I was with my ATF today...  I was on my back & she was giving me BBBJ.  She was at an angle from my side so I could touch her but not fully reciprocate.  I was just diddling her some, she was not real wet.  I put a finger to my mouth to wet it & she abruptly stopped me.  Eventually, she put some baby oil on my fingers & we moved on but the mood was broken.  

It never occured to me a woman would object...  after all, I've had my mouth there numerous times.  Should I have anticipated this?  
skb

I don't think you should have anticipated it but I wouldn't take it personally. Maybe she was just sore or something. It doesn't necessarily even mean she wasn't into it. Occasionally women can be turned on and not wet, or vice versa, just like men can be turned on and not hard, or vice versa.

I find that saliva's not the best lubricant. A water-based lube works best. Baby oil feels nice but it's not really advisable as it can erode condoms.

who can question it?  If there is some presumed health benefit, it makes no particular sense.

perhaps in her experience the baby oil or other lube prevents this... just speculating....

Our mouths hav a ton of bacteria and while she lets you dine down there your tongue does not go as far in as you fingers so maybe she was afraid that putting saliva way up there would cause a bacterial infection like G said.
Bacterial infections will put a girl outta commision for at least a week.
No more Baby oil !!!!!! Please tell her it is very unsafe. She has a way higher chance of breakage not only with you but other clients which will obviously be your problem as well. Please tell her asap

It could be
- she was sore
- did not expect it
- wanted you to focus on your pleasure
- didn't want bacteria

In the past, I used to get irritated when after prolonged sex, a gentlemen tries to finger me while I am trying to give him a bj and end a session. But in your case, it really sounds like she just had a preferred type of lubrication.

Maybe she has limits you don't know about. You could ask her.

PS Bacteria from mouths are nasty.

I can't remember the exact words but I'm sure it was about saliva.  While things were prominate, she wasn't open & there was no penitration going on.  

skb

"...and end a session."

Almost makes you sound like you want to get a guy to climax and then push him out the door.

Yes it sounds like it.
If you know me, which you don't, you would know that is not what I meant.

If the time is running out and the guy hasn't reached his orgasm and I am getting sore, then I would want him to focus on the sensation and his pleasure not mine.

I seem to recall a post a while back about manicures for men...

and women who looked at men's fingers and didn't want to get scratched down there.

That's one reason why I keep my nails the length that they are...
Long enough to look nice,
Short enough not to scratch or break the glove when I'm giving a prostate massage or spending some special time with a special lady.
And I ALWAYS keep the nails clean.

Happy hunting!

trust me i know, i am one!
Jay

Thinking on this more...  my nailes & hands were not the issue (should not have been as they were as clean as I can scrub them with nails trimmed).  I brush, floss, mouthwash again just before arrival.  

Clearly this was about saliva.  Although she does bbbj, no CIM.  No open mouth kissing.  DATY not withstanding, I'm certain this was about saliva, body fluids & her personal boundaries.  I think I inadvertently crossed one.  It's not for me to debate her choice of boundary...  now that I know (after 2 years) what it is.  
skb  

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Lotus,
Sometimes, your pleasure is my pleasure.  If I don't see the feel the gal is enjoying herself, I won't be enjoying myself.

I was there the other day. The lady I was with didn't want me to stick my fingers in her pussy, but didn't mind my tongue, or dick, which was covered. I didn't get into it, so to speak, because I dig her and didn't want her to feel bad for not letting me do this. What the hell did I care anyway? My finger? My tongue? My dick? Two out of three ain't bad, know what I'm saying?! Besides, my baby's too bad to let such a little thing get in the way of a good time!!! ~

What happened to all the time?

When a profession is working hard at something, sometimes they just want to do it without interruption. That was ALL I was saying. You guys are taking it in different directions.