that you could?    

Sometimes that second O just isn't in the cards, but I see the gal trying with all her might.  So, I fake it and let her know it was great.

It's a little white lie, and we both feel better later.

Most times though if I am having problems I just say let's let it go at that, and she's usually is OK with that too.

I have less troubles now because if it is a two hour session, I plan on only one shot, and if it is a long session, then I'll be good after 3-4 hours for another round.

I mean, I can't imagine not caring about pleasing a partner in sex. If she doesn't get off--try asking her sometime. It's more likely a woman will fake than lie--it really makes no difference after the date is over with.

Some women really take it personally if they can't make a man cum, so if I know it's just not going to happen, especially if it is my third time for the day, or if I've been drinking a lot, OR in many cases it's both my third go for the day AND I have been drinking like a fish. I often just pretend I have cum, rip off the condom myself and head to the bathroom to dispose of the evidence.

As for caring whether my paid companion cums, it's really not that big a deal to me. i don't take it as some kind of personal challenge to make a paid provider cum, as there are many factors that play into it. Too many to go into here, but how many guys she has already seen that day is certainly a factor.

It really only matters to me on an unpaid date,  and I don't put a lot of thought into it, not to mention I only really believe she came if there is physical evidence left behind, like a giant wet spot. and I am not Turdy, I can tell the difference between female ejaculate and pee. lol

sometimes I've planned a date but both my administrative assistant and my girlfriend seem to get a vibe or something because they both milk me dry the day before....     I want to keep the date so I show up but know its' going to be tough...  I'm more about the experience really then whether I orgasm so that's okay with me but may providers are so invested in being able to produce the result....     worst case situation I'll DIY til I'm close - maybe kissing with her laying beside me - to prime the pump as it were and then let her know when it's time to "finish" me.....

as the day wears on, so does the coochie :p    a woman may be multi orgasmic but a day of fucking has to take its toll now and then....      I have found that it does make a substantial difference to make before noon appointments -    and it is nice to give pleasure -   but since I am paying for the day, it is not as though I am going to take a big chunk of the compensated time to make it happen -    I guess that's why most of the Os I experience with providers are while fucking....       my administrative assistant and my girlfriend get most of the good tongue :p

If she feels comfortable, relaxed, turned on enough to cum... then I will certainly enjoy it thoroughly. But it is difficult to say I "made" her cum or to take credit for her own orgasm. At best, I facilitate. If it doesn't happen, I don't take it personally and it doesn't necessarily detract from my own enjoyment.  

fake an O. Why, however, is beyond me. Just enjoy yourself is what I say, who cares if there's always an 'end' result. More times than none the 'focus' of the 'end' is ruined anyhow because he's about to bust a blood vessel in his forehead concentrating so hard about it LOL.  

and maybe in a certain way - "competitive" -    I am usually not this way but occasionally....    I agree with Taylor said farther down the thread though - being too goal oriented is actually counter productive -   it's enjoying and paying attention to the journey that usually gets us "there" anyway....

we try to pleasure one another but "making" someone come is a bad way to look at it and actually counterproductive.....     If I'm licking her anyway (for my own pleasure since it is a paid encounter)  or fucking her (likewise)   I do notice if she is responding to something and follow where it leads....    but I don't try to "make" someone else come  ---  and I have found that sometimes when a provider slips into a mode of trying to "make" me come I lose interest....

and obviously non P4P gets more effort out of me than a one hour paid session with a high volume girl. We both know a guy could spend the entire session trying to get a lady off who is just plain out of "juice" I know I am often "out of juice" myself if I've already seen two or three other girls that day and no matter what the last lady of the day does, it's just not going to happen.

I will say that It doesn't mean I don't enjoy the session where I don't come, but I try to average at least a session a day, and it's a rare day where I can't cum the first time. it's those second, third and fourth times that can be a bitch at my "advanced age" lol

older women LOL. Cute though. Yes, 3 minutes and not in the 'single' sense. Doesn't take much with the 'sweet' spot in tact. If you can't figure that one out, how bout this...3 minutes and no 'skin' either LOL.

