Most of their wives and GFs are not going anywhere near that dumpster, so guess who gets the job? LOL, never. Past boyfriends/husbands in RL, were always shy about this, when I was the one pushing the issue. I am not messing with anyone's ass that I don't know, but I love it with someone I do know on a more personal level. As long as there are that many clueless people who really think an enema means clean, I will pass. You would be shocked at what a finger can scrape that an enema left behind... pun intended. There is so much more to anal cleaning than a damn enema lol. Gosh... some people should shove a toothbrush up their ass.

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Prostate massage is something that should only be attempted by people who know what they are doing.

I enjoy it with the touch of a real pro.  I see one tantrika now who offers it and I've enjoyed that.

My main squeeze has done it for me as well, but it's not part of our regular fare.

I can only recall one other time a massage gal I knew many years ago just went ahead with it without even asking first.  It was OK, but I would have preferred she asked.  She was a bit of a nut job anyways, but lots of fun.

I don't see many civies now or even years ago, but I never found any interest on their part for this.

Then there's my MD, but it's not the same.  8o)

...shut up, I did so.....

 
Anyway, we had a pretty great sex life. All of a sudden, one night in the sack she started playing with my bunghole a little (during foreplay). It felt ok, so I just kept going. Then she slid her little finger inside, and I yelped and jumped up, erection went away immediately. I said "what the fuck are you doing?" she said "my girlfriend told me that guys love that!"

I guess I was pretty much anal expulsive at the time, and her going in there by surprise made it completely terrible. I've loosened up somewhat and probably wouldn't mind exploring SLOWLY and with some warning lol. But it's not my first choice. I'd rather play with YOUR backside

Sadly, most guys are raised to believe that any pleasure they receive from their anus is indicative of homosexual tendencies. As that goes away and guys realize that some butt play can take an orgasm to a new level, you'll probably see a lot more. That said, it's also legitimate to be anal averse due to the whole "poop" thing.

I'd agree that anal play is still pretty rare. I still have never gone beyond more than one finger. The first time was when an old girlfriend surprised me as I climaxed from a BJ - a truly life-changing moment (in the best sense).

backside

i love assplay..

I see all these reviews about guys getting rimmed, and all I can think is that's one part of my body that I can't get to in order to manscape. I don't feel comfortable asking a lady to navigate that jungle, as it's a Jungle I don't care to navigate myself. I've considered getting that area manscaped by a professional so that I could experience rimming once, just to see what it's like. But wow, the manscaping there sounds painful. I think I'll just stick to my usual routine. I've had a provider try to finger me once during bbbj, but I politely asked her not to, just not my cup of tea I guess. I'm not a hypocrite either, I don't look for Greek providers, have had a few that enjoy it so I partake, but that's also just not my thing. To each their own, if you're into these things that's cool for you.

If it's your tongue, I would enjoy it very much.  Anything else, not happening.  

The only person putting anything up there is my MD, and he only gets to do it once a year.  Thank god he has small hands and does not spend a lot of time rooting around, or he would have one less patient.

Had one provider lick me back there and it startled me. No kissing after that, lol.

...I don't mind anal play in the moment.  Even been pegged.  As long as the lady is as open minded as me, I'll agree to her kinks if she'll agree to mine.  I've had some great civvies and hobby sex that included anal play.