gals having their monthly visitor. I have touched on this subject with a man who says he really doesn't care. So, I wonder just how many folks feel the same way. For me, it is the horniest time of the month. My hormones go wild and I would love to have sex. However, in the past I have had to cancel on ppl only because I think they'd be horrified by it.

Re: I tend to think about you a lot. As to the rest of your question

I personally would rather wait until after. I wouldn't be horrified, and I can take any surprises as they come, but my personal preference would be to wait or reschedule.

Quite frankly Lass, you're already wild and love to have sex, so if you're ramped up, you might just kill me.  In a good way.

Good luck

Well no DATY for you! (at least, then) But otherwise I would not mind. Been there, done that.
And if this time puts you in the mood to enjoy, all the better. Cheers - Gregory

Has DATY been preformed with you while the visitor was present?

As long as I'm told upfront, I really don't care.  I just don't want to be "surprised," but I really don't mind at all.

yes actually it has...but only by one person and he was my husband

Re: I tend to think about you a lot. As to the rest of your question

fair enough dixie...you're right I am always horny...just moreso when that time arrives...note to self "cancel DC when mother nature beats him to you" lol

Been there, done that with a lot of civvie ladies... the timing was just such that it was go for it or go home.  As long as there is a shower handy, it doesn't bother me a bit.  
Now with a provider....?  Problem is that it cuts down on the activities - no DATY then for me.  So it would be a let down (not a turn off) to have to limit activities that I enjoy.  
Now if all the cards were on the table upfront, you can't complain, but I would wait for better weather before flying if it was me.
MVR

yeah a surprise like that is not very cool...I had one guy jump start my period...he didn't care...but I felt like a lil weird

When I was a young stud (I know yer all ROTFL) several times I triggered an early visit from her friend...  It was unnoticeable to me and in those selfish unenlightened days I seldom went down on her.  
I don't think I'd want to start knowing that, unless I knew a lady really well.
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I am OK with it.

Nothing that a few towels won't take care of.  It's just a part of a woman's natural cycle.  Imho, anything that gets a woman that much more horny, I'm all in favor for.

YOU ROCK!

So I'm not interested in booking during a gal's time of the month. My ATF has had to cancel on me a couple of times over the years because of this but it's no big deal. Life, and mother nature, happens.

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and I had absolutely no problem with it. The lady did tell me up front, and offered me the chance to cancel. I passed on the chance to cancel, and was very glad that I did. I wouldn't have traded that date for anything.

'Nuff Said!!!!!!!

verrrry interesting...I think I have to change things a bit...give them the opp to cancel instead of assuming  TY all for your input xo Erin

On one trip to Minneapolis, my ATF canceled due to Aunt Flo's pending arrival and while I told her it didn't really matter to me, I guess it made it uncomfortable to her.

While I also really Love DATY, that would be off the table for me during 'That Time of the Month'.

Great quote a few posts back...'A let down, not a Turn Off'

Anyhow, I think you're right that it's best to let the Guy know upfront and let Him decide.

Hey, I saw your reviews and website, it wouldn't matter to me!!

Chiguy

She is my ATF & we had a good time, but as others have said I missed the DATY.

I would be willing to take you anyway I could get you. DATY time could be spent kissing all your beautiful freckles! Take care, Lass.

not a big deal for me---my experience is that the woman is more concerned than I am, even for DATY (a little more carefully though).

So I appreciate knowing when mother nature calls so I can reschedule. I have a fav who does not book any appointments during that time and I have been able to adjust my schedule accordingly. I just enjoy DATY too much to miss out on that if Aunt Flo were visiting.

C_K

It doesn't matter to me. Or at least it didn't, because I haven't been in that 'position' in a long time. And yes, I have earned my 'red wings' on more than one occassion! But you're right, about the hormones thing. Some of the GFs I had been with in the past were kinda crazy at that time of the month. They were in the mood to fight, and the quickest thing I could think of was to grab them and have my way with them. It was a little messy, but not as messy as a mean-ass argument and the repercussions! Hope this helps....

Interesting post.  DATY is what makes this hobby extra fun.  No I won't go there when Aunt Flo is present.  You can't always know for sure when that arruval is going to happen.  Some ladies are very punctual and others are not.

For me, anything that is gushy and organic makes for a better experience.  My only problem is that the provider thinks I'll have a problem so cancells or doesn't want DATY, etc.

As I like to say:  "I'm not scary of a bloody Mary."

For me, a really good orgasm makes the cramps go away!!!!!!    I don't mind either way.  Some gentleman like it during that time.   Whatever floats your boat ..........go for it!

When i was a teen....it didn't matter at all!
Now that i'm 52....i'd rather wait till it passes.

I know girls hobby during their period but hide the problem in ways discussed here many times. The problem is when a guy dives down for the kitty, they're held off. This leads to frustration and, subsequently, a ymmv review on the lady. I think the girl should be up front about why she won't do daty this time.

or is that only for the bikers? lol! it is best sex for women who are on the cycle it does eliviate the pain and they are at their horniest.

There is really no non-imaginary reason to skip oral sex on her during her period. Virtually all sexworkers wear tampons or barrier cups like Instead http://www.softcup.com/. Those work well and keep the vulva nice and dry, aside from what success you might have with stimulating some lubrication (which is expressed from glands outside the vagina. I have enjoyed oral sex with providers during her cycle followed by condom-clad Real Sex. The only negative was that one lady did not want to kiss after receiving oral, indicating that women are as subject to taboo fears as men. Another deemed me to be "brave" after I pulled her tampon out by gripping the string with my teeth when it was time to move on to penetration. An enveloping Kleenex quickly puts a little tampon out of sight and out of mine as easily as a post-anal condom.

And it is not that hard to get blood out of sheets (I prefer outcall): hit it with Shout pre-treater and soak overnight in cold water - good as new.

It is really rather fun to heard the gentlemen talking about menstrual women as if they are squatting around a paleolithic camp fire glancing uneasily over their shoulders into the dark while the shaman talks about the scary power of women's bodies.

Seriously.

...the idea of having sex on my period is incredibly hot to me.  It is a fantasy of mine, but I've only ever had one partner (civvie and current) who was just as into it as I was, and I can't get into it without someone else who's into it.

That said, due to the birth control I use (IUD, but soon to be Depo) does screw with a woman's cycle.  I've had all of 2 periods in the last 3 years, and those 2 only in the last 6 months; they come unexpectedly.  Of course, I am ALWAYS honest and upfront when my monthly comes and I will e-mail or call as soon as I notice bleeding... perhaps surprisingly, I think that far fewer gentlemen have cancelled on me, and more have kept their appointments. *shrug* For some gentlemen it is simply not an issue, and I don't have a problem with it if men are uncomfortable and do cancel; different strokes!