I love a responsive woman and would always prefer she have a real O.  As for me, I've faked orgasms with a civvy SO and don't think she knew.  I really wasn't into her that much and had trouble coming.  She would get so wet and sloppy that there was so much liquid down there I figured it would be impossible for her to tell. If she wasn't fooled she never let on.

I stated 3 minutes 'alone', not 3 minutes with a 'gentleman'. With a gentleman, no matter how amazingly skilled he is, it always takes alot more than 3 minutes. Unless of course, he's literally in my mind. While that may or may not have happened yet, anything is possible.  

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What they want and how.  As long as I eventually get my O, I'm usually more than happy to oblige a lady any reasonable request or follow her direction on how to get her off.  Every woman is different and I'm not a mind-reader.  Talk to me.  In vivid detail, preferably.  If she's not going to get off, it's not going to break my heart.  Sometimes it just doesn't happen.

I really hope you patched things up.

As my regular taught me, everyone is responsible for their own orgasm.  This was after I was having trouble finishing.  She said that the big head was getting in the way of the little head and that she and I had to each be responsible for our own orgasm and that I was too concerned with getting her off.  As with most things sexual, she is wiser than I.

but it's been quite a while. The last LTR I had with a woman my own age was around ten years ago and she was quite capable of "getting hers" in three minutes or less.

Maybe the Turdmeister should ask for CG more often, because that's exactly how she did it. She could climb on top of me, ride me, and in only a minute or two she could reach orgasm. It was a great skill on those nights where I was tired and didn't really feel like "putting out" much effort. lol

So yes, Tardy is correct for a change. "Anything IS possible"

when she would find her angle and get a bit of rubbing action going in the clitoral area and literally use me to bring herself off -   and I don't mind a bit :p

and quit being rude. "Anything IS possible" is most certainly correct.  

I can't see how that's competitive, unless the tone of the play becomes, "Bet I can get you off before you get me off," of something like that.

I'll make you a deal, you quit being the latter and I'll start doing the former.

and I never said I didn't hate "anything"  I have stated on numerous occasions that "hate is a strong word" and I certainly don't "hate" you, but why don't you try not posting like a BSC hooker who has gone off her meds. and maybe I will try that whole gentleman 101 thing you are talking about. Now why you don't you start by taking your meds like a good little psycho

to let the lady down by not fulfilling both of our expectations.

Even with the uniqueness of women, you have most of the responders in this thread at a distinct disadvantage.

In general conversation, when somebody says something like, "It's a nice day," it goes without comment. On this board, such a shameless assertion will be met by some with demands that you prove it's a nice day, cite your references, insist that this is only your opinion and that you must now go to hell without padding Go and without collecting $200 because you did not preface your careless remark with "IMO." Or some other qualifier. So, the way they want you to post, is something like.

gladly. Hang tight. I'll respond when I can Mr. Tidwell. It tis a busy, yet beautiful day here.  

Frankly, you're just not worth it.

I'll repeat. Look above ^^^^ for the definitive ensemble. I'll only spell it out once.  

You have come back in a very angry state.  What could have caused this?
PS: Nobody knows what your little acronym means and nobody is going to waste any time trying to figure it out.

But thank god you don't and never will.
PS: Why so angry today?

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I just can't figure out why you need to believe we get posts pulled and also can post whatever we wish. In my case I've never asked anyone's posts be pulled, especially yours, as they just don't get much of a rise out of me.  And many, many of the posts I've written about you never see the light of day.  If they did I can only imagine how distraught you'd be! LMAO!

My reasons

I have had some serous health issues down there (Think cancer) and it left me with an unreliable dick. Some days I can't get hard, some days I can get hard but can't come, sometimes I cum but it is dry, and sometimes I come but it takes a while. My failure to get there isn't on the lady as I am semi broken and if not 100% it will not happen. Some ladies especially younger ones, don't get guys aren't always able for what ever reason and well get down on themselves after it don't happen.  

does not mean that it can't be enjoyable....

Now I've  to go eat some sugar free jello again!



Steph

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