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1angelinajones See my TER Reviews 3851 reads
posted
1 / 31

Hey  Lovers,

Due  to  Covid  et  al,  those  of us  whom  enjoy  a  steamy  
make-out  session,  among  other  accouterments  associated
with  a  genuine  "Gfe"  experience,  seems  passé.
 
Do  you  miss  a  "Gfe"  experience,  or  is  it  no big  deal  to  you?
 
Has your comfort/safety  been encouraged by having been vaccinated?
Will you henceforth, cautiously proceed with a rendezvous with  
or without the vaccine?

Inquiring  Minds  Want  To  Know,
Angelina  Jones,  
"Inamorata"💋

holystonethedeck 105 Reviews 137 reads
posted
2 / 31

I did not stop seeing ladies during the worst of it. Of course, some stopped working.

I met a few ladies who were new to me, although they had been around for a while and are reputable. Every session was GFE, including kissing. If a lady were to say she wouldn't kiss then I would just wait until she felt safe before making an appointment. Actually, one lady I wanted to see in NOVA stopped her kissing and said she understood if I waited to see her - which should be soon.

Now I'm vaccinated so it's even better.

trex44 9 Reviews 125 reads
posted
3 / 31

I've been seeing my ATF regularly over the last year and we both enjoy GFE activities.

eastside70 47 Reviews 126 reads
posted
4 / 31

All of my dates during this covid time period have remained fully GFE as usual with the last one being the other day with a phenomenal TX provider.

If a provider was going to be cautious by limiting the kissing portion of the GFE experience that they provide, I'd wait on scheduling a date until they were ready to resume that aspect again. For my provider experience to be satisfying, I require the steamy make-out session as a part of it.

I don't ask about the vaccine because I feel it's really none of my business. We're all adults who should be responsible enough to know if we think we've been exposed and then take the necessary precautions to not spread it to others.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 126 reads
posted
5 / 31
SteadyAlways 123 reads
posted
6 / 31

One lady, whom I have been seeing about twice a month for over ten years, said she was stopping kisses with most of her clients. Except for me, lol, and X-number of others....  Anyway we have been growing older together  and not about to stop - hell, I know her pussy better than the wife's.

sdottaylor 19 Reviews 137 reads
posted
7 / 31

I love GFE. I hobby when I travel mainly and had to shelve a Houston-Dallas trip cause of the virus. Would've seen a provider in each city.

Ended up going to Milwaukee later in the summer, had plans for an escort but she cancelled about an hour before the scheduled appointment.  

Saw one of my local favorites instead. Se had protocols in place to be safe. She only took appointments every 2 weeks. I was not allowed to dine in at restaurants or work out and was temperature checked at the appointment. Aside from that, activities were normal.

Saw a touring gal earlier this year. GFE activities were done. Pre appointment precautions were not done.

Going to Phoenix next week. Seeing an old friend. I am fully vaxxxed. No idea her status. Cant really say care.

badger48 153 Reviews 106 reads
posted
8 / 31

Without GFE the session can go down by 50% IMO! With C19 and some providers GFE is just off the table/bed! I believe it will take down scores and in reviews do not make a session look attractive for anyone checking out a provider to visit! A good GFE added to the visit sends it through the roof! Now, I've had different degrees of GFE and they are always wanted and appreciated! Not passe' at all, maybe just on hold for some and I do miss it each time it's not included in the session.  IMO! But, with Covid you tend to give some slack!

DaveMogal 74 Reviews 125 reads
posted
9 / 31

Full gfe (bbbj, dfk) and fun.

DT_lover 188 Reviews 156 reads
posted
10 / 31

I did not hobby the first 7 months of 2020.  Started back slowly in Aug.  Vaccinated in April.  Making up for lost time now.

If you are in a room with a girl for an hour I don't think it makes any difference as for Covid whether you kiss just once, or DFK for the entire hour.  

I'm not a doctor...but I did stay at a Holiday Inn last night.

-- Modified on 5/3/2021 8:01:59 AM

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 67 reads
posted
11 / 31

In fact, I didn't even slow down.  There were plenty of providers working who did a temp check, mouthwash and a shower that kept the GFE flowing all through the Covid panic days. I got a Covid test every two weeks and never tested positive.  That way, if I showed up positive one time, there would be no more than five or six girls I would have to notify.  

