As soon as I see those acronyms on an email I delete. Replying to anything like that whether positive or negative or pointing to reviews is an admission of sorts that something along those lines might happen...and is out there forever and ever and ever...

And this is before you screened him? How do you know he's not LE testing the water?

... his questions.

How long have you been doing this? I can't believe that's the first time you have received a correspondence like this & don't know how to handle it.

My guess is you’re just seeking attention and is why you posted this on the GD board instead of the PO board.

Ok, WK's....here's your opportunity to "defend your lady of need"...jump on in!

PS…I would recommend to you move on.

Either way...not cool and I'd still hit the delete button. If in fact he feels he can get away with this line of questioning, who knows what else he might think of to push, references or not.

I agree he shouldn't say it, but are you trying to be strict about standards of conduct or stay safe?  If you feel uncomfortable thats one thing.  But are you just peeved he didn't follow directions?

Yeah, If I was paying Multiple Hours .. I would ask that question too.

Reviews are not accurate. And as other guys say in their review ... YMMV.

However, I don't do multiple hours on first meeting with any lady, no matter how good the review is.  So, I don't ask.

For ladies without any reviews, I have to ask some questions as NOT to waste my money on UPSELLING, FAKE ADS, LADIES WITH TOO MANY RULES.

Trust me - there are many ladies who don't do BBBJ, DATY, or DFK. I won't waste $1000 or $2000 for multi-hour on those!

.....I guess it worked!!!!!

Besos!

"...For ladies without any reviews..."

Yes you do but don't be surprised if you don't get an answer. Better off sticking to those that have reviews if you absolutely have to know what's available...even if she answers and says yes...it's still YMMV when you get there...in some cases...not all and since you have been around, you know the common reasons for YMMV

In my experience, YMMV is lessened when the lady says "yes, I kiss on lips".  It always works for me. If she says she doesn't kiss on lips, then it's good that she spells that out.

Sometimes I ask because some ladies advertise "full GFE" and to them that means only "full service" .. not really GFE, no DATY, no Kissing whatsoever.

Regarding to sticking to ladies ONLY with reviews ... that's very limiting.

If I were to ask you a question, what do you say to the guys who saw you WHEN YOU DID NOT HAVE A REVIEW YET ?????  I'm sure there was a time YOU did NOT have a single review.  So, you're saying we should not SEE YOU because you didn't have any reviews ??????? Hmmmm... Kind of a chicken and egg thing.

You can only say this now, because thanks to some hobbyists who took a chance on you the first time .. that you got your first or second review. And that got your reputation going.  

What you're saying is double-standard to ladies who may even exceed you in looks and service and attitude, but they are new to the industry and don't have reviews yet. And these ladies need a review, so why shouldn't I try them ???? I have even seen some advertisement saying "if you're a reviewer, you'll get a discount".  

Risk is always > 0% but that kind of e-mail pushes it up. Could be up a lot.

Guys and girls both get turned.  Mail gets read.  LE will put 2 + 2 together if they want to nail you but this kind of mail makes it too damn easy.

Sure there's a double standard.  After I had references I got OK'd easier.  I see someone with reviews I don't need to ask more questions.  Raegan has reviews and a web site.  Those questions are too much in my opinion.

once upon a time I would respond, trying to educate these type men. I was new at providing and felt the need to be courteous to every emailer, even those I knew I would not see. Those who are this stupid just don't get it, no matter how many times you explain it to them. I get these type emails from those who are TER members, p411, roomservice...  Some are just trying to get a response, others are just plain stupid.

unless I was being sarcastic.  That may have been the first clue that he doesn't know how to talk to women.

Then again maybe that's an acronym I don't know about.

Dining
At
Y
Using
Mouth

Who knows............

I wouldn't even have responded after the laundry list of acronyms. Even if he isn't LE, he is absolutely begging to be busted. When he gets busted you do NOT want to be one of the ladies he has seen in the past.

Raegan
I like ya darlin (and the rest of you lovlies too!), but don't act stupid - and I mean this in the sexiest and nicest of ways... I say this because I want you to be around so I can finally meet you

Any doofus can create enough obfuscation to to get verified on these sites. LE can do it even more easily.

LiterBike has it right. As soon as he does the dumbass thing, delete all his emails and block his ass.

Of course a lady friend of mine says the acronym is actually:

Don't
Ask
You
Useless
Moron!

Now we all know!

Nothing is certain but it looks like you had a nice evening, he learned from the experience, and hopefully others did by reading the discussion.  Thanks for posting it.

x

You know....this email seems kinda familiar to me.

Never discuss anything like that. You did good!

It happens to me all the time.  They may be very nice men but I will never know because they stuck their own foot in their mouth, so to speak.  I just roll my eyes and delete.  I hate it because a part of me is sure they are just fine but another part of me says "do not risk it".  That, of course, is the part that rules.