I know I am totally generalizing here and it varies from provider to provider, but have anyone noticed poorer performance from a provider due to race/ethnicity? I wouldn't even know how you could ever know.

Don't get me wrong. I am not implying that any provider is racist in anyway. But some people tend to have a natural attraction to certain types of races/ethnicity than others. For example, let's say we look at a caucasian provider. Would she provide better services to another caucasian than say an african american hobbyist?

Here's my situation. I am asian and born and raised in America. However, due to my culture and upbringing, I have only dated and been with asian women. I am a big big sucker for blondes. I love my SO and would never leave her. Also, I have never hobbied before but would love fulfill my desire (even for one time) with a blonde. However, being a newb, I don't know how I could tell whether a provider wouldn't care if I was asian or not and would still receive a great session as anyone else.

Am I being totally nuts here or is there some merit to this? What's your experience? Experienced hobbyists comments greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
b.

I would bet that there's a very small percentage of women that are racist against certain johns,but I think that the majority of them don't really care.Although most probably have a preference of the type of guy they see,usually it's only the green money that they care about.....after all,by not servicing a particular ethnic group,they're limiting their financial potential.If you're in any type of service-oriented business,you have to service all customers,not just the ones you like.

I suggest that he get a VIP membership, go to TER reviews and find the hottest blonde that he can find with average review scores of 8 or higher. No only will he fulfill his fantasy, he will drown in it with joy all along.

First and foremost, there are white men who have wanted to see asians, so as a white man I can understand wanting to see a blond.

Secondly, there are some women who will only see members of their own race, or in the case of other women will only see white men, or not middle eastern men, etc. etc. etc...

I would think that if you are well mannered, and as mentioned above, have the Benjamins, things are usually just fine.  Just make sure you mention that you are asian to the woman before you see her, to make sure she is OK with it.

there wouldn't be any difference in my book, but then I cannot answer for everyone. I'm a blonde, and there are many out there. Check out good some good websites and reviews before booking with anyone. If you're ever in Phoenix, check out http://www.phoenix411.net for ladies. Just a suggestion.

Hugs,
ciara

as a part time escort who likes to select her clients, I have men write me with their age, race, weight, and even their physical shape along with hobbies as I take one or two clients each week and look for longterm clients

Explain your situation to a couple blondes and explain to them that you are nervous...be courteous and not too graphic as I personally hit the delete button if someone says blowjob instead of french lessons.

I was hoping a post would explain the association between providers and Formula 1.  Personally, I think ladies have a sweeter purr and give a greater thrill.  However, I've never had a BBBJ  while passing on a turn at 130 miles an hour, so any side by side comparison has to wait for review number 54.  I need to work up to that.    

However, on topic, I'm afraid I have no answer to offer you.

I too have been a victim of prejudice.  So many providers have discriminated against me because I'm Catholic.  No BJ, no DFK or even DATY! I simply don't understand it and cannot fathom how they figured out that I'm Catholic.

Unless it's not the Catholic part.  Do you think it could be my stringy, dirty hair, long fingernails, bad breath, mind-numbing BO and Swamp Ass?

most catholic men I know are uncircumsied (spelled wrong)

I will do a bbbj but I grab a washcloth at times.
I never saw foreskin before this hobby

I do Also very well mannered and educated. Find a nice blonde(read the reviews) and be as polite as you have been here. I hope you find your fantasy. Hugs,Devin Taylor(LV)

harsh bottom exterior...  known to expand to a round size upon too many business dinners....   can assume a ball shape when forced by emotional circumstances into the embryonic state....

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my people.....   (well, what did you expect...) family is originally from Alabama! lol

. . . I don't know any local provider who does not welcome Asians. I never tell them my ancestry ahead of time; if the had asked for my last name, they could probably tell. Don't be self-conscious; act natural. I haven't seen too many blondes but one of them actually thought that I was attractive and suggested MISH so that she could see me.

...I once got a hummer on a tram from Croydon to Wimbledon. I'm pretty sure they don't do 130 round a bend though.

...in this hobby. It exists in every other side of life, so it would be somewhat unusual if it did not in the hobby.

At the end of the day providers can see who they want without explanation. They don't have quotas or targets to meet and since prostitution is illegal in most of the States, there is no recourse to law.

It depends on the provider really and her own views but I don't think you'll have much trouble finding a decent blonde. Read the reviews, find something you like and if you feel inclined then ask her for her views on seeing Asians.

