I got a call yesterday, and as soon as I told the caller my weight he almost had a fit. I laughed it off and promptly HUNG UP.

I am not a toothpick...and frankly I find the toothpick body type....very unattractive. I realize that Americans are obsessed to silly levels with being pencil thin, however HE WAS RIDICULOUS.

I am 5'6 and I weigh 142lbs. I will never apologize for my weight. What amazed me about the caller was he almost called me a liar when I told him I wear a size 6 dress. He said that was impossible? So not only was he weight crazy, he had no idea how the dress size and fits differed according to body type.

I wonder has it ever occurred to anyone that providers often spend hour(s) working out. I lift weights and do other work outs daily. It would be impossible for me to NOT weigh more than my body would appear to weigh. It is muscle mass!!! Hello is this thing on?

I will never be as cut as a man. My hormones prohibit that, AND THANK GOD BC THAT IS GROSS AS WELL. However, I am very toned, as are a lot of my beautiful co-workers....hey our bodies and how we care for our bodies make up a huge portion of our job.

I love my BBW co-workers!! I say KUDOS to you for doing your thing!!! Every man has a desire for a different body type. Just please do not degrade a provider for not being the right size for you. There are thousands of ladies to choose from. If you don't like BBWs, thick chicks, skinny girls....or whatever you don't care for....LOOK ELSEWHERE!!!

I love tall thin ladies and full bodied curvy ladies and heavy ladies.  It depends on the lady, her approach etc.  Women's bodies are just intoxicating.

supposed to lie about their weight?

It's like a man's golf score, or dick size. There's a built in handicap. He might have thought "if she says 140 it's probably 160"

You could have said 120 or 130.

I've seen Large ladies, Tiny ladies, Black ladies, White ladies, Latin ladies, Asian ladies, and I love 'em all. Each one has had her own "special something" to offer, and I have happily accepted all offers.

Well Im a BBW/Curvy provider and its funny because some hobbyists believe that BBWs shouldn't make the amount of money as smaller providers. Ive heard many gentlemen say I won't pay no more than $150 for a BBW. Why should a BBW get any less than a thin provider? You're basically saying that a BBW is pretty much worthless. Besides its the quality of service that is being provided. But each its own, but don't insult a provider because she's not your type....just move on.

well said babe...But along the lines my grandmother was very much a true lady.
And one lesson my grammie taught me. There are three things your NEVER ask a LADY...
AGE WEIGHT INCOME....
And if a man asks any of them. he is not a gentleman!!!
I taught my daughter thos as well as I live by that.
I am a bodybuilder. In the days of competing .I am  size 4 and still weighed a whooping over 130 140 depending on the class I chose to compete in. One of my friends is a IFBB pro competetor. She is 5'6" and 142...A size 2.... Weight does not matter unless you expect her to sit on your face and you have a digital read out on ypour tongue.

but I did work at the circus, and if you sit on my face, I can guess your weight and age.

Your body is absolutely perfect exactly as it is. PERFECT. I don't care for stick figures either. I particularly like your side shower shot. It clearly shows a firm musculature wihtout the body builder look - a perfect balance in my opinion! You are gorgeous exactly as you are, so don't change a thing and don't worry about guys like that!

Just make sure you take plenty of time before you make your guess

It is a complete waste of time to give out your weight. If you pictures and reviews are accurate that should be enough. Men have to understand that people weight more when they have muscle.

I just looked at your picts...  & you are SMOKIN' HOT!  Delightful ladies come in all shapes & sizes.  Your pics tell more than any scale could ever.
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I have to say that while the number attached to your weight would normally scare me away, your pictures tell a very nice story.

Preferences aside, it's pretty damn tacky to ask a lady her weight.  I realize that I get to buy what I want and all, but it's still not like I'm buying a side of beef.  Jeez

He was picky and poor mannered. Each of us has our own charms and detractors. My assumption is he could review your website and still just had to ask the question...but to then have a verbal fit is really poor manners. You were correct to hang up and forget the individual...staying on the line or harboring resentment only harms the person doing so. A prospective sale is not worth being ridiculed.

The click of a disconnecting telephone without a goodbye does send the clear message, I do not wish to continue this conversation with you!

PS: It is good to vent the anger and forget.

