As those of you who have been around for a while know, I don't hide my mongering, not even from my daughter "Wendy. "  Do a couple of days ago my ex wife called me screaming and crying. "You GLORIFY your lifestyle on Facebook, and Wendy thinks it's cool!  YOUR DAUGHTER has been meeting men online to help pay for her new car! She sold her vagina for 84 fucking dollars, you asshole!!!"

The first of course is safety, that is obviously the most important thing of all, but secondly $84??? Unless your daughter is homely as fuck, you need to teach her how to go "upscale" I have said many a time in my life "I don't mind being a whore, but I damn sure am not going to be a CHEAP whore"

Tell her that she should be getting $300/hr at least.

She is certainly not homely. $84 definitely bothers me. I think she got in over her head with the car, and is acting out of desperation.

Is she hot?  If so, please PM me some photos and if I like her I'll happily pay her $300 for a TOFTT session.  For a $50 discount I'll start a TER profile for her and write an honest review. I also would then agree to buy you dinner at the restaurant of your choice (wine NOT included) just to honor you for having the balls to pimp out your own kid.  And I say this with all respect.

You're wife is right and your a FUCKING awful.
One can only imagine the scum she'll see in the near future. Smdh.  

to continue. So you may as well teach her right. And give her some direction.  At least you will know you gave her the tips on how to do this safely.

She lives 4 hours away, so I can't do anything about the car.

Reevaluate my parenting skills?  Tell her to do as I say, not as I do? A. I'm not a hypocrite like many of the mongers here, B.  She is legally an adult so what the fuck am I going to do, ground her?

You just wish I'd hook you up with my daughter. How far from Minnesota do you live?  Are you used to driving in blizzard conditions?  That's an awful lot of trouble to go through just for a "forbidden fruit " fling.

and get in my car right now and BEAT her fucking ass to pulp when I get there. But that's just me......  To each his own, I guess.

Another comment on my parenting skills. You must be another hypocrite who tells your children to do as you say, not as you do. I  should also add that as an adult, she would eventually be fucking men anyway,  money or not. I'm sure it would be a relief if she were a "bar slut" instead of an escort.

So that's a good sign. I live on the East Coast, but if her pix are hot enough I might fly her to me.  Just make sure the pix are nudes.  And there better not be any Bait & Switch, or I'll have to bring in my cousin Vinnie and that will lead to no good.

Beat her ads to pulp?  What a wonderful, loving father you are!

I think you made some critical mistakes but who am I to judge. The damage is already done. I guess the best thing you can do now is to show her how much she can actually market herself for.  
But on a side note maybe it’s best for you to not be as outspoken on your hobbying. Posting about it on Facebook doesn’t help anyone in any way whatsoever. Not even you. Besides who goes around telling people who they fuck? No one wants to hear that kind of stuff. Specially in those kinda of media outlets.  
Come van the man. It’s time to get a “windowless” van.

Train her well Van the Man. Still smdh.

He's all over the P&R Board with ignorant and judgmental blatherings. So nice of him to grace this board with his "wisdom."

It is an interesting psychological study to see these mongers, who just yesterday paid for a session with a "barely legal" sex worker, react in horror and disgust at your parenting.    I mean, can they even hear themselves? ha ha

Well, first off, if she wants to be an escort, ok, cool, if I'm ever in Minnasota I'll look her up and bang her, and I'll even pay more than 84 dollars, but first you should really look into WHY she's doing this. If she's really just banging guys for super cheap just to pay for a car, you really gotta put an end to that shit and get her to consider other options. Fuck, give her a loan if it's really a car issue, come on, don't let your daughter bang guys just so her ride doesn't get repossessed.

Would you be ok with YOUR daughter being a provider/escort/hooker!? I know I wouldn't. I'd wring her neck. I feel bad for vantheman's daughter. She has a shitty dad. Not that I really care. I'm just posting on a fuck board.

Tell her what you think. If she wants to continue, give her advice, show her the website. Tell her her mother is a nosy bitch.

