Hello,

I would demand $300 for both missed appointments and the acceptable that a future booking would require FULL PAYMENT upfront. That's firm but fair imo.

You did what was right for you!  Sure, there are valid reasons to miss or reschedule an appointment.  But to willy nilly do so and think it is okay isn't cool.  Accountability and repercussions are on him, not you!

Accept the cancellation fee but if he NCNS a third time, he’s out.

Your policy is clear. He's feelings are not your problem.

 
That said, I would take the $200, because some money is better than no money. And, I would tell him if he wants to rebook he needs to pay the entire amount upfront for the new appointment.

 
And while I understand you were expecting $600, that's what's called sunk money. It's already in the past and money you don't have. The best decision is one that you are comfortable with for the future. Even if that decision is telling him to f off.

No excuse for that shit. I had a girl 45 minutes late because of “traffic”. It’s absolutely disrespectful.  Leave fucking earlier then.

Your the boss & you make the rules.

I personally have required deposits to book, since 2010 & if I lost $600 out of pocket I would need to be reimbursed. I don’t invest my time and money, like I used to prior to becoming a single parent. I can not afford to risk loosing time and money. 💰

Without a good reason, one strike and you're out. N-E-X-T-!

... and had pissed someone off twice, I wouldn't want to book with that woman now.  This is a generality and not directed at Scarlett because I don't know how she would react.  But I would be concerned if I aggreged a woman, that her state of mind might not be as positive and loving as she normally is.  If she is harboring any ill thoughts in the back of her mind because she thinks I was an asshole, my hour of fantasy might be an hour of nightmare.

And not putting words into any of the lady's mouth, but why take the $200 + donation and see him?  If he was that disrespectful before you ever met, is there any guarantee he is going to be a gentleman when YOU DO see him?  

A pattern of him not respecting you or your time.  

 
If it was me I'd tell him to shove his $200 and ignore any future communications from him.

I would say he needs to say that up front. I would also say he should be trying to schedule appointments on short enough notice that he knows his schedule is not going to change so the appointment would be kept a large majority of the times.

 
NCNS are bad on both sides and everyone should work to minimize the event. Some people, again on both sides, don't. In those latter cases I would say, keeping with the emergencies do actually happen to all of us, fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me -- and I'll pass on the third round.