And don't see providers when I am in a relationship so some of that list doesn't really apply to me. I'm pretty open about my partaking in the hobby with my friends and business partner. I'm more concerned about LE rather than being outed socially. So what I would add is that:
- I will never park on property if there is parking. I usually cruise by the address and then park a block over. No one needs to see my car. I've actually canceled once because a provider wanted me to park in her spot so she could see me arrive. - I use an expired ID with an old address for verification and blur out ID # and last name. I'll carry it with me to see provider in case they want to see it. I won't do linkedin checks but will offer deposit instead (online cash card). I've got references so this is generally not even needed. - I will delete all texts, contact info and block the number if I have zero intentions to repeat. - I always ask what area of town they're in because I won't go to shady areas. - I always set a time when it's still light out for the first visit. - I never do outcall to my house - I treat providers really well and with a lot of respect but I will stop seeing them at the first hint of drama of any kind.
i wish i had seen an post like this in my early days ,,, and look forward to any added suggestions required to hobby 1) separate phone number unlinked to your real world ( i don't care if you are single, all it takes is one crazy to cause endless headaches) 2) separate email ( see #1) 3) car that is not unique 4) no vanity plates 5) separate Credit card - paperless, online only 6) MD not affiliated with your family care 7) pharmacy not affiliated with your family care 8) PC / MAC / phone privacy erasing software ie "Privacy Eraser" 9) for the diehard, VPN software 10) Spare clean shirt and underwear in office / car 11) required viewing movie " Guide for the married man"
And don't see providers when I am in a relationship so some of that list doesn't really apply to me. I'm pretty open about my partaking in the hobby with my friends and business partner. I'm more concerned about LE rather than being outed socially. So what I would add is that:
- I will never park on property if there is parking. I usually cruise by the address and then park a block over. No one needs to see my car. I've actually canceled once because a provider wanted me to park in her spot so she could see me arrive.
- I use an expired ID with an old address for verification and blur out ID # and last name. I'll carry it with me to see provider in case they want to see it. I won't do linkedin checks but will offer deposit instead (online cash card). I've got references so this is generally not even needed.
- I will delete all texts, contact info and block the number if I have zero intentions to repeat.
- I always ask what area of town they're in because I won't go to shady areas.
- I always set a time when it's still light out for the first visit.
- I never do outcall to my house
- I treat providers really well and with a lot of respect but I will stop seeing them at the first hint of drama of any kind.
1) Wear a mask while it is still acceptable, particularly in hotel and other public places 2) If it is daytime, wear sunglasses as well. 3) If at hotel, carry a backpack, even if it is empty. Makes you look like you belong and can offer a place to put the donation envelope, water/other beverages you want to bring. Be sure you let your date know you have a backpack. 4) If she has a pet in the room or in the home, bring a treat for the pet. You do not have to give it to the beast, let her do it, It shows class. 5) My first newbie mistake.....DO NOT BRING FLOWERS TO A PUBLIC LOCATION!
I wish everyone thought to bring a bag or even just carry a folder. I tend to give them a folder when they leave that way if some noisy neighbors are watching they don't think the person went there to shag or pick up drugs but rather an appointment for something. I have some people who look at me funny when I hand them a folder. I am like just walk out with it. You can toss it once you have gone. It pretty non descript so if you have a significant other and you forget to toss it it s not going to be questioned why you have a folder. The point is blending in and looking normal. Someone should really make a post on this. Spread the word.
Are you some high profile person whose life will get ruined if it becomes public that you see prostitutes? In that case YES. That's a good list. Otherwise it's an overkill.
The only two things I have is separate email and Google Voice.
I have good reliable cars, but not a very fancy cars - and that's only because I don't care much for fancy sports cars. Also Vanity plates don't interest me much. That would have been true even if i weren't a monger.
17) 30 minutes before you leave for your appointment take a 20 minute scrub down shower. Wash your hair, trim your fingernails and toenails. At the hotel spend about 30 seconds in the shower rinsing your balls.
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