I have always wanted to spend time with two ladies, but never have found the opportunity. Hopefully, my dream will come true someday. On the other hand, I have been offered the chance to be part of a threesome, but this would be two guys and a lady. A friend of mine who hobbies ona regular basis has in vited me to join him and provider for an hour of recreation.  Has anyone participated in a two guy-one gal situation, and if so what was it like? What can I expect? What should I know before accepting the invitation?

While I am a firm believer in "each to his own", there is only room for one hairy ass in my bed.

The more people involved, the greater the risk of mis-communication.  It can range from how much does each guy contribute to the price, to "where the hell do you think you're putting that!"

You may feel more comfortable with taking opposite ends of her than you would engaging in double anal, or him playing with you, for example.

I have a good idea of my limits, and they really aren't negotiable.  Still, within my limits, I think it can work out pretty well.

One penis in the bed is my limit. lol

everyone is cool with each other. We use to do threesomes and gangbangs alot in college but nobody (that we knew of) went both ways. I see it as a good time but no PETER FENCING for me.

be afraid. be very afraid.

is cracking me up. I love you guys! -e

If you're comfortable w/the guy [meaning you're certain he has NO interest in you sexually] and his anticipated behavior,go for it.
I've been involved in 2 on 1's [both ways],2 on 2's, w/swapping and sharing, and once a 3 guy/2 girl deal that started out as individual encounters[when the girls were getting ready to get dressed to leave the condo, we all ended up agreeing to a pile.It was crazy and something I will NEVER forget as long as I live...and there was No sword crossing at all,as we used what I consider common sense and did the 1 guy at the head the other below deal.Seems obvious to this homo-phob LOL]."Sweet dreams are made of these".ECJ
Oh BTW,make sure the girls into it,again,obvious.

You go ahead though....

Who said anything about a bed?  LOL.  You need to pay more attention to the Las Vegas M&G's.  That's what back yards are for.  Think 4 guys, 3 girls and a couple crackpots with cameras...oops.

My opinion, as somebody who has done this:

It's not as much fun as you may think.  It looks so easy in Porn, but nowhere near like that in real life.  It's easy to get your lines crossed (or something else for that matter).

Better to enjoy on your own, IMO.

1) Are you a voyeur or bisexual? You have to either get revved watching a guy do a woman while you do, or you have to get turned on by both him and her.

2) Are you turned on by nymphos, women who love to have sex with more than one guy?

3) If it turns out he's bi, will you say "I don't do that" and enjoy the rest of the session, or will your cock shrink into your abdominal for the next week.  

when he fails by comparison?  

I'm in a threesome every time - Big Ray, Bad Ray, and the lucky lady.  I love this life.

No experience with MFM but yes with FMF.  For FMF, the ladies have to be into each other for this to be a real hot session.  Also, you must be very comfortable with at least one if not both of the ladies; meaning you have seen the lady and are compatable.

For MFM, I have heard that the guys ignore each other and focus solely on the lady.

Let us know how this works out.

It seems to me there are far fewer men willing to engage in 2m1f 3somes than 2f1m. Understandable in the hobby world where many men are seeking something they can't get in civilian relationships.
I think men who are comfortable with their sexuality would enjoy it, but many men seem to have a touch of subconscious homophobia, and this prevents them from being able to enjoy a 3-some or group encounter.
Admittedly, it does help of the men are already friends, and feel comfortable and at ease with each other.

As far as your desire for 2 ladies at the same time... dude, you're in the right place... save up your bucks and go for it! Lots of doubles partners to be found in the TER database.
Enjoy

Heh... what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas... but the January '07 AVN and May of '07 M&G's were pretty darned exciting for those who stayed for the post-party party.
And the next one is in 10 days. I love a good group mojo

It's HIS sexuality that I'm not comfortable with

I have to say it was one of the most unusual nights of my life. It was at a swingers club in New Orleans that invites a limited number of single males. LOL, their screening process at the door was quite unique, not to mention thorough. I’ve only seen one TER provider that matched their technique. My sexual liberation and that of those here whom I know fairly well, is meek compared to this culture.

There was no chance of "sword crossing". One thing that the swinger crowd knows, understands and appreciates is the meaning of the word NO. But there was no pre-session negotiating or setting of rules ahead of time. Both sessions just sort of happened. With the first couple, I think it was their first time, so ironically I sort of took the lead after their initial invitation. The second couple knew exactly what they wanted and the choreographing took place on the fly with little communication or troubles.

I'd do it again.

Most importantly, you need to feel comfortable with the couple. You need to have a level of trust in them. I think the best way to attain that is to have discussions with them, together and maybe individually, of sufficient length for your confidence level to be where you want it to be.


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and one of the ladies was a lesbian.  Damn, did I see some good stuff happening and I took notes!  This was between marriages - about 1981.  

I do remember thinking to myself - observing - "so that's how you eat pussy!"

Have always wanted to do it again but I'm afraid my libido and performance has faded to where all I'd do is embarass myself.

My fantasy is to play a game, such as poker, with the other guy.  The winner gets her for free and the loser has to pay her and watch.

Please, Doc.  Most of the guys on here would faint at the sight of another man's hard cock in real life.  Serious homophobes.

I did it with a good friend of mine.  Neither one of us are bi so there wasn't any problem.  We showered together.  Basically he was at one end and I was at the other and then switched.  Great time!!

I have also done at G-G-B threeway.  Amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOLOL, I wanna play poker with you, darlin!

I've done the two girls one gentleman thing and I love it... in fact, just found a new gf to enjoy it with! I've always wanted to try two gentlemen at once... one of my unfulfilled fantasies...