 
Lions are never concerned with the thoughts of sheep.  Lol

GaGambler 59 reads
posted
12 / 31

and as my posts on the subject going back to the very beginning will attest, I never even considered it.

 
All these Chicken Littles gave up over a year of their lives, and for what? Absolutely NOTHING.

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 138 reads
posted
13 / 31

It is a big part of time together with a gent.
Who wants to jump into bed and  just get right to it.
Kissing,touching,licking,sucking is all part of the fun that really makes a very enjoyable time:)

I have been requiring every gent I see to wash their hands immediately as soon as they come through the door.
Surprisingly,I have had some guys give me pushback on washing their hands.  
I have heard Oh I took a shower before I came I am all good. Then we have to have the conversation about touching countless things from shower time until he comes through my door. Then they get it.
On a few occasions when a gent have came to see me and have  a persistent cough no kissing is offered,  
On one occasion I asked one gent to leave with his envelope as he was clearly sick and whatever he had I did not want.
Better safe than sorry

I have been traveling all of this year and the greater part of last year minus a few months last year.
I take my wipes I sanitize my room before I see anyone and after every gent I see. THe clorox wipes comes out. lol
I am fully vaccinated so I don't have concerns with providing GFE

nevertoolarge 30 Reviews 76 reads
posted
14 / 31

for NOTHING .....  unlike the half million plus that died .. or the 2 million suffering long term effects ........  or the other several million that spent time in a hospital.....,,,,,,,,,

onemoretime 232 Reviews 80 reads
posted
15 / 31
GaGambler 80 reads
posted
16 / 31

So far it hasn't had any more effect on me than has the virus itself.

 
Maybe some of us just have a built in immune system for guilt too? lol

WICardinalfan 37 Reviews 78 reads
posted
17 / 31

Opinions on COVID are like as ass hole, everyone has one an thinks the other person's stinks.

How to respond is an individual choice.  I am getting tired of virtue testing/shaming on the subject.  

One of my best friends died from it very early on.  Since that time treatments and the vaccine have come along combined with a drop in infection and deaths.

There is enough crap going on in the world.  

My two cents.  

DeClemente 48 Reviews 154 reads
posted
18 / 31

She didn't tell me ahead of time when we made the arrangements, and to her credit I did not specifically ask, but I found out within ten minutes of our date starting that because of COVID concerns, she took DFK off the table completely. I respected her decision without commenting, but I was truly disappointed, and it resulted in a one-and-one between us. It's really a shame, because almost everything else about her was 90% to 95% up my alley. Technically, she was GFE but held back temporarily on that one aspect of it for COVID (she has such a sexy, kissable mouth, too).

GFE is a main contributing factor in my decision to repeat with an escort, so if and when she shows it on a first date, I'm in. The difficulty can come from merely promised GFE that turns out to be GFE-lite, or GFE with an asterisk behind it, figuratively speaking. The way that GFE can be described differently by each person who talks about it also means that one's expectations might not match up to another's interpretations.

During 2020 and into the easing of restrictions brought on by vaccine-availability and lower negative COVID stats, I have taken extra precautions beyond the basic hygiene actions that any person respectfully undergoes to be intimate with another person, all in the interest of keeping the hotness level and the kinkiness level of P4P that I enjoy. I am very glad that I found escorts who thought and acted the same way.

DeClemente 48 Reviews 175 reads
posted
19 / 31

Posted By: jaydalee
Re: Foreplay is a must.
   
I have been requiring every gent I see to wash their hands immediately as soon as they come through the door.  
Surprisingly,I have had some guys give me pushback on washing their hands.  
I have heard, "Oh, I took a shower before I came, I am all good."  
 
From a client's point of view, sometimes the escort is the one who balks at a suggestion of on-the-spot cleanliness, described by me as, I want you to at least see with your own eyes and/or I want you to join me in cleaning up before we touch each other and before we swap bodily fluids.

Just like you, jaydalee, I don't want to hear "I'm already clean" or "Don't worry, I showered last night before I went to bed". Nor do I want to try and say that to the escort. Don't take my word that I'm clean, verify it yourself, just like I don't want to just take her word for it, I want to verify it myself.

Besides, foreplay can start in the shower stall, right? Yes, getting all slippery wet with your partner and playing with each other's body parts is a lot of fun.

