Is being followed around the boards stalking?

There is certainly nothing wrong with following someone you like to keep up with them, but if you are collecting info to use against them somehow, that's where I cry foul.

Aren't I Bailey.

Then it's stalking. The unwanted texts, calls, email or other forms of communication that never end. The trying to discover a person's dentity using multiple means, etc.

If you mean following someone like you would anyone else on a message board I wouldn't consider stalking. If you meant only reading what your favorite lady says than only replying to her than yes that could be a form of stalking. If your talking to everyone it's not stalking. We all have our favorites.

When I think of stalking, I think of malicious intent.  If someone on either side of the hobby has expressed discomfort and the offender continues doing something, that would likely fall in the malicious/stalking category.

names or it didn't happen...

...but I think where P4P is concerned any contact beyond what is necessary to set up sessions could be considered excessive unless the provider encourages it...following them on the boards and spending time on ther website is fine unless it becomes an obsession...

sorta like "safe strangers" ... it's the line that's between a one timer and an ATF you see regularly ... I use obsession "figuratively" to save posts asking if I know what it means.... I don't

My focus there was on the concept of the client who becomes so enamored with a specific escort that he doesn't consider any others, becomes convinced she is the only one he needs, and starts to believe that a relationship exists that doesn't...not to "serial killer" levels of obsession but to the level where his focus becomes unhealthy...

I am not sure if you can say those desperate BSC few who constantly comment on someones post even though they get no acknowledgement  is stalking. I might say a pathetic cry for attention from someone who could care less if they lived or died possibly. Give it a few, at least one of them will prove my point.

You think that your pathetic Tweets don't count?

And cut them loose. What is really sad is they actually believed that (we had a relationship) even though they were paying for the sexual transaction...how is that ever considered a real relationship?.

I'm sorry for your stalking guy.  That is really pathetic.

I can see it...

I don't want to be stalked by anyone. What so ever, only had one case and the guy backed off after the 10th attempt in contacting me and being ignored. No Thank you!

IMHO, following people isn't normal. Does anyone here  
know anyone who follows people?  

What would be the point of it then?

of course I do. That's my half of the equation and (almost) every provider would probably encourage me to do so.  

Along with the multiple identities. Not only stalking but creepy.

The situation I am talking about is only dealing with a juvenile type personality or behavior. Your situation is more nefarious and dangerous.

Over the past few years the explosion of social media has allowed many to expose themselves, and to others far too much intimate information.  When someone puts out personal information and then cries about someone following them is quite the oxymoron.

I've been on twitter for quite some time. (6 months) lol.