On both sides. 'We'll play it by ear' is dangerous to agree to.
There are men out there who are looking to really provide for ladies like you, and prefer someone older and more seasoned than the college girl.
Most are looking for 'cheap' escorts, offering you a couple thousand in bills/month, or want to 'audition' ladies in the sack before an arrangement is made. (I suspect they're trying to promise a lot to trick pretty girls into having sex with them.) Also know and state your boundaries.
I would be sure to interview them like they interview you. And waiting for a good one is worth the wait. There are real SD's out there. Sometimes an arrangement is made, but they don't stop there. They'll give more, help you out in emergencies, or even see a need or way to invest in you physically or career wise so you can make THEM look good, and bc they just want to. Those are hard to find...
Be ready to...
Be ready at their beckon call
Answering to a man
Requests for manogomy for unprotected sex and birth control.
Beware of quotes like 'other opportunities I will tell you about later'
I.e. potential pimps
Be mindful that many SD's have multiple SB's bc they travel. Key in the unprotected sex request.
I'll find a link I saw on 'how to find a good SD.' as well as sites. Men who brag about money but shop at Target for their clothes probably won't be buying you Lounie's lo