Recently I booked a multi-hour rendezvous with a provider I've known for many years. She has been one of my all-time favorites (have seen her several times) and we've always had incredible sessions!!  

and the best thing for both of you is to listen very carefully and never pontificate.

A few girls have opened up to me. I always thought it was because of my age and because of where I have been in life.    
Like Mr Fisher said listen be understanding and patient.
If she needs to cry hold her. She feels safe with you. I know you said the sex was bad but if you see her again she will rock your world. That's how it's been with me. The session after they open up is dynamite.
This isn't an easy job and god knows how many thoughts are running thru a women's head at any given moment while in this world.
Treat them nice make them feel safe. Your doing it right.  

I think it's great that you are willing to be her shoulder to cry on but paying for a multi-hour and not getting anything out of it is just letting yourself getting taken advantage of

She should take a break and certainly not have had A DATE WITH YOU!

She was simply relating a few of the more stressful experiences and consequences of her business, such as demanding clients, stalkers, and other concerns that most of us never have to deal with or even think about.  She even apologised for using up much of our time, even though she will often cheerfully extend it.

I have had this happen to me twice.

She was VERY discreet about divulging names---(which I was very thankful for---as I truly didn't want to know--it's none of my business!!)

That really wasn't her fault---as she wanted (and tried like hell LOL!!) to have fun with me after sharing this info. It was MY head that kind of got a little fucked-up---the intensity of the discussions kind of put me in an introspective mood and I just didn't have my usual zip!!

... Who said she was getting out of the business. I was one of the last clients she saw before she went MIA for about 6 months or so.

or a shoulder to cry on... That's what freinds are for.

You got hustled.

yes we are ALL human.  Some of us just have a more difficult time of feeling/expressing our human side.  Of course when we do share it we make ourselves vulnerable and none of us wants to do that under the wrong circumstances.

The meeting took place, right?

There was someone I had seen a few times, a tiny girl (less than 5', maybe 90#?). (I like tiny girls!) We could cuddle and snuggle and do the other stuff, too. She disappeared for a while (about a year) and returned and I saw her again.  

Yep, we met----I decided not to post a review of the encounter. She's given me so many incredible times over the years that I'm not going to gripe and bitch if one session is off and doesn't go true to form. (Shit happens in this crazy world!!) My motto--people are allowed to be human!! If your position is that I got hustled---well---all I can say is you're entitled to your opinion but every other time I've seen her has been mind-blowing!! If she were a hustler she would've displayed this trait from day one--and she never has!!

Your confusion may stem from your being in flat mode instead of tree mode.  If so, you should change that.

LMAO!! OK OK---I got it!!


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I always try to make the most of every encounter. There have been times that my ear for calamity has left me feeling elated, but that feeling quickly fades. Once the realization sets in, that I've been hustled.  

Really she should have offloaded all this stuff onto a therapist or friend not used a decent regular client who is paying for a professional service. If I'm feeling overwhelmed with life or having personal issues I don't work, or I work and take care not to let my mood or situation spoil the experience with me that someone has worked hard to be able to spend money on.
Bad luck for you to be on the receiving end and I hope she sorts herself out.