I do agree that the wham bam sex gets boring after awhile and I am not interested in the drama that SB/SD might bring. So why not get the best of both worlds... What about a pro offering a date without sex... Before all of you guys/gals tear me a new one just hear me out. What if a pro offer to see someone on a date say a 2hr minimum but on the 1hr rate (50% off their normal P4P rate but no BJ or sex).

Paying anyone just to have dinner/drinks is really the epitome of sad.  Do you NOT have anyone in your life that you can call and get to go with you?

Where are the people to jump all over you when you say paying for dinner dates or overnights is sad? I got cremated for saying that about a month ago.

Why aren't you there too?

usually be able to hang out with in real life.

Hopefully you did..that would be nice too.

Posted By: Lila Aubrey

usually be able to hang out with in real life.  
   
 I went to dinner whe other night with one of my longest known clients and I rarely see him.  Maybe 1X a year.  He's an incredibly hot 50 y/o Brit and I love the angry looks we get from all the divorcees and cougars who would be all over him if he was alone

If I wanted a "real" date, that's what I would do, and I go on a lot of "real" dates with hookers. I call them "sex optional" dates where it's not expected or required that we have sex, but if we end up in bed of our mutual desires, than I am hardly going to say no. The amount I am willing to pay for that kind of date for the lady's "time" is $0.00.  I just don't need company that bad to have to pay for it. NSA sex is well worth the money to me, but "company", as many others have said "go buy a dog"

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Maybe we should try Portillo's....great Polish sausage there.

i see delirium is setting in..

And You?

Sounds like you just had an "idea" but have never done it. Beside the fact that it's rather "sad" like many have posted I think if you somehow get to do it you'll find out how unfulfilling and underwhelm that experience going to be. It's because you're just "renting" a date not unlike hiring someone to be a date -regardless of your mutual feelings and chemistries.

I know of guys who pay a gal over 60 to go to dinner.  No sex.  Just dinner.  Full rate. One wanted to take her home to meet his family.  The definition of sad.  She laughed at them.  And took their money.

If you ask nice maybe they'll change your diaper tonight.

After years of a tortuous and unfulfilling marriage (that I stuck with largely from a sense of duty and obligation - to her and to the kids), I have now been unattached for several years.

If she doesn't explicitly offer it on her website, you can always inquire. No biggie.

I think you have it working just fine.

As have I,  

Like you..L.Guapo and LR.  I think there might be a bunch of others in that "horror" list as well...some are on hiatus...others still lurking.  

It's hard to claim that someone has ZERO cred when well known people here admit to knowing you IRL.  

Actually one of them is a mod on here...pathetic as that may be.

but if I ever become an old fuck who can no longer get it up, I 'might" consider surrounding myself with young hotties (at a price) to make myself feel better, and I wouldn't give a fuck if some guy on the internet thought I was "sad"

But it's fun to watch, then send you home lol!

I was told they were in their 40's/50's. Not that old. Regardless of how "wealthy" they may be, I find it sad. Regardless of what you are spending , if you have to "save up" to hobby it means you can't afford it. That's sad too

Like some people  

I thought I'd save something for those who feel bad about how coffee can be ruined.

She can still sit on your face.  I assume that's still better than paying her to go to dinner with you.  And I agree zguy seems to be doing it right.  Or at least the way I do.  So it must be right.  Because I'm always right.  Just ask TERAdmin, LOL!