I would like to see every escort brush her teeth within five minutes of us being together, and I'm also willing to do the same. Hell, I admot that I'm even envious of the blue mouthwash routine that Korean providers have made famous. It makes complete sense to me that On-The-Spot mouth hygiene leads to more and better probability of DFK, and of enjoying DFK.

I_like_escorts 22 Reviews 121 reads
posted
20 / 31

I have not noticed any loss of the GFE factor, to be honest, even though I hobbied twice in 2020: July and October.  Maybe I lucked out with a good agency, maybe the girls trusted me not to be a 'Rona carrier, or maybe who knows.  Although the most recent time I hobbied this year in March, I was already fully vaccinated, and the lady seemed to really like that.

Every time, I excused myself to wash my hands right after I dropped off the envelope.  Which is a tactic having nothing to do with 'Rona.  I learned it back in 2005.  It gives the lady a chance to look at the envelope, and it lets me actually wash my hands.  It's a courtesy on my part---I usually take a train to my sessions, and trains are filthy, with or without 'Rona.  If I'm gonna hold her hand and play with her hair---and that's just the start---I like knowing I have clean hands.

Either way, nothing changed from 2019.  Hugging, DFK, full touch, and what-have-you were all on the table as before.  

BarryWright 41 Reviews 52 reads
posted
21 / 31

How many of the 600K who died and those hospitalized caught COVID from doing GFE sessions (providers or clients)? Probably very few if any.

 
Still surprising to me how little we know about transmission, but it seems to me the biggest risk situations have been: (1) indoor events/situations with large numbers of people and bad ventilation, including workplaces, bars/restaurants, skilled nursing facilities, (2) bad luck from having a family member bring it home.

 
My impression is that P4P was a low risk activity, and that kissing or not didn't add any incremental risk.

SteadyAlways 135 reads
posted
22 / 31

I just can not personally imagine playing with a woman without freshly brushed teeth and hand washing.  I know that there are other guys that don't see it that way. I personally want to see only providers that emphasize be clean or be gone.

10goto20 4 Reviews 120 reads
posted
23 / 31

How does washing hands prevent covid or just reduce the odds of transferring the virus if you're going to have sex with a woman?

DeClemente 48 Reviews 110 reads
posted
24 / 31

Posted By: 10goto20
Re: Cleanliness and covid
How does washing hands prevent covid or just reduce the odds of transferring the virus if you're going to have sex with a woman?
While it may not be a 100% guarantee against germ transmission, hand-washing is one of the simplest things people can do to halt or slow down germ transmission. Think about the way our hands come into contact with so many different things and different people as we go about our everyday lives, more than any other part of the body. Washing them can help to alleviate the possibility and/or probability that higher numbers and types of germs pass from one person to the next.  

It's not perfect, but at the same time, not doing it is worse than doing it. That's true even if and when sex is part of the equation.

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 131 reads
posted
25 / 31

beforehand.  They were and are concerned about FIV and, as you say, "...our hands come into contact with so many different things..."  They don't want guys poking around with unclean hands.

DeClemente 48 Reviews 113 reads
posted
26 / 31

Posted By: BigPapasan
Re: Even before Covid, many providers required hand-washing...  
beforehand.  They were and are concerned about FIV and, as you say, "...our hands come into contact with so many different things..."  They don't want guys poking around with unclean hands.
Good points, BigPapasan, cleanliness is cleanliness, right?

blue5361 191 Reviews 115 reads
posted
27 / 31

I cut back the frequency of my visits and limited my partners to a short list of favorites for repeats! Most of the girls are cautious and slightly lower volume. They also continued to provide full GFE services throughout Covid! Thankfully the slowdown and precautions are behind us now! I’m back to a full schedule!

hobbyhunter69 89 Reviews 49 reads
posted
28 / 31

The guys who don't wear condoms are prone to being disease infested, right?

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 58 reads
posted
29 / 31
1192967 45 Reviews 116 reads
posted
30 / 31

Mid March to June 3 or 4 of 2020 things were shut down so no activity then but after that I was seeing my regulars as usual with one or two new ladies thrown in.  

 
I have seen someone nearly every week. Many were strippers in VIP. Everything was on the menu.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 55 reads
posted
31 / 31

Piss converts to ammonia is the air.

 
Seriously, after touching your nether regions, your hands are rife with creepy stuff.   Best to do as you were told in kindergarten and wash them with soap and water.

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