So how far will you go to be flexible and meet her schedule?

is that I can always find someone who is available to be on MY schedule.  After all, I'm the one paying, not her.  If I ask for a time, say 1:00p, and she's not going to be available until 4:00p, my next email says, "Thanks anyway, I'll try some other time."  About half the time, I will get an email back saying 1:00p will work out after all, which means the OTHER guy was flexible, so I don't have to be.  The other half of the time, I will simply move to the next name name on my list.  There's always SOMEONE available somewhere at the time that works best for me, so I don't have to be flexible at all.  

So, I cannot answer that for you because I don't know. One would think it depends on how much a person wants to meet. I've been very lucky to have a gent move business meetings and flights almost a week to ensure we could see on another when I arrived back in Dallas. It was sweet.

of flexibility.

of perspective.  As long as I can count on other guys wanting to see a particular girl more than I do, then I know they will be flexible, so no need for me to be.  

and once chosen I WANT to see them. NOT someone else. I don't have a "list".

...my availability is so unpredictable that it's very difficult to commit to MY schedule much less hers!

Strip clubs usually have predictable hours.  Providers don't.

I live in a small rural town where a LOT of people know me and my business, so I travel a minimum of 2 1/2 hour drive one way to see reviewed providers in a slightly larger town. If I want more variety, it's a 4 1/2 drive to the Big City, where I can take a 3-day weekend and book some appointments around a work day.

Posted By: LondonJames

So, I cannot answer that for you because I don't know. One would think it depends on how much a person wants to meet. I've been very lucky to have a gent move business meetings and flights almost a week to ensure we could see on another when I arrived back in Dallas. It was sweet.  
   
 However, as a provider, I have been very accommodating to meet my client's schedule. I've woken up at 5am to accommodate a 6am appointment. All I ask for is a skinny vanilla latte.  
   
 I'm curious, how far will you go? How far will you travel?  
   
 LJ

time so I can be flexible. Normally I'll just say something like "Is X available in the Morning/Afternoon/Evening" on the day I'm looking for (generally same or next day). If specific time ends up not working I say thanks, next time them.

Sometimes unavoidable things come up, I get it. I'm cool if we have to reschedule once. But only once.

things come up, but being played is NOT cool.

In my initial email, the one I give her all my info, I also request the encounter for a specific date.

and continuing to get worse. I wish I had Master Zen's ability to be able to enjoy extended play time but lately I'm lucky to know a couple hours out. Even looking for available now ads on 411 never seems to align for me.

EMS is a self-admitted virgin.  Why "he" is here, god only knows.  Presumably he enjoys abuse.

Unless it's an all dayer, wouldn't date need a specific time?

usually by email, I rarely set a time. I enjoy my ability to be flexible and want to get a feel for a woman before I actually feel her. I'll provide some general info about myself to develop some rapport and gauge her interest.

Good luck with that sentiment. Me too

Esp if the gal is popular!  

It was great meeting you. Would have spent more time talking except for the distractions. Enjoy your evening?

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I like this topic.

Good meeting you too! Like you, I had certain distractions - key to enjoying the evening as much as I did.

And you are totally worth it!

if she wants an alternative time, she'll let me know.  Presumably, she is an adult; I don't need to give her permission to respond in a flexible manner. Further, if she decides for whatever reason that she doesn't want to see me, it gives her a graceful out without resorting to radio silence - and we both move on.

Posted By: Freda_Fuddpucker

I like this topic.  
   
 If you need 12pm and can't even budge by 30min then say that right off the bat to save time.  Especially if you want same day.      
   
 Come to think of it, just communicate flexibility yes or no in your first request no matter when you make it.  

All of his posts are just hypothetical. All he knows about hobbying is what he has learned reading, not doing.

I Have to travel similar to your situation, and fortunately I'm able to do that. Also like to Stick with those I like. When things click, connection, etc..., I'm sold so to say.  

... because as was discussed in a recent thread about when we like to "hobby", my windows of opportunity are narrow.  But within those windows I'll do what I can to fit the provider's schedule.  

Plenty of people ask for a general TIME FRAME such as  "around noon or early afternoon".  

Tell me that 10 AM or 2 PM are options.  I'll let you know which one works for me - if either.  We don't need to play 20 questions with this.  I'll get back with you pretty quick about whether either will work...  If it doesn't work - well.... so be it - maybe we'll try it again some time.  And - if you book someone else before I get back with you - it happens.

I schedule people every day, every week so I know what has proven to be more simple and efficient for me.