I was never afraid of doing overnight visits.  This was probably helped by the fact that my very first overnight was with a new guy who turned out to be awesome in every respect.  My attitude has always been that if things suck - for any reason - I can always leave!  Fortunately, things have never sucked (except in the best possible ways) and my lack of fear has never proven problematic.

Was it your personal safety, or that you (or he) would snore, or he'd see what you look like in the AM, or something(s) else?

Someone know where you are at and who you're with - some crazy people out there.
Otherwise they can be real  fun ,especially with people you had wish to spend more time with.

........ with Terry Lynn. Not a chance of anything but a night of my life with that woman.  

I had done plenty of civie overnights. Shit,  I did two 16 year marriages.  
But, I had fear that I would end up embarrassing myself, or not being accepted for who I am.  
The total opposite occurred. She treated me like a lover who was the man she wanted, right there at that time. All night long....

that evolve to me.  I would never 1rst date an overnight.  Although, I actually had someone first date me this morning at 7:45am.  He wanted me to be in bed.  Not even brush my teeth.  The complete opposite of getting "made up"  He wanted to come in the dark and get in bed with me.  It was kind of cool  Afterwards I got up to make my coffee and started my day off with a skip!  LOL

with the right lady, one that I have gotten to know well, after a few extended sessions.  It's a more relaxing and fun time and experience, with the right lady.

One of the first Overnight clients I had turned into an exclusive client I had for nearly 6 years.  I do not provide overnights now as I prefer to be low volume and mostly see just regular clients. But you never know.. best to use your gut instinct and keep options open to them hugs xx

I've been married a couple of times and prize my solitude.  I have no interest in cuddling.  I have no interest in having morning sex with someone who has "bed head" and morning breath.
Also, I refuse to pay someone else to sleep.

Been there, done that, long weekends too. Glad that your risk was rewarded Thickness, but personally, I wouldn't consider it with a lady unless I had seen her before for a shorter date and was comfortable. Come to think of, every lady I ever spent extended time with started as a shorter engagement, followed by a dinner date and then an extended date.

MfSD>>>>

I have couple mostly regulars that only do overnights. Spend the nite cooking, watching movies, cuddling. We like the close relationship we have (with boundaries). I would not do overnights with a new client but those who I know for a bit, they are a gentleman and our personalities click.

I would love an overnight

but my wife expects me home before the bars close.

While I very much would council that people meet for a short session prior to an overnight, I can think of four times that I had an overnight with someone I met for first time, and each was an excellent session.

 
I can only remember one awful overnight and that was on account of the fact that she stepped out "for a minute", and never came back until dawn the next morning, so technically it wasn't an overnight.   We were miles from our home city and I feared she got herself murdered or some such thing.   This was a person I already (thought I) knew well also.

I love overnights!!

I have no problem doing an overnight with a new person if they have stellar references.  I've never had any issue. Infact, dinner dates and overnights are my forte. I definitely have done many with regulars. It's so much fun not having to even worry about what time it is and we can eat and fuck all night! 🙄 I can sleep when I get home lol I don't even worry about someone snoring. I just grab my phone, put my ear buds in and listen to my sleepy time piano music with the guys that snore 😉😚
Glad you had a pleasant overnight experience! They are so much fun!!
XOXO  
TL