked your time, he got two pops. If he is a regular, this is only the beginning. This was a test to see if he can push you around. He pushed you so that just gives him the okay to keep pushing. Regulars like this will just piss you off and it's not worth it. Cut him loose.

Some people have an expiration date.

Have fun  

and some start testing the waters after a couple of dates. We've all had it happen.]Those guys will turn on you so fast the second you ask them to pay for the 30 minutes he stayed over with zero notice.

as, seems, that is your only one way of satisfy your needs.
 By the way .. what are your needs? Just share with us here. That would be some interesting reading.. as manual about needs of johns.

You didn't have to give him back any money. Even the time he decided to not use to see you. Any client that asks for his money back, even just a portion of it is a Scumbag!!!!!  You were such a sweetheart to give him back the money for the time he cut short with you. You should have just given him a discount on the portion of time he didn't use for the next session.

I'd be willing to bet my left tit that "migraine" = "there's no way I can get off a third time so I might as well just bounce." I would have given him an Excedrin or two, but not one red cent.

My ATF arrived on schedule, 10 minutes in my GI tract reacts to the Wisabi.  I knew everything was going south literally! I explained that it would be best to reschedule.  I handed her the envelope with entire donation.  At this point I was glad that she was leaving as my tummy ache was getting worse.

...the Excedrin (and the left tit.  In my case it would be the left nut).  She should have given him a swift kick in the ass for asking for some money back.  That would have taken his mind off his "migraine."

She speaks gibberish.  And that's about it.