You are right I could have said 120lbs....however for me to get and retain clients I can't start off our relationship lying about my weight.....or anything else. I keep it very real and just tell the truth. I weigh what I weigh......at least I am healthy.

I really paid him ABSOLUTELY NO MIND. However, once he realized I was no longer on the phone with him, he prolly called another provider and gave her hell about her body too.

I get asked a lot about how I maintain my weight. Esp my dinner date clients. They always think that I eat like a bird bc I am skinny. Somewhere between watching me eat a huge meal, and inhaling dessert....they realize I EAT LIKE A MAN. It is only bc my metabolism is very high.

I love food I really really do.....and the more the merrier. However I also love the muscle burn of working out.....LOVE IT!!!

Every provider that I personally know spends hours working out, huge dollars on special diets, and most of us have personal trainers. I don't think hobbyist realize our bodies are not just built like this FOR NO REASON,......WE WORK OUT!!

I get asked nmy weight all the time. I think my date-check profile has my dress size on it.

I don't know if many people realize that muscle mass is much heavier than fat cells. I have friends who are 150lbs and in a size 3-4 they are in excellent shape. However, they catch hell if a client asks them how much they weigh, and then try to relate their weight to a dress size.

Outside of a hobbyist asking for recent photos (which in my opinion should be on the providers web site) I have no idea how a hobbyist would know how to judge body weight.

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Well said!

I have also gotten the "I'm not paying that for a BBW" routine.

Walk on....

I do not give out my weight, I am well-reviewed, drama and drug free.  I don't work out two or three hours a day (four kids & civi biz; no time), but I do take care of myself.  A bigger gal is no less worthy than a "regular" sized gal, a red head is no less worthy than a blond, an ethnic provider is no less worthy than a Caucasian provider (and visa versa), etc.

my 0.2

Don't care pencil thin myself. Weight proportional to height is always nice and enjoyable more than one way!

each and every one of you unique. You all have something special to offer that nobody else has. Variety really is the spice of life.

I for one have always been attracted to spinner types. With muscular bodies. I was once a high school wrestling coach and at my age still lift weights and walk 3 miles a day weather permitting. I find the pure physical form of  women at their peak of perfection, to be most alluring. Thats just me and my cup of tea. There are alot of guys that like BBW ladies. I am 5'7" and some ladies weigh as much as I do  who look amazing and are height/ weight porpotional. I love all women but that doesn't mean I want to have sex with all of them. Just as many as my wallet will allow.

Allure, I think you have been adequately reassured by the masses that you have a very sexy body and you already realize that weight is only a number.

When I read your post I then went right into your profile to check out your photos. Not only a very hot body but a very hot ebony body.

It was then very important to see what city you operate from........ Damn......... not Boston

of different body types.

I came back to the States really fixated on petite spinner type ladies. And of course I often looked for that body type when making my to-do list.

However

A number of ladies who were definitely not spinners have rocked my world.

I have been taught "body type appreciation"!

I've always felt that appearance had a lower point of diminishing returs vis performance. I've adjusted that motto to include body type as well....

When a gentleman asks my weight I tell him my dress size. The fact is that everyone lies about their weight. I refuse to lie so I just wont tell. I will tell you that I am way over 142lbs and it has been 15 years since I saw that number but I am in better shape now then I was then. I'm including a very recent photo to prove my point. I wear a size 6 in a skirt and a size 8 in a top because my breast put me in the next size. So dresses are 6 or 8 depending on the cut in the breast.
Unless the guy is going to be carrying you around on his back for long distances it really shouldn't matter what you weigh. It has little to do with your size.

And I would pay anything toshe her.  Is she providing?

Babyyyyyyyy listen...I WOULD PAY TO BE WITH SERENA....GOOD LORD!!

I can't watch her play anything without getting all hot and bothered. Seriously I would pay her to sit on my face.

Ok I think I need to put the cognac down.


Allure`

Serena is 185lbs and 5'10"

I agree with most of the post....You are smokin HOT. Good for you on hanging up...not all money is good money.

I've never even thought about asking a provider her weight. Do you think they haven't seen your photos? If they have and they still ask, well I don't understand that at all.

Ugh.
Why do people have to play games like that? And not even fun ones, at that?
You're beautiful because you can stand on your own to feet, recognizing the sense of magnitude your own beauty brings to the world. I commend you!

xoxo