I guess the biggest complaint from the guys here is how their wives lack the same interest in sex they once did due to a variety of factors, but the number one being Menopause. Here is something you guys may want to show your wives and see if they are willing to try it. Loss of lubrication is the major factor in painful sex caused by stages of Menopause, so let me share a little hooker secret with you all.

Not all providers are really turned on by you just because they are wet, but we won't get into that lol. Here is a website with some information on lubricant inserts that are very affordable, easy to use, and even some that increase sexual desire.

Enjoy...off to a fun weekend with my family finally!

it's the lack of desire. As Robin Williams said during one of his famous routines commenting on Viagra. "Most women are like fuck! I thought that war was over. Get that rusty nail away from me."

Viagra makes me laugh..old men with little boners and no one interested in doing anything about it. When science begins to see the craziness of this and work on something to increase female desire, than and only then, will more men get laid.

yes but it's good for your business. : )

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Its called desire for a reason...If I feel like rubbing one out, I will toss on some porn and take care of it...Notice, that I wasn't physically aroused at the start of this process. My brain made a choice, and I took the appropriate action to satisfy that choice.

I am not going to discount the physical issues, including the estrogen testosterone imbalance...but sex begins with thought...if you don't have the thought, then I have to go elsewhere...

You have to feel like "rubbing one out". You still have to have an urge. Maybe there will never be something to increase urge/desire. So sad really. But I also feel strongly that some women are just not interested in sex with the guy they are with and therefore shut it down, sighting menopause as the reason because it's convenient and guys can't argue with it. Better than saying "I am not into you anymore". Especially if they are resistant to doing anything about it..ie bio identical hormones that  might help with all the symptoms. Just sayin...

Yes hormones rule, but I believe a big majority of the problem is low self confidence and poor self image.  When a woman feels she is beautiful and sexy, she will be into the sex.

The number of women I have spoken to with hubbies please bel me it's nothing to do with lack of lube why they don't have sex anymore it's bec of a million other reasons, one being like the man with the woman they have become more companions and friends and don't look at each other like that anymore.

imagine desire does not exactly spring forth. Also, sex is not about wanting to have it all the time...this business is living proof of that. You honestly think hookers get paid to fk only when we are in the mood? LMAO...yea right. You can have sex with your man FOR him even if you don't 'feel like' doing it, and you can learn to be convincing. Wives need a provider mentor to tag along with them for a month. It is not about desire, but about doing it for the one you claim to love. I am sure guys don't always want to go to the Ballet or the In Laws either, but they do it FOR the wife.

much less menopause. Give me 20-30 years and I will let you know lol. As for the back...I would imagine this might be a really good idea being it lubricates from the inside out vs. the other way around.