is it me or are men much more open to exploring with their backside now more than even just a few years ago? Or is it more likely with men who "hobby"?

Prostate massage is something that should only be attempted by people who know what they are doing.

I enjoy it with the touch of a real pro.  I see one tantrika now who offers it and I've enjoyed that.

My main squeeze has done it for me as well, but it's not part of our regular fare.

I can only recall one other time a massage gal I knew many years ago just went ahead with it without even asking first.  It was OK, but I would have preferred she asked.  She was a bit of a nut job anyways, but lots of fun.

I don't see many civies now or even years ago, but I never found any interest on their part for this.

Then there's my MD, but it's not the same.  8o)

Most of their wives and GFs are not going anywhere near that dumpster, so guess who gets the job? LOL, never. Past boyfriends/husbands in RL, were always shy about this, when I was the one pushing the issue. I am not messing with anyone's ass that I don't know, but I love it with someone I do know on a more personal level. As long as there are that many clueless people who really think an enema means clean, I will pass. You would be shocked at what a finger can scrape that an enema left behind... pun intended. There is so much more to anal cleaning than a damn enema lol. Gosh... some people should shove a toothbrush up their ass.

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...shut up, I did so.....

Did she just recently discover this little trick, like the night before she tried it on you?

I will confess how surprised I was to find myself enjoying a nice soft warm tongue down there though. but "outside" only, Anything actually making penetration is going to have me leaping out of the bed. I don't enjoy the sensation, not even a  little bit.

Sadly, most guys are raised to believe that any pleasure they receive from their anus is indicative of homosexual tendencies. As that goes away and guys realize that some butt play can take an orgasm to a new level, you'll probably see a lot more. That said, it's also legitimate to be anal averse due to the whole "poop" thing.

I didn't like it then, but it could've just been her. I'm not adverse to trying it again with the right lady. I'm not sure if I would still dislike it or if my feelings on it would change. Now a tongue down there can be quite nice.  
 

i love assplay..

I see all these reviews about guys getting rimmed, and all I can think is that's one part of my body that I can't get to in order to manscape. I don't feel comfortable asking a lady to navigate that jungle, as it's a Jungle I don't care to navigate myself. I've considered getting that area manscaped by a professional so that I could experience rimming once, just to see what it's like. But wow, the manscaping there sounds painful. I think I'll just stick to my usual routine. I've had a provider try to finger me once during bbbj, but I politely asked her not to, just not my cup of tea I guess. I'm not a hypocrite either, I don't look for Greek providers, have had a few that enjoy it so I partake, but that's also just not my thing. To each their own, if you're into these things that's cool for you.

If it's your tongue, I would enjoy it very much.  Anything else, not happening.  

+1  on the tongue  
My MD is a hot but very professional woman. Once a year, she feels around my sack and gives the cock a quick look, them slips a nice slender finger in the ass, but never has given me an erection from it.  
When I was flying in the military, used to have the finger wave from all kinds of nasty flight surgeons. Most had hands like dairy farmers. One particular joker had a standing offer. If he had his finger in your ass when the "roach coach" pulled up and honked his horn, he would buy you lunch.

Had one provider lick me back there and it startled me. No kissing after that, lol.

Thanks a lot!

Maybe some provider would trim me up back there for a fee, lol. I can't imagine going anywhere legit and asking for such a service although I'm sure there are legit places out there doing male ass trimming. What's the point? I don't want her back there anyway...

Ever notice how hyper and mean I am after a long vacation from TER? I need an intervention.

...I don't mind anal play in the moment.  Even been pegged.  As long as the lady is as open minded as me, I'll agree to her kinks if she'll agree to mine.  I've had some great civvies and hobby sex that included anal play.