I am still having trouble with how to handle this condom issue
with some new ladies.  Yes, I know they are a must, no I am not trying to talk anyone out of using one..but it takes me a lot longer with one on and I don't want this to come as a surprise
to the provider...if she acts impatient or rushed it will kill the moment...what do the ladies want to hear from me ahead of time so they will be understanding or pass altogether?  A couple of ladies seemed able to talk me through it which was really great, but at least two made me feel freakish and ruined the entire experience..

I know that most men are not comfortable with the usage of a condom, but it needs to be done. Period.  Always be upfront with whomever, you may want to see. Trust me, a woman can be understanding, if given the proper notice in advance Good luck on your ventures.

Sincerely,

Mel

I am forever amazed at the things I read here about Providers - aren't you, ladies??!
I'm sorry that you've ever experienced a Provider being impatient, let alone making you feel freakish. Now, I will admit that I feel as if I didn't do my 'job' if we haven't reached the completion, and will usually not be satisfied with myself, FOR him, if we haven't gotten there, but I CERTAINLY hope that has NEVER come across as being impatient. There are many reasons, things 'happen', and I certainly don't feel the men are freakish or look at them differently. Stress, medications, etc. are just a few. I've also let them know that I don't always arrive at my Nirvana, but am still completely satisfied, just the same. It's the Journey, not the Destination.
Although you guys are so fantastic, that that's becoming more rare now, so I don't even have to mention it. (I'm not into 'faking' it). I've been very pleasantly surprised!
As for you, simply mention how much you appreciate patience in a Provider; that the use of a condom makes it 'take longer' - and that's a good thing, too, right? Longer playtime?? And, also, you could bring some of your preferred condoms that have been recommended: Crowns and Kimonos, for the most natural feel. I checked them out on www.condomania.com and it was quite interesting! LOL

I hope this helps.

Sedona

Agreed, Honesty is the best policy.  

I have the same problem.  It may take me the full hour so I never expect 2 cups unless I have booked for more than a hour.  2 things I have discovered which have helped is to use a larger size condom which is less constrictive and then to use a lot of lubrication.  Women don't always lubricate particularly with the latex and I have found, with a lubricant acceptable to both both parties,  I get a better feel and therefore am able to climax sooner.

Remember you are not at the race track and the smell of burning rubber is not a good sign LOL, grin

I learned from my dentist (in reference to surgical gloves) that
latex tends to severely dry out any body part it touches.  So if a guy's wearing a condom and the woman isn't using enough lubricant it's going to give her a very "rough ride".  This could be part of the problem.

Since providers are professionals, it's really their responsibility, not the client's, to know this, but it couldn't do any harm to mention it to them just in case.

yeah stupid condoms! try the inspiral condom, was a lil different effect


but use'm man...use'm! condoms will keep you going back for more!

... staying power.  For that matter, most women would probably appreciate your extended staying power if they are really interested in a good time.

Look for providers with reviews that imply that the lady was interested in sex and had a good time.

Just remember, a hard man may be good to find, but an enduring man is a masterpiece!

Right Mel?

Has any one tried those polyurethane condoms?I've heard their thinner, transfer more body heat,and protect as well or better than latex.

Before trying any Polyurethane condom, read the fine print on the package.  They will protect against pregnancy but not all STDs.

You can tell the quality of provider by the types of condoms used.  There should be different ones for different people.  ie, mags for larger ....
I've had the best luck using Pleasure Plus (complete different design than a normal condom) with similar gentalmen.

when clients see me and they take forever to come, i won't see them again and resent them
it's harsh but it's the truth and i think most girls feel the same

Always be yourself.