This is the third time this week!

Gentlemen:  If you're going to give me a reference and your full name, make sure it's your correct name. I will find out the truth anyway if I'm doing outcall and when I ask another provider for a reference. When I call a hotel to confirm that a gentleman is staying there, I don't want to be surprised by the operator when he says, "No!"  Then it places me in an awkward situation, and that is how suspicion is raised. Just to let you guys know: I only ask for the guy's name and then when the operator transfer me to his room I hang up. I just want to make sure he's really staying at the designated place. Many of us do this checking.

Guys:  Please do not do this. "It makes an a _ _ out of you and me" when you assume.

Thanks for listening to my gripe.

Hugs,
Ciara

-- Modified on 5/30/2007 11:25:39 PM

I hope they were not "experienced" hobbiests.

I hope you walked away and left them hanging.
They were not just being 'careful",, they were deceitful and potentially dangerous.

Maybe you should let the other ladies know who they are on the ":ladies" board.

Just my opinion...
B

you have to follow the rules of the game... what part of that do some not understand??????????
GEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEZ

... act like they've been around the block a million times.  However, your White Knight tendencies give you away!

I HAVE been around for quite a while.
When I post a message, I don't hide behind an alias, so those who know me, and there are quite a few, know that I say what I mean and mean what I say.

Sounds like you are one of those who JUST DON'T GET IT.

Just my opinion...
B

i have been hobbying quit a whie myself,, just because we dont have tons of reviews posted doesn't mean shit!!  mintyass  has the problem!!!

What is your beef.  Dudes that cross the ladies and women who cross the dudes... really do hurt this hobby.... if you've nothing useful to say, why not take a seat in the peanut gallery....

And by the way, NOT all of my encounters are posted under my current registered name.... In the past I posted under a different name... for reasons that I will not go into here, that name, and all associated reviews were removed from TER.  My posts that were made under that name still exist, but the reviews are all gone...  so just because someone only has a couple of reviews - does not mean that they are not experienced, nor does it mean that they are not valued members of the TER greater community.

Get out from the alias - if you want to discredit another member.

The number of reviews posted is not relevant..
I don't review everyone, and repeats, (there has been a lot of those) and I've been hobbying for quite a while..  how about double digit years..
as I said Minty Ass has the attitude!!!

you would know Bob has been on this board for quite a bit and has had plenty to offer over the years.  There are quite a few guys who only do a few reviews but see more providers than that.  

Before you assume someone is a novice because of having only two reviews, do a search to see how many posts they have over the years first.  Of course, to do that, you would need to be making a serious comment. Given your handle, though, your immature tendencies give you away!

This post was just to let gentlemen know they have to be honest with us. Otherwise, why give a reference?  Also, Bobb is one of the nicest people you will meet and a great contributor to the board, as is Mr. SelfDestruct and Bizzaro.  And . . . who says "White Knights" are a bad thing. You must have something against me, not them.

Hugs,
Ciara

-- Modified on 5/31/2007 9:48:33 AM

I have no comments other than I think sometimes when someone sees a screenname that has only posted one or two reviews, they assume the poster is new when in actuality, they may have posted many more under other names, or on other boards etc. It does not mean they are new to the hobby at all. Mabey they just started posting them, etc.

No disrespect meant, just an observation.

Sara

-- Modified on 5/31/2007 9:54:57 AM

I always wondered about peanut galleries...do they serve peanuts, or is it more like an art gallery where you'd watch peanuts?

Now everyone go give Ciara their real name... she is correct.

Good person  yes
friend to many  yes

so what is your problem ???

Ciara is a sweet beautiful person and is intelegent, well educated, articulate and very capable of speaking for her self, however what is wrong with a friend posting agreement with her.

And what is it tooooooo you how many times he or anyone has been around the block.


So go slither back under that rock.

Thank you

PS   Ciara it is room 69 at the
Followme INN (get it followme inn)
69 Followme road
FollowmeVille
I've sent you many pics of me so I'm sure by now you know I do look sort of goofy but GWARSH that's the way i are
See ya later....BEAUTIFUL


-- Modified on 5/31/2007 12:07:47 PM

just because i don't have hundreds of reviews doesn't mean i'm new or inexperienced.... and just because you have a ton of reviews, it doesn't mean you're a "white knight" either- i personally don't believe in that stuff.... so labeling someone as a 'white knight' for trying to help someone else just further shows how narrow-minded you are....  i am polite and courteous in all my encounters, but it doesn't mean i'm trying to 'save you'....

i've posted reviews on other boards before i came here....  there's no need to review all the ladies again.... after a while it gets tedious, its pure repetition with little to no purpose- kind of like your post

i tend not to review here because most of the ladies i see either have a ton of reviews  or are repeats- to add another review stating the same thing is a moot point.... trust me when you find a good thing in this hobby you tend to stay and repeat often....

instead of running your mouth about other board memebers under an alias, you should post under your real handle or shut the phuck up and keep your smartass comments to yourself.....

i doubt you'd do that since your ignorance would problably cost you.....

-- Modified on 5/31/2007 11:44:05 AM

I feel exactly the same way...

Excellent points all. I would correct one thing though. As has been discussed in previous threads, regardless of how many reviews a lady has, PLEASE go ahead and write that review. It helps ladies keep their profiles visible, plus it lets guys know she is still active.

I went for a little over a month back in December without a review, and when I finally got the next one, I got a few "welcome back" e-mails from gentlemen who thought I had hung up my garters because I hadn't been reviewed. I hadn't stopped doing anything - I just didn't get reviewed during that time.

Plus, if its a positive review, I for one love to read them for the 'feel good' of knowing I sent someone away with a big smile on his face :o )

So please by all means, write it :o )

I always pictured them to be filled with different types and sizes all right there for me to enjoy.

Wait!  You said peanuts, not penis.  Nevermind.

for a while, they have seen posts by Ciara.  CiaraPhx is one of the real classy ladies in this business.  I was lucky enough to see her last year on a trip to Phoenix and have been trying to get back there ever since.  Ciara is a sweetheart!

One of the more interesting aspects of the hobbyist/provider experience is the fact that the identity of the hobbyist is known and the identity of the provider is not.

I don't spend a lot of time thinking about this. I just accept the fact that the provider needs to achieve a level of comfort with me. The result is that she can feel safe when she enters my hotel room, and that always works to my benefit.

-- Modified on 5/31/2007 7:31:16 PM