Can there be any romance in this hobby?

There's no romance between Hobbyist & Provider. We the  "PROVIDERS"  are not here to romance the hobbyist into pleasure!!!! We are simple here to satisfy that certain "Hunger" that thehobbyist can't get with their "Significant Other".  If it's "Romance" that the Hobbyist wants, then the hobbyist needs to switch sites and actually date someone who is not in this type of profession. And if the provider does romance the Hobbyist, then it's only for several reasons. One of which is obvious...... It's called "MONEY".

I was looking back over my reviews and I remember man of the ladies even from long ago.  Many of the meetings were romantic from my point of view, even among those I only got to see once.

Imo that comes with  chemistry and a level of comfortability that isn't generally on the first date.  But, one person I know did pull it off rather famously on the first date. Also,  you have to be open to it. Most gents are not in the hobby.

There can but you're better off going on a dating site where women aren't looking for your money

If you mean, can YOU have a romantic session- Yes you can if you want.  That's on you - just don't project your feelings on to her.  She's there because you paid her - if you can get past that - I don't see why you couldn't.  Love her for the session!  Then leave.  

Many dates I've had with providers had romantic elements.  They don't call GFE GFE for nothing.  But it's understood by both parties that the "romance" is of a temporary nature, not true romance in that the goal is not romantic conquest but to have fun together while we're together.

There most certainly is a level of romance in the hobby.  The romance one finds here IMHO is when there is that certain chemistry, level of comfort and the feeling that the provider is genuinely "into you". The chatter runs freely sometimes with her being giggly, making sexy flirtatious looks or even finishing your sentences.  This "feeling" rarely occurs after only a couple of dates.

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We all interpret it somewhat differently, and there are many different levels, textures, etc.

Powerful connection and chemistry, comfort with one another, mutual attraction - all can happen anywhere.  

I look at this hobby as a series of first dates but you can have sex on the first date
I hope there is a romantic connection because it will heighten the sex, but most times there isn't  
Which is probably why I developed sexy experiences for my dates, like the sexy blindfold, cock milking, cock caressing, cock games.
I admit that I don't usually kiss until I get naked, but if you want the fantasy that I read about in reviews where the guy walks in she gives him a DFK unzips his pants and gives him the best bj ever, I'd sign up for that one!
I started doing dinner dates many years ago, to stir up some romance and make it less if a session

When I read your posts my brain reads them like a fortune cookie
Why is that?

Is there romance in real life?  With such a high divorce rate, I suspect actual romantic love is a lot less common than people want to believe.  

romance here between hobbyist and provider have been discuss many times....it can happen, it can't be happen.  i've heard retired provider married her regular client who they develop a romance relation, i also heard thing went bad between a couple who started as provider/client turn romantic.

For my budgetary limits, I won’t go past an hour. So when I hire an escort, I want all out passionate love making for the majority of the session. I also hope she is really into the carnal-lustful act, has the stamina to do it and immensely enjoys herself when doing it. As far as romance and the tender moments, like cuddling and intimacy to looking into her eyes to tender kissing and caressing are still there (which enhances the session, especially after physical), but all so brief. Hence, I feel it takes longer than an hour for the romance to cultivate. So these are my thoughts, and I have to rely on positive similar types of ladies in reviews in hopes to get it this way. But when I do, the memory stays with me for a very long time.

...it begins when I open the door....the words, the actions, the telephone calls, everytime he visits, that is what he wants a wild and exciting romance which ends when he leaves.... Until the next time.

Two different things.
Yes , there can be romance between client & provider. But it is not nor should it be an organic thing. It's not a blend of emotional engagement that leads to personal relationships.  
Being the romantic type in appreciative of an environment and attitudes that create a romantic atmosphere. Dim lights , soft music, candles, champagne chilling on the table. When hosting in my hotel I welcome a lady into my immaculate room and I'm well groomed and nicely  dressed . When I'm the visitor I appreciate the effort to make me " feel " like I'm a favorite lover dropping by for some fun. A fuck buddy if you will. Room preparation and personal appearance efforts plus a warm greeting mean a lot.

...romantic lovers are not only drawn physically to each other but are also bonded emotionally—bonded both intimately and passionately, but without sustaining commitment.

… and one can be committed to someone without feeling love for him or her.

I have some really really hot, sexy romance in this game. It is fucking amazing, and with multiple men.

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She probably got dumped by her "Client"...dude wised up.

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I agree with you 100%

Stop stealing my lines!

I agree and try to bring the same to the date. Yes, session does sound clinical. But if you combine the love for your partner with an elevated state of eroticism .... they're almost always the best dates ...

and you wouldn't have to bend my arm, but you may have to  
kick me out ... OUCH! Ciao, bella  

Lots of love

When does the provider tell us we are not being romanced?     During mish , ccg, Or bbbj.
I can never tell.

Actually, Vegas is far away and I don’t plan on going there anytime soon. Also, I’ve never been there; yet, but thank you for the sweet reply and offer. I did read the “General Details” of your reviews, (I’m not V.I.P.) and they are stellar. I then went to your webpage and read your erotic “Natasha” story. You write well and I can see you have other talents. Anyway, as you’re getting back into the biz, all the best to you!

i can't do slam bam thank you ma'am, i gotta have some romance, some flirtation, some adoration on both sides.

LOL I understand what you're trying to say, London, but let's think about "real life" dating for a moment.  How many gold diggers are out there on the dating scene?  When it comes to romance, men always wind up spending money on women.

In my case, my ATF and I enjoy texting each other in the weeks or months between our dates.  A lot of "I love you" and other romantic shit gets exchanged.  And I bring her wine and valentine candy and other romantic gifts.