i have been standing in the background
and i've heard a lot about your ideas
about atf's. there are so many ideas
about what IS an atf. i'm curious
though about how many visits does the
average man require until he would
consider a provider an atf? if the average
visit is, oh say, 2hr how can a man
consider a provider as anything other than
a convenient lay until after a 1/4 yr
providing he sees her a couple times a
month? if chemistry is a factor isn't a small
portion of chemistry emotional? are some men
prone to emotional in such a quick manner?
i'm not, even as my job would disallow the
emotional aspect of the connection. ok, so
a particular provider does everything just
right. believe me when i say successful
providers are going to do most of what
you wish with the intent to make you
happy. so why declare any provider an
atf?

It takes 15 minutes for many of these guys to fall in love &  have an ATF.  Many will drool on themselves on their way home driving from the session.

Most of these men never had a decent GF or ever got laid by a girl that would be rated  higher than a 5 or 6.

I think CF, or Current Favorite would be a much better term, at least for me. I can't think of anyone that could qualify as "all time favorite" I have the attention span of a gnat and can barely remember who I fucked yesterday, much less have a hooker that qualifies as an "all time" anything. lol

Actually I have had a few women in the hobby that have rocked my world and a few of them have ended up as completely OTC LTR's, but I still don't like the term ATF and rarely if ever use it.

i've helped a few men satisfy those yearnings. ;]

but i don't drink budwiser hon. up your game a little and call me


this is kinda fun

you can't remember who you had sex with yesterday? hey i think i'm suppossed to know you.

i would hope i could do well enough that you would remember.

but to be fair, I drank A LOT yesterday. lol

the MP67 method of sexology. no issues resulting from that? no disappointing finishes*or lack there of*?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjgumK1oS5M

guys who cant do better than a 5 or 6 usually suffer from


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjgvmK1oS5M

I wasn't looking for some serious connection, or deep, meaningful conversation. I just wanted to get drunk and do a lot of fucking.

Mission Accomplished. lol

ATF = "all-time favorite", or I think it does.

I've met a few ladies who, on my first visit with them, became instant favorites.  "All-time" favorites?  Hard to tell, but just the definition of ATF keeps moving the maker down the field, just like a 10 is "once in a lifetime" (and I've scored a few 10's so it just doesn't cipher).

While some guys NEVER repeat, I'm a shameless repeater with ladies I connect with.  There are some ladies whose presence I depart and I think "Hmmm....I wish we could have had more opportunity for X."  Those ladies stimulate me on multiple levels and, as you point out, it might be difficult to consider ATF's after only one date.

So I just leave it this way: FAVORITES.  Why does anyone have to be "all-time".  They KNOW I appreciate them, and I feel they appreciate me.

Maintaining a "diversified portfolio" is advice that is just as appropriate in this game as it is in investing.  Overinvestment into one sector can be damaging if it implodes.

means this. When I meet a girl or lady or provider, what ever the term, for the first time I have to feel totally at ease. She has to have the looks I like and be, or act like, she's really excited that I am there. she has to have a nice body, in my eyes, and the one that sets the final standered is she has to be really intellectual and be very interesting. Not just talk about the hobby or her life in it but her life in general or just about anything and also show interest in what I am saying. If all these are met I can serve up 2 cups in a 1 hour session and 3 to 4 in a  2 hour session. All becasue I am at ease and she acts like she wants to be with me. So for me if she hits all bases after the first visit she is considered my atf and the more I see her the better and better it gets. just my $0.02

Over many years I've met hundreds of women across many regions of our country.  Honestly, I estimate only four or five experiences that have been unpleasant, that I regretted (for the experience, at any rate.)  The rest I was happy to have met these lovely women.  Of all these ladies, again over many years, there are perhaps 10 who I was lucky enough to see multiple times.  With these ladies I felt an emotional connection;  I really liked them and they did a credible job of at least pretending to reciprocate.  So these are the faves.   It's kind of like who's the all time best baseball player, or country singer?  There are clearly a few at the top but I'm not able to say who is THE best.

So, Nurse, while I have you, I've got this yearning feeling.  Can you help?

Alcohol, Tabacco, and Firearms. -> http://www.atf.gov/
lmao

I think those going the ATF route seek a more personal connection. Definitely not guys who seek a wham baam thank you maam session.

Of course if the girl looks 10, performs at a 10, and has a great personality too, kinda gets hard not to keep her around as an ATF. lol

I don't take the meaning of ATF , All Time Favorite, literally. I take it as the hobby term for A favorite. When I began to hobby and saw ATF , then asked and was told what it meant I just didn't take it literally. After all it is the hobby. Variety is the spice of life. I do have favorites though because of their attitude, the connection, every session is a good one. Therefore to me ATF is a quick way to convey that the lady is one you enjoy, consistently meets your needs and desires and you will continue to see her.

call it whatever you like, there's usually a lady, that stands out from the crowd.  If you're lucky maybe 2 or 3.  I just like to call them my favs.

i've always assumed ATF was an acronym for ALL time favorite...

Given that definition, I will tell you who my ATF was after I die...
Until then, I don't know the answer...

Guess I should take advantage of this before the patient comes to his senses...

An ATF to me is a lady that we have fun together, basically. She and I 'click', and I can see being with her again and again.

She's a friend as well as a sex partner. She feels comfortable calling or texting when she wants and not when it's at my convenience. We can do all sorts of things together cuz we trust each other, in or out of the bedroom.

She's a friend.

It is easy to become enamoured with a lady on the first visit. After 3 visits, if I still want to see her, and don't care to TOFTT with a new intriguing lady, then she is a candidate for being an ATF.

BTW: I think ATF is more Current Favoriate/go to girl, than All Time Favorite.

BTW2: "successful providers are going to do most of what you wish with the intent to make you happy. so why declare any provider an atf? " - Even if the lady does all the right things, there may not be chemistry. Doing all the right things, and chemistry ... Now, that is worth repeating. Many ladies have lost the Chemistry by the 3rd visit (not as eager "to make you happy"?).

and you were able to spend quality time with one lady, one more time, who would it be?  I'm not saying you're about to die, just that you're retiring from the hobby.  If you can answer that question, then you have a definite favorite, perhaps the elusive ATF?

ATF mean a lot to different people. But my ATF would have to not see many clients in one day. Her service would have to be BBBJ, DFK (has to want to suck my tongue), like and suck on my balls, body have to be my ideal type, gives me good eye contact, has to have a phat ass and good size tits, always be professional, let me anal her without extra fees, spend extra time with her without watching the clock, let me do mostly everything I want to do with her.

Sounds like a lot, but since you mentioned it, that's what ATF is all about, and that's why I go back.

ATF is someone I can afford to see weekly, because her rates are cheap.
If a lady's rate is prohibitively high, I see her once in a blue moon.