It's a pity that life is like that, but there you go. I guess one day it wont be.

Catatonic, my sentiment exactly. It's unfortunate that life works that way but we learn to deal with it.

Thanks everyone for the feedback. This has been very helpful.

Uhhh. My post was a joke.  I'm not even Catholic.

Actually what you want is a blonde with a huge rack, who acts like a brunette with A cups or a redheaded nympho who gives great happy endings or just watch "Who Framed Roger Rabbit" and flog the dog watching Jessica Rabbit in that red dress.Race...Race...race....isn't it all pink inside???? that is until I get ahold of it with my 3inches or angry manhood then it is all bruised at least for a week. laffin

I was just having this same discussion the other day. I sometimes receive calls from men-of-color. They always ask me if I see black men. I ask them why? They usually confide that not many white women want to see black men.   Anyway the black men that call almost always tend NOT to make the appointment. This has been a trend for a long time, which I think is very interesting. I have my own theories on that. The bottom line is many people have hang-ups and preferences. This will always be...you know that.

someone on this thread said that it was racism that cause a provider to exclude a certain race.
They said that they had no recourse b/c this hobby was illegal.

I can't speak for all providers but I don't line the guys up for appts. I hobby in my hometown, stay single and have an outside life. I do this hobby to pay for a couple bills since I can't hold down a full time job.

I had a white male the size of michael clark duncan force himself on me after pretending to be a tutor at my college. I have since then had trouble with flashbacks. If I have an office job or another boring job, my mind will drift to the incident and cause me to have flashbacks. That is the main reason I do hobby alongside my career.

I, for that reason, don't see many really big guys. I have seen some who have prominent careers in charleston and they watch their manners.  I also don't see females or black men. I have female friends and have friends who are black who I have gotten into fights for and lent money to.  The females don't interest me and most blacks listen to rap and have their own way of talking and many don't have my childhood background. I try to keep each client I pick for longtern potential so I pick the ones I talk with for hours and european history and star wars are my strongest points.

I personally do have a large amount of asian clients being filipino and chinese. I understand their background and can tell jokes that normal americans wouldn't understand.

I pick a couple clients each week out of the twenty something that write me and filter them from how intelligent or classy their emails are.

Anyone who calls me their hoe, bitch or comes to the session talking like that makes me run.
I also turn down men who chews tobacco or use profanity or treats the waiter rude during the first date.

Fat, pasty white guys tend to bring out the worst performance in any woman... provider, civvie, whatever.

fat, pasty white guys with rotten teeth and stinky balls, crack and armpits makes me want to marry and mate with my cats

The lives we lead are all the sum of what went before.  If you are cautious - who could blame you - me, I have my likes and dislikes... the one thing that I do not like is abusive behavior.  I have witnessed it, and been a victim of it.  There is no excuse, and no reason for it that can be justified.

Wanna.... thanks for the post.

Except for, "Just make sure you mention that you are asian to the woman before you see her", the advice so far has been solid.  If a provider is concerned about race, she will either have it stated on her website (i.e. many have "Upscale Caucasions Only") or she will ASK YOU (either via email or phone) what your race is.  Soooo, make sure you do your homework and carefully read the websites.  In the absence of it being stated on the website or asked of you during the appt. set-up phase, then you can safely assume that race won't be an issue.

One of my ATFs is a blonde provider in LA.  She has almost as many asian clients as she does whites.  It appears to be very common in that city as well as in DC, where she tours.  Other cities as well.  She doesn't even think of race as an issue.  In addition in both cities, lots of white men pursue asian providers.

Now, I have heard from hobbyists that being a black man is a completely different scenario.  Even in a multi-cultural city like DC, there's women who won't see them.

You do seem to know a lot about me.

Nascar is very different than Formula 1.

Formula 1 is based in Europe and the  most of the german cars and Asian and italiam car makers are participants.

Nascar is largely an american past-time with American car manufacturers making the cars and engines.

xo xo Lisa

I must always remember about posting: be not a fool, always Google.  

Or travel to Tampa and have a four-hour session with a first-rate, knowledgeable lady.

I can't see that as racism; your consent is paramount, and few guys are going to have a good time if the lady is half-hearted or scared, and you pretty much want to stay away from the ones who do.

A woman's sexuality, even combined with business, is not an equal opportunity thing.  Any mature man has to face that fact.

They say that, contrary to stereotype, American Indians average the longest penises and Poles have the thickest.