Honesty is always the best policy.

I know that most men are not comfortable with the usage of a condom, but it needs to be done. Period.  Always be upfront with whomever, you may want to see. Trust me, a woman can be understanding, if given the proper notice in advance Good luck on your ventures.

Sincerely,

Mel

I am forever amazed at the things I read here about Providers - aren't you, ladies??!
I'm sorry that you've ever experienced a Provider being impatient, let alone making you feel freakish. Now, I will admit that I feel as if I didn't do my 'job' if we haven't reached the completion, and will usually not be satisfied with myself, FOR him, if we haven't gotten there, but I CERTAINLY hope that has NEVER come across as being impatient. There are many reasons, things 'happen', and I certainly don't feel the men are freakish or look at them differently. Stress, medications, etc. are just a few. I've also let them know that I don't always arrive at my Nirvana, but am still completely satisfied, just the same. It's the Journey, not the Destination.
Although you guys are so fantastic, that that's becoming more rare now, so I don't even have to mention it. (I'm not into 'faking' it). I've been very pleasantly surprised!
As for you, simply mention how much you appreciate patience in a Provider; that the use of a condom makes it 'take longer' - and that's a good thing, too, right? Longer playtime?? And, also, you could bring some of your preferred condoms that have been recommended: Crowns and Kimonos, for the most natural feel. I checked them out on www.condomania.com and it was quite interesting! LOL

I hope this helps.

Sedona

Agreed, Honesty is the best policy.  

I have the same problem.  It may take me the full hour so I never expect 2 cups unless I have booked for more than a hour.  2 things I have discovered which have helped is to use a larger size condom which is less constrictive and then to use a lot of lubrication.  Women don't always lubricate particularly with the latex and I have found, with a lubricant acceptable to both both parties,  I get a better feel and therefore am able to climax sooner.

Remember you are not at the race track and the smell of burning rubber is not a good sign LOL, grin

yeah stupid condoms! try the inspiral condom, was a lil different effect


but use'm man...use'm! condoms will keep you going back for more!

You can tell the quality of provider by the types of condoms used.  There should be different ones for different people.  ie, mags for larger ....
I've had the best luck using Pleasure Plus (complete different design than a normal condom) with similar gentalmen.