hey ladies i have a question im very much into girls and i wish there were more women hobbyist out there, my question is do you providers see women? are there any providers that would do another provider "pro bono"? i have had a couple request for female dates but none really come threw

I have had a few female clients (not including couples). In my experience they have been lesbians and quite shy. I think many women would not try to entangle themselves in this type of arena for many reasons, most of which are cultural. Furthermore, I think women are far more likely to seek some sort of connection over a purely physical interaction.  

Yes there aren't many of us here on TER, but the few of us here posting are fairly vocal.
I haven't had any trouble finding ladies wanting to see me.....in fact I am backlogged right now with prospects.  

that they are usually filled out by gents who wouldn't have the slightest idea what 'really bi' is. And that isn't their fault either. Media has taught them, if they see two women kissing, then they must be 'really bi'. My profile for example is listed as really bi. I however, don't really consider myself bi. I really do love playing with couples and occasionally there has been a single female who turns me on to the max, but that is rare, and often I find situational as well.  

You admit that you are not really bi, and it isn't fair to anyone who is seeking that criteria to waste their time trying to book with you. Women like me have enough issues setting up playdates....the last thing I need is bad data that wastes bandwidth when I ask for a playdate and the provider declines because she was never willing to accommodate me in the first place..

Do you mean hooking up? Dating? Sure, it happens. Fun, but very conducive to drama.  Lol

thanks ill do that  

can you list your website?

I am happy to contact admin, in that vane. My website however is completely honest. Short of saying I don't see women on my front page, I'm not sure what else to do. It is covered explicitly in my FAQ page.  

If a dude meets with a p4p,woman and says I would like to see you at our next session with another woman for a threesome, and the gal he is talking to says "I would LOVE that! I am really into other women as I am bisexual", what is the guy filling out her initial profile supposed to enter?

and we are out here, (even if not engaging on public boards), as Lopaw already said, as a start, it helps to be very clear about your love of women on your website. There are any number of ways to do this. But just saying "men, women couples", alone, may not get you there.

Recced for usefullness.

When I visited your website the FAQ section wasn't there. Must be new.
I'm thrilled to see that you have a FAQ section period, and that you have included this issue. Thank you. You've no doubt saved some female hobbyist a big headache.

as far as the huge gap between "truly bi" & "not really into it" and "close enough"?

I posed this question to sexwork twitter a few weeks or so back, and got met with radio silence for the most part.  I've been trying to figure out a way to market myself in order to gain more women clients, and never considered the fact that my overall web-presence might be off-putting to women looking for a provider.  

excatly they should have a section i think more women will come forward and become frequent hobbyist

It's almost impossible not to generalize---but, as far as provider websites, the vast majority I've seen have not conveyed, to me, that they genuinely enjoy women. I suspect many of those providers actually do, and would like to attract women clients.

I checked out your site and it is quite well done - your pics are exquisite! The only thing that i would change is to perhaps separate the FAQ & Etiquette sections away from the About section so that they are right there without having to dig for them.

What self respecting hetero man would have ANY problem with a little pro-lesbian stuff written on a gals website? LOL

Yeah, I've been considering that myself just as an overall general site maintenance thing. I appreciate the feedback!  

catch-on to the fact that providers are gettin' it on with "actual" lesbians. Like IRL, not into men, clients.  

While I personally stick to activities that I like (and monitor my profile for accuracy), A LOT of women will go gay for pay, act it out very well, and make a male hobbyist happy as you noted.  I doubt this fools most lady hobbyists (as evidenced by lopaw & AK above).  Is there a solution since the needs of the male hobbyist are much different than the needs of the lady hobbyist in this case?  You know most guys won't pick a girl who is great at gay for pay if she admits she isn't actually bi.  There needs to be a secret field available to only lady hobbyists with the real deal on if a provider is bi (or lesbian who acts with the guys), but of course that won't happen, and it also isn't practical to implement that.  Maybe in the future there will be a lady hobbyist counterpart to TER (but then men would really want to join!).

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You know I go DEEP. I have to. Have you seen some of the psychotics that post here? LOL

What we really need is a dead on accurate "gaydar" detector. That way, everyone wins.

....as long as the gal can sell it and I get what I need.

it's all good until the fantasy bubble breaks and someone gets' a 2x4 upside their head.  

Maybe it's more the degree of acting ability needed?  Or maybe you're just hot, lopaw, and nothing needs to be acted out

But I hear what you are saying and I get your larger point.

I have zero interest in full on Gay-for-pay acting and going through the motions. Can't really explain that one. But, if a woman is fakin' it to make-it? Meaning she really isn't into women? My spidey sense kicks in. And.....

Ok....yes....I cut and pasted that from one of Big Verns posts. Lol

The most pressing issue that some are forgetting/not mentioning is that being "really bi" is worth a point on the rating scale. If you don't do Greek, you pretty much have to say you are bisexual to get to a 10. And the bisexual point is the easiest point because duo reviews don't count towards either lady's scores. You don't need duo reviews to prove you are bi. So in essence, it's a freebie.  

....must be all those years hanging out in stripclubs

Watching two ladies going at it (no 2x4 unless it's for erotic purposes) - definitely makes my top 10 (maybe top 2) list.  Only thing better would be to be encouraged to join in.  But I'd enjoy just watchin'!!'

....is precisely that. The profile services offered info here (visible to only VIP members) is questionable at best. I never trust anything in there, especially the "bi" listing.  I use a providers own website for that type of info.

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As long as the second lady was her fantasy woman and it was a three hour appointment. Amazing is all I can say.

devoted to your love of women.  

Am considering a separate site for the ladies.

"To the lady janes out there...how do you think this would work if you came upon a website for women by a woman?"

Thanks, The FAQ section has been there from the beginning, but for some reason it keeps disappearing. One of several things that I have to discuss with my website host. Thanks for the reminder! xoxo

What you need from that section, and what others, particularly women might need from that section is different. Also our language in general I find quite lacking when it come to the spectrum of human sexuality. And what the media chooses to display about the spectrum of sexuality further cements the idea, that people fit in neat little boxes. Check A if straight, Check B if Gay, Check C if Bi. This doesn't even begin to take into account gender identity.  

Um, yes please 😊 I might have to move to your city if you were to do this.

.....I often go for long time periods of time without having it. I did notice that I have quite a few PM's sitting in my mailbox, so I will look into getting VIP access again

i would def join i am truly bi also  

is it really worth it? i have quite a few and was considering but wasnt so sure