This is more then a PSA. I've been getting text messages and calls from random potential clients that seem promising until they ask the dumb question of, "unwrapped?" Now I get tested every 2 weeks cause I do amateur porn but most of you guys aren't. Half of you guys hardly know you doctors first name. Why ask dangerous questions when you'll get a rude answer. This is for the guys that ask this asinine question.

I must admit I would love to see the text messages you ladies get in at week. And I love to be a fly on the wall lol.

risqué, but not risky.   From what I have observed, the blame for this increase in risky sex falls squarely on the shoulders of Father Time.  Providers get older, they start to lose customers to younger girls, so they open up their menu to get a competitive edge back.  Then some of the younger girls learn how the older ladies are getting the customers back, and they decide to match the offer.  Customers that don't care if their dick turns black and falls off then EXPECT risky menu items from EVERY girl.  Its Capitalism and free market forces at work.  If providers went on strike for uniform menu standards, or else long-term health benefits to deal with the aftermath, they could probably cut down on the traffic for these kinds of services.  Just my 2 or 3 cents worth.  

Do you REALLY expect any of the guilty parties to chime in with "why" they ask such asinine questions? Do you even think any of them are even going to admit they even ask such a question, much less why they do it?

Yes they are taking more risks, wanting uncovered sex, I always say no. I practice safe sex, also com. And Greek uncovered, I do neither but if you do great be safe Xoxo

.... everyone that caught HIV. Now that meds have been developed so it's not a a death sentence, high risk people don't have the fear button pushed as often.  
It's the same as it being useless having someone who was hooked on narcotics and is now clean, trying to tell a teen, not to do drugs. The teen just says, "Look, you are okay. I will be too."

I started having sex in 1973 and I had sex with my first hooker in 74, by the end of the seventies I had fucked hookers in a half a dozen different countries and I have no idea how many non hookers, keep in mind those were the years of "sex, drugs and rock and roll" lol but It wasn't until around 1980 or so that I used my first condom.

I understand (or I think I do) why you don't like being asked that. I don't see why you would discourage the general public from asking via text and email. At least now you know you don't want to book with them, easy peasy. Would you rather they wait to ask when you're in the room with them? Clients who want BBFS are going to try for it at some point; that's not going to go away. I'm not excusing stupid behavior, it just seems like every text you receive to that effect is a quick and simple screening taken care of. Done, done, on to the next one.

Don't try to tip her.  I got in trouble for that once.  

...... checks my prostate. "Aren't you glad I have small fingers?"

I don't take it personally but when it's asked multiple time and your providers friends seem to not know the answer that's why they have these boards to express this, unless y'all live those whack ass threADs. I feel it needed to be openly discussed and a lot of men and women need another sex Ed course.  

I meant Risky, possibility of failure, danger and loss and catching anything that is dangerous and doesn't have a cure is Risky.

O Lucky Man!

Block their asses and don't waste your precious energy on them.  To many GENTLEMEN out there that wouldn't even consider asking let alone participating in bbfs  
Responding rudely will only piss some off and before you know, you have a fake review or some bs.  
Ignore, block, NEXT! ☺😎
XOXO  
TL

I agree! Just block and move on.

If you are boning some skank bare back, do you really think that getting tested a few days later will somehow help you?  You will have what she has and you will have to deal with it.

I always think maybe those people who just want bbfs with any hooker either has some mental issue or they are already std carrier so they don't care?! Lol

You are assuming something not in evidence.
 
I get tested quarterly because I want to. I never said I did BBFS with anyone, did I.
 All I did was answer the lady who said that there was no mention of testing by anyone.

Shit, people believe the earth is 6000 years old. That life was created and that the Darwinian  theory is impossible. That man enhanced global warming isn't happening and that there is a sky fairy.

If she does porn and the guy is tested within two weeks, it would be lottery odds of getting HIV. All transmissions on porn sets have been from passive anal sex.  

I'm sorry, I got lost somewhere. Who doesn't know the answers?

Well, what did she do when you asked to be strapped down and gagged? LoL

that made me believe in global warming.  I have to admit I was skeptical until I got inside these two.  

A lot of guys like going BBFSCIP, including me. I'll admit it. But I never asked a provider I'm seeing for the first time if she'll go BBFSCIP. If the next few sessions are great and we get to know each other, then I'll ask if she'll go BBFSCIP. Using this way I get more Yes than No.

Then there is a good chance that you just might see some of the text messages/emails that they receive.  Some of these ladies have a deliciously wicked sense of humor with the responses they send.  

Advises NOT to eat Jalapeños with genital warts on your tongue.  So if you're doing DATY, you have to get tested so you minimize the possibility you might have to give up something hot in your mouth besides pussy.

They're either getting the drug for free or cheap, and they think it makes them invincible.

list to be a kidney recipient, they will realize Truvada was not worth it.  

It is not the providers who are affected by Time as the theory of someone mentioned and then they offer bare.

but I have seen too many members of the OTHFBC who spent years getting 7's and 8's for performance all of a sudden start getting 10-10 reviews. Now I am not claiming that all of them have started offering BBFS, but "something" is going on with these old broads.

I respect your opinion as of course I do not meet  ladies ,but still I find it would be incredibly stupid to accept bare and when I get request for it I admit falling into a lecture mode and I tell the gents that if they were to find a lady who says yes to run the other way......

Received a request along the lines of your post. Signed on here to post about it. New England location, guy with a Ter handle.  
PM me if you want his info...

A lot of people here tend to drop into "lecture mode" and that goes for the hookers and the Johns alike.  

Hi All,

The majority of hints I get for BBFS (rarely do I get an outright request) don't come from reckless youngsters looking to get their dick wet.  They come from older gents who have an increasingly hard time keeping an erection with a condom on.  At a certain age, it seems to me that the drive for intimate sexual contact can outweigh the health risk - especially if sex at home has stopped and the wife no longer shares the risk.  (I am sympathetic, but the answer will always be no.)

a lot of my friends that have that problem see providers that offer the FC option.  I prefer it too even though I have not yet experienced that issue.  When used correctly you still  get plenty of "feel" without the risk.  I think providers that put the FC option on their website or in their scheduling email with the client will get fewer "hints."  Just my opinion from talking to guys with sensitivity problems and from the times I have used FC's myself with providers.  

Im an old "hooker" and I don't offer it. Id not compromise my health or that of others for ratings and dollars. Id rather be poor than in poor health or put someone else at risk. The day I have to put myself at risk is the day I retire.  

I have to say that my few attempts to use the FC have been sort of comedic fails, but you have inspired me to keep trying.  

I'd consider the people who are asking for BBFS in texts and phone calls to be pre screening themselves and would have done me a favor. If I were to get an e-mail asking for anything before screening someone I simply ignore the e-mail, if it's after an exchange of e-mails and it were for BBFS, I'd ignore them, too. I find it selfish.  

Still Moderated on this particular board and didnt realize it.