How old is your daughter?  It's difficult to let them walk their own path. Specially when the society we live in is so judgmental.

Bad parenting leads to damaged providers. Daddy wasn't there, to take her to the fair, to change her underwear, it seems he didn't CAREEEE!!!

because I agree with it COMPLETELY and you and I can't agree on anything "completely" lol

Also, if you'd actually strangle your daughter you should probably get help.
As for the P&R Board, your posts there are so poorly reasoned and written that if you were a bit more intelligent you'd be embarrassed.

Clearly you can't help her out with her car. I guess she has to take matters into her own hands by fucking and sucking the cocks of complete strangers. Good for her. I hope she learns.

Further down the thread you said if she was your daughter you'd wring her neck.  Confused much?

who supports his daughter providing needs help. The fool is reaching out to a public fuck board for advise and he got it.

and with a bit more of it, I don't think we'd be reading this sad thread.

Wendy's catchy slogan is:  "You can put the 'wood' to me for $84."

I don't have the least bit of shame about what I am doing. I refuse to live my life as a lie just because some people might not approve of my life choices. I don't see any downside about family and friends knowing about what I do. OTOH I see a lot of downside to lying to everyone I know.

Interesting comments, above, but I'll just point out that chronological age (19) does not always match emotional or psychological age. Some 14 yos are very mature, adult, savvy, ... .  Some 19 yos really could use another year or two (or 20!) of parenting.  You can still try to guide and advise her w/o trying to control her (even tho' she might need it).
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Now that that's out of the way, if I was in your area, I'd volunteer to put her over my knee and teach her a lesson! Not saying what KIND of lesson  
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Back to being serious again.  Sometimes advice and criticism is better received from a NON-parental party.  Another adult (teacher, priest, counselor) or a good friend can say the exact same thing but it sinks in from them but is rejected from the parent. Given that (IF you accept that), do you know any Providers in your area that would meet with your kid and talk with her? Depending on who you know and who agrees to talk to her, one possibility is the "scared straight" talk.  Another possibility is just a "be more careful and here's how to do it" talk. And so on.  
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Several Providers on TER are generous with advice AFTER they have been asked on the newbie board.  This is a little bit different.  People want to help. They DON'T want to be pimps.

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Did I spell everything correctly?

You're wishing van the man good luck. I'm wishing Wendy good luck.  

So what you're saying is the probability of you having fucked his daughter is high.  Nice.

Cognitive dissonance, it's what 's for dinner.  

is that some Dad is promoting/ practically pimping his own daughter to whore mongering pigs such as me for money. He can't even afford to help his daughter out with her car. She's having trouble paying for a car. What 19 year old isn't? The guy is fucking loser.

Assuming she is not going to stop.  She needs the help of a professional female (not daddy).  Assuming she knows about your lifestyle and your openness about the topic.  Hire her a professional escort to help educate her on everything she needs to know about safety and how to screen.  How to protect her own health, as well as finding a gyno that she can be honest with; that will probably suggest 4x a year examinations.  Help guide her in the direction of professionals.

But he has a lot of shit to wade through now that would all be unnecessary if he had been more circumspect.  

You've been busted by ex wives, and you are currently married to a former hooker. Are you saying your friends and family don't know you do this. 🤦‍♂️

My thoughts exactly. Souls and I are usually on opposite ends of the spectrum!

But admittedly not shocked to see hypocrites here. HappyChanges, how the hell can you continue to see providers while claiming that "you'd wring your daughter's neck," if you found out she was escorting? Do you think the fathers' of the providers you see should be as furious with them as you would be of your daughter? I think the OP's attitude is admirable, not "shitty parenting." She's clearly going to get a lot of judgment from his ex-wife's family and its going to be a relief for his daughter when he approaches the situation from a non-judgmental position, and helps her out. I've had people who've criticized me for seeing escorts always think they can try to prove me a hypocrite by saying something along the lines of "if your mother/sister/daughter was an escort, wouldn't you be upset." And I always tell them I wouldn't be, escorting is as respectable of a profession as any, and if any of the women in my family chose to be one, more power to them.

