We all have them. This is an anonymous message board, so except for the boys and girls at the NSA, who would know? Keep em over 18 btw. Besides, the disclaimer on this board says this is all acts of fiction

Never thought a movie would be made about this phenomena but DAMN am I excited.  Premieres tonight at 8 pm.  
 
Oh this is not for everyone mind you but for the real Kinksters this is where its' at!!!!!  
 
The choking game (also known as the fainting game and a wide variety of local slang names) refers to intentionally cutting off oxygen to the brain with the goal of inducing temporary syncope and euphoria. There are two distinct methods used to achieve oxygen deprivation: strangulation and self-induced hypocapnia.  Don't recommend the former (unless you know your partner) the latter has to be done only with extreme precautions (YOU REALLY need a partner to help you).  
 
I love this along with smothering.  But it is not something once finds easily in a Partner (not even in this lifestyle).  
 
But there is always hope.  
 
Anyone want to discuss please PM me.  
 
RT

Just ask Woody Allen

I was introduced to bdsm over thirty years ago and discovered something important about who and what I am...      

Not my thing, but a few celebrities have made the news headlines by this means after taking it just a tad too far.  A tad too far is lethal.  David Carradine is the first to come to mind, Grasshopper.  

And if the lady has one or more of her own I'm more than happy too oblige.

Please put me on your [Boston] mailing list.

I really love a woman sitting on my face and making me eat her out, grabbing my skull while she grinds my face.  Reverse is good too, with my mouth completely covered with pussy, so that I am forced to breath through my nose which is right up against her asshole.  Never had a woman squirt in these positions though, that would be the ultimate.

Can't you imagine a film today having a scene like that?  How Victorian our world has become in so many ways.  

It's telling that this film gets referenced on this board probably more than any other.  I believe this is the second time just this week.

By the way, Rabbi Baumel officiated at  my bar mitzvah, which might explain a few things.

Like the OP, I do enjoy a golden shower, and love to find gals who love to give and receive same.

My other big kink is COF and cum swapping.  Even my regular tantrika, who like so many tantrikas is rather plain vanilla in so many ways, is a cum freak and loves to engage in this with me to my ever lasting delight.  I swear she orgasms when I let loose on her face, and loves to have me massage the goo into her skin.  She says it builds a strong bond between people who do it, and I say she is right given my experience with it.

Food sploshing is another fun activity, especially with the sweet stuff like whipped cream and chocolate pudding, but I'm thinking bacon fat might be an interesting choice some time.

I also have a masochist streak in me.  I enjoy some forms of physical pain.  I'm bound under the penalties of getting my gonads kicked in (Not the practice I have in mind, by the way.) however not to reveal the specifics.

Depending on what I see out in the World. My kink will change daily

I joined a BDSM group a few months ago to see what was going on and sample some of the possibilities.  Electrical, wax, cupping and heavy bottom didn't hold much appeal, but last night I got together with a domme/sensualist and we worked out a scene that was a lot of fun.  Me nude, hands roped up to an overhead ring so she could get to me from all sides, blindfold and gag while she did some light impact, lots of sensation play (dragging chains over me, fingernails, pinching, rubbing, slapping, etc.).  Was in a public dungeon with an audience of about 20.  A lot of attention to the boys and my dick until a drop of pre-cum fell to the floor.

including restraints and other control instruments.

I haven't, and don't want to.

Now I feel a little embarrassed by my post below, nah not really.

Golden Showers are just the start to my kinky fun.  Just, like foot worship it is a mild session that I enjoy.  My arousal comes from being in control of your fantasies, or fetishes.  I never judge anyone's naughty pleasures, and pride myself in being the golden & brown shower MASTER!

I enjoy being sensually dominant with a man, stradding his face, making him eat me out, treating him like my sex slave

As any non-asswipe realizes with only a teensy bit of thought, JCA, if you haven't tried it, you don't know for sure if you like it or not.  Of course there are things that you know that you don't want to try for cultural reasons (or safety, or ...) but there are a lot of things that you may not object to trying and actually might like.  I didn't know that I like sushi or sashimi until I tried them.  Didn't know that I liked DATY so much until I tried it a couple few times and learned how to do it well and found a responsive partner.  Didn't know that I liked squirters until I ran into one.  Didn't know that I liked motorcycles or lots of other things until I tried them.  You live through your experiences and if you choose to be blind about your options, it's your own damn fault.  YOLO and no replays.

you're in a playroom with an exam table with stirrups, a blindfold and a violet wand.  Guaranteed for some serious giggling.

Is a really interesting subject that I'm just starting to learn about.  It can be fun to just hand over control to the lady (that you know pretty well) and let her run the session however she wants.  

All sorts of ways -  

And those who can deliver great vanilla are alright by me. And vanilla does not mean "hurry up and get it done I have better things to do", I feel it means that it is a more gentle, sensual go with the flow type sex. Hell I could be wrong but that is how I like it and make no apologies so nor should you.