There is quite a difference in having “shame” and broadcasting loud and clear for the entire world to hear or see on your social media. No grown up humans brag on their social media accounts about civvie sex, so what makes this worth posting about?  

I'm not horrified by the idea. My concern is that she's not screening properly and is not charging enough for her time. I'm not a hypocrite; I'm an adult and can be a monger if I want, she's an adult and can be an escort of she wants.

Gay marriage, acceptance of transgender people like you, and legalization of weed are all proceeding because people were willing to come out of the closet.  We're trying to accomplish the same thing with sex work.  That's why I'm so open about it. My daughter obviously got the message, she just took it farther than most. I have no problem with it , provided she does it safely and smartly.

Having been on TER forever, It is usually not surprising how judgemental this place can be for a bunch of people that should be non judgmental. However in this thread, I am surprised by some of the responses by some people. (Fisher? Sasha?)

I don't like pussy mongers and Dad's that approve their daughter's sucking pigs dicks. I think everyone has the right to their own opinion. Everybody has their limit. For me, I don't like fathers promoting their 19 year daughter getting face fucked be the likes of me. IMHO.

Maybe it was a Qh B&G.

Have you seen some of the heifers here ? especially the ones who been her replying with there useless womanly advice?

Oh she knows BBFS is extra, that's where the 4 dollars came from.

Someone needs to point her in the direction which is most beneficial to her.
Have her look up the websites and fees of the top girls in HER AREA.  
EROS is still up to study some of the ladies that have invested in themselves and their businesses.
She needs to get a better idea of the business and not let that 19 yr old vagina be thrown to the dogs
or wasted on what mommy and daddy think is best for her.

Yes indeed---hypocrisy at it's best!!

IMHO there are 3 vital things:

Couldn't agree more!! She's going to do this anyway--so why not assist her in doing this in the safest, most profitable manner possible on all levels!!

Presidential candidate John Edwards.  Can't get much lower than that...unless you are Hillary.

but I wouldn't recommend them for everyone.

I hope it isn't like the old joke:

But don't apply that term to the rest of us just because you feel like a scumbag for participating in this lifestyle.

If you are in the habit of seeing women on tour, begin exercising extra caution. Knocking on the door to find your daughter behind it could be a little awkward.

Well, here's the good news. She has a good job with good benefits and everything.  The dabbling with escorting is for extra money and fun. She's highly intelligent, and only likes older men.  I just want to make sure that she doesn't jeopardize her "legit" job or get beaten by a violent client.

Why would it be awkward? We'd both laugh our asses   off and then go to dinner, or the Mall of America, or an amusement park. Of course, we would both take time to set up separate professional dates for later that night.

I see her saying to you "Dad, I can't believe you can afford to see a hooker, but you can't afford to help your own daughter with her car" Poof, there goes your hooker money. lol

That was actually VERY good advice. No girl/woman should be learning the ins and outs of how the hooker world works from her father. Finding her a female mentor is a great idea.

I get your point except youre misconstruing things. Every one loves gay people. Everyone hates gay people shoving their gayness in people's faces. its a fine line.

You want me to condone VTM's behavior? How is his behavior any different than a gay person throwing his gayness at you 24/7? I accept gays fully but at the same time i wouldnt want them to shove it down my throat 24/7. It seems very straightforward to me. You go to church to worship, you go to ter to talk about sex and stuff, you go to facebook to socialize with family and friends. Every venue has its purpose. Sounds like VTM was a little too careless about sharing his lifestyle and inadvertently may have corrupted his daughter. To say that she is an adult and therefore hes not to blame, is a very lame excuse. He is her dad, perhaps a role model to her, who knows. It sucks when people just avoid responsibility for their actions.  
Having said this, i really dont care, i dont think nobody here really cares, but he brought his personal business here seeking feedback, and feedback he got. I dont see how i am being judgmental but if that is how you perceive my post then that is your opinion and i respect it, but its certainly not where im coming from.

Did you book her as well ? .............................. LOL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Once upon a time gays had to "stand up and be counted" I don't suppose you remember the days of "We're here, we're queer, get used to it" if it weren't for gays getting in the face of their detractors nothing ever would have changed.

could you please kindly say it's weed if you are going to bring up my preferences of medicine, at home, on my own time... My choice rather than narcotics.  Please?  Do I have to ask you to not put in any potential clients mind the idea of a pipe?  I am old school and have a rolling machine that takes JOB 1.25 papers.  Please and thank you!  LOL  Maddie

I for sure wouldn't want my loved one to be a whore....

I'll make you a deal, you jump off the GW Bridge first and I PROMISE I will jump in after you. Deal?

your DEHUMANIZATION  
of SexWorkers
makes it easier for those with the same Hate  

This is why you wear a "glove" or why these hookers make you wear the "glove"   cause you know "dirty"

Please, please speak to her immediately.
You are not judging her BUT you will not ignore her going about it risking her life!  

Did you put a glove on your face too. Have you ever wondered if you might have tasted the jizz of the guy before you who rawdogged that piece of trash that you just ate out?  

Wow.... did you just call out hookers "piece of trash"  too  also did you just say there are hookers who allow "rawdogging"? my my you are filthy  

So does she do:
BBBJ
CIM
COB
DT
Greek
Swallow?
stripper slide

I am hardly "respectable" and I have never claimed to be.

the problem here is that people like you who have to have an opinion about everything are predisposed to take things a certain way no matter what. so if you didnt get the gist of my post, im afraid theres nothing i can do to further clarify it since i thought i was being very clear.

Great job Van.  Of course your post is complete and utter bull shit.  Do you even have a daughter?  You sure fooled a lot of people here.

Vantheman is out of his mind for supporting his 19 year old daughter hooking. I did not get the impression that his post was BS. The guy had threesome with a tranny and random cab driver, I doubt he's lying about Wendy.

You failed your daughter in an epic fashion. It is plan you failed to teach your daughter properly as a child. Shame on you! As a parent you are responsible for this tragedy with your failure as a parent. No not because your kid is a sex worker but because she is clueless in how to conduct business and how to set appropriate value on things. Money skills need to be taught in the home as schools fail at it in an epic fashion.

Actually, Scoed, any poor money management skills were learned from her mother, not from me. I  left my wife for 2 major reasons :  her affairs with gangbangers and her reckless spending of money. I can't do anything about her influence on Wendy.  Other than that issue, thanks for the support.

Don't leave us in suspense bro, is she gonna raise her rates or what?  

Maybe the $4 is the state  sales tax.

You pay for your car the same way she is paying for hers.  At 19 she is an adult and she can both buy and pay for her car anyway she wants to, and that includes turning tricks.  

If she is hooking because she wants to for extra fun money, pleasure, the thrill, thinking of doing it full time or whatever, and happens to spend her extra cash on a fun toy like a new car that is great, but if she feels compelled to hook because she is way to far in debt because of a toy like a new car that isn't so great. (A car may be a necessity, but a new one most definitely is NOT.)  

I've heard Ben was quite the ladies' man.

Hypocrisy?

Some folks believe they can intervene in someone else life and make them do what they think is right. There is 99.9999% chance, it is going to backfire.

Ex-wives are like that.  So driven by their anger that revenge becomes more important than any other consideration.

Is she hot? Ill pay her alot more than that

The hookers and the johns? Really? Yeah, the those sluts should be more politically active, because we know how good that is for business.

That's all good. She still needs to screen, obviously. Older men aren't automatically more trustworthy (I say it even though I am one). I'm inclined to say reconsider her rates too, though I don't know what the $84 was for specifically or what the going rates are in her area--I don't disrespect gals who charge lower rates, on the contrary I greatly appreciate them, but if they go too low they are in danger of attracting